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aisha2 (f)
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How are you Jejelola. Am sorry i ve been away, trying to start my own business but God has been my strenght. Drop a line, take care. Have you gone to a orphange
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jejelola (f)
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Aisha how u doing? i av nt been able to go there,i'v been busy in school these days , i will soon, thanks.
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Laura B
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Its really a pity, But I have some questions as to understand you better.
(1) You said you were abandoned at the care of your grand parents? Please is it your maternal or paternal, this grand parents of yours, are they in the village or in town because does it mean that your so called parents (be it mum or Dad regarding whose parents you stay with) don't go to see their parents? (2) When your grandma died, didn't they come for the burial or she just died. (3) Don't your parents have sisters and brothers, I mean your Aunty and Uncle, Have you met with them? Since you stay with grand parents, am sure their other children (your aunty and uncle) come visiting them. (4) What have they said about the issue?
Is very bad that they are alive and treat you this way especially your mum, But the truth is that they are still your parents. And no matter how you want to forge ahead with your life, the feelings will still be there, My Dear, I tell you, there are things you have to do in other to have peace. Getting married will not solve that problem completely.
Until I get the answer to the above questions, then I will know what more to say as regards what you may have to do
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Laura B
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Its really a pity, But I have some questions as to understand you better.
(1) You said you were abandoned at the care of your grand parents? Please is it your maternal or paternal, this grand parents of yours, are they in the village or in town because does it mean that your so called parents (be it mum or Dad regarding whose parents you stay with) don't go to see their parents? (2) When your grandma died, didn't they come for the burial or she just died. (3) Don't your parents have sisters and brothers, I mean your Aunty and Uncle, Have you met with them? Since you stay with grand parents, am sure their other children (your aunty and uncle) come visiting them. (4) What have they said about the issue?
Is very bad that they are alive and treat you this way especially your mum, But the truth is that they are still your parents. And no matter how you want to forge ahead with your life, the feelings will still be there, My Dear, I tell you, there are things you have to do in other to have peace. Getting married will not solve that problem completely.
Until I get the answer to the above questions, then I will know what more to say as regards what you may have to do
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babyangel
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sorry about the stroy take heart one day they will call u back once u did nothing to them
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Radiant (f)
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While the story may be very porous I must admit that my heart bleeds for this chic. Only Heaven knows how she survived through these years. There must have been lots of "ways to survive" than the mind can imagine  I really don't know what to tell you. *A hug from me* If you live in Abuja, i could be your friend and we could hang out together sometime. Take care.
What a sister you are. *Hug you too* |
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jejelola (f)
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Yea I av been through alot just to survive ,can't depend on grannies all through ,had to look for a way to make it on my own , It really dawned on me when she died that there is no other person left for me than me , and God in heaven,
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holythug (m)
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eeyahi feel for u o
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