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madamkoko
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@ if your husband cna't perform, get a dildo.  If that doesn't help, get another husband. |
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michelin89 (f)
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Premarital sex no no no! Na me tell you make you dey sing this tune? Oya dance to the beat now!  |
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ama27 (f)
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its a good without guarantee or refund so u do the sharp thing , test before u buy . shekena! |
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kola oloye (m)
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what if they 2 couples have visited so many churches, prayed, fasted and yet no solution what should be done in pratical sense?
Let them keep on believing God. He is able.its a good without guarantee or refund so u do the sharp thing , test before u buy . shekena!
who later involved in an accident that he could no longer perform? May that not be our portion.
Let God direct us. |
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yemivictor (m)
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Premarital sex no no no! Na me tell you make you dey sing this tune? Oya dance to the beat now!
No premarital sex is no premarital sex!!
If you've made up your mind to dwell in hell please don't drag others down with you, many of them are struggling with their faiths already!!!
And just to punch a hole in your argument: What if you had the best shaggings of your life before marriage & due to some accident (God forbid) after marriage, your husband became impotent, han!?
So you see that your argument doesn't fly now, does it!?  |
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ama27 (f)
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ok on a more serious note: please define not perform?
also to what degree is this non performance? because there are diff solutions at varying degrees
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dre101 (m)
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Hmmmm Premarital sex is not good though, I would have prefer that. If the lady have faith, " With God All Things are Possible", but if her faith is not like the mustard seed, please " Divorce Him". I don't think that is a crime  cus he should have told the lady his predicaments before the wedding. |
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skyone (m)
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You have only one excuse to divorce
Only if either is fornicating!Matt. 19 : 9
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TOH (f)
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why don't you tell Jesus to come down and make it work if he wont let you get a divorce
No one brings Him in when men leave barren wives or wives who only produce female children for other women
Useless people.
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skyone (m)
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why don't you tell Jesus to come down and make it work if he wont let you get a divorce
absolutely illogical, do you know HIM at all? No one brings Him in when men leave barren wives or wives who only produce female children for other women
Useless people.
Ask yourself how many of these people really believes in JESUS and do you know what convenant they are into? |
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TOH (f)
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Send a message to Him for me and ask Him why he would allow a marriage where the husband can't perform and at the same time expect us to be "fruitful" or to stay in such a marriage
Until then you should probably comot from my face
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michelin89 (f)
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If he can't get someone to do it for him, afterall what could he possibly do? The man has no say!
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skyone (m)
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why don't you tell Jesus to come down and make it work if he wont let you get a divorce
No one brings Him in when men leave barren wives or wives who only produce female children for other women
Useless people.
Different wordings but same idea, anyway some people can't see things beyond their nose. The ball is in your court i'll leave you to it. |
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iseobio (m)
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I think it is too early to jump to any conclusion. I would suggest you arrange for him to go for extensive laboratory test. A good doctor will let him practice on different women.
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quadrant4
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Religion should not be confused with reality. It is not in all cases God answers prayers there are certain things in life u have to carry on with and ability not to perform sexually is one of such instances.
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misssexy u (f)
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firstly,this is cumbersome u knw,secondly i think ny1 that finds him or hersef in that condition "ll ave no oda option dan 2 pray because our lord is d grtest healer nd physician.
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quadrant4
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What is God does not answer the prayer what will u do?
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allboyz (m)
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Husband miss someone married.
meaning that the wife should know about it.
But honestly, its a choice and ONLY GOD can help
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sistawoman (f)
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I think it is too early to jump to any conclusion. I would suggest you arrange for him to go for extensive laboratory test. A good doctor will let him practice on different women.
I agree |
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michelin89 (f)
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If the man can't perform, leave am jare! If it were you who was barren believe me that man nor go think twice before he kicks you out of the house. Stop being disillusioned. That "He would do the same for me" is just a dream!
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sistawoman (f)
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If the man can't perform, leave am jare! If it were you who was barren believe me that man nor go think twice before he kicks you out of the house. Stop being disillusioned. That "He would do the same for me" is just a dream!
I guess that would depend on the age of the woman/man at the time of the marriage. Also do they have other children. Do they want more children. In my case we are waiting until our wedding night, I know that i gets hard because i have felt it through his pants so performing is something i am not worried about. But if he could not we would just see a doctor about it. Him and I both are not looking to have anymore children between us both there are 5 kids. so him leaving me if i was barren is not an issue. |
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michelin89 (f)
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I guess that would depend on the age of the woman/man at the time of the marriage. Also do they have other children. Do they want more children.
In my case we are waiting until our wedding night, I know that i gets hard because i have felt it through his pants so performing is something i am not worried about. But if he could not we would just see a doctor about it. Him and I both are not looking to have anymore children between us both there are 5 kids. so him leaving me if i was barren is not an issue.
The situation presented by the first poster is one whereby, during their first night, the woman discovers the man nor sabi. She is still in time to get that marriage annulled, because until it is consunmed they aren't married! |
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jkpretty (f)
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Yeah agreed premarital sex is wrong, but their are ways u know this things. Would u be saying, admist all those smashing kissing moments u never felt something jump into action. . . oh please give me a break!  |
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maedan (f)
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@ topic
it's a terrible thing to even imagine. But it's out there.
If the case is you're both married already, then too bad, because aside the "marriage is more than sex issue," it's all in the mind.
You might love ur husband and wan2 support him at this time, but just the KNOWING, it's terrible. Physical and emotional go together. No action, no satisfaction.
Dildo or no dildo, that intimacy that makes marriage what it is, is absent. Sad truth.
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t00 cUTE (f)
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masturbate ;d
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quadrant4
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So the question is can a man and woman be married without a sex? Is it a must that the man must perform what if he has money and other good things of life i know the woman will not mind that rather than sex.
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quadrant4
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Still waiting for positive answers to my question
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fntekim (m)
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Ferlie, let sane people reply to my question
Thanks
That part cracked me up |
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agaba123 (m)
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This is a real issue in most marriages. What will you do if you discovered on your wedding night and beyound that your husband you married can not perform at all in bed. Will u divorce him immediately, continue to endure or look elsewhere for what is lacking. Your view is needed please because it can happen to anyone out there.
In catholic church, it is a rule that if there is no sex after 14 days of marriage, the union will dissolved. The reason is that the marriage was contracted based on deception and therefor it qwill be annulled. |
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mesmya
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@topic
sorry but I'm not staying wt such a man,divorce is d next thing for me
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