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sexy_nes (f)
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How Do You Get A Man To Kiss You Without Looking Slutty Or Desperate?
Ok People, I know the world is moving "ahead"(please note the quotation marks) but I am still very traditional minded and I feel the guy should always make the first move and has to do at least most of the chasing. There's one problem though, there's this guy I like but not enough to date him. However, the boy has the nicest lips I've seen so far and I would really like the guy to kiss me but I don't know quite how to make him initiate the kiss. Any tips?
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bumbaby (f)
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common wait for him, if he doesnt have the sense to iniate it forget him.And it isnt by force to kiss!!!
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baby4u2 (f)
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just make sure your lips are succulent and juicy enough to kiss. make sure u pout your lips and make sure your mouth is in his face whenever u're both alone. that should do it. lol  |
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Olumide7 (m)
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you can't force a guy that doesn't want to kiss you to do so, rather, the next thing you will hear is GBOSA!!! i.e A DIRTY SLAP!!!   |
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bluenubian (f)
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olumide that was funny
hey sexy, i tell u, if the guy wanted to kiss u he would have done it a long time ago, forget about being traditional please, plus u never said if u guys were dating. if you're dating then there is s problem and he should have kissed u a long time ago. but if you're not dating what makes u think he's going to jus kiss u like that, abi na winsh, anyways kiss the guy and get it over with. yes guys chase but if u kiss him first doesnt mean you're being wayward, he might kiss u back and want to kiss u even longer, maybe he doesnt know how u feel and doesnt want to disrespect u, kiss him softly, then let him take over,
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dude (m)
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the guy is a proper slacker. if it was me, we would have gone far beyound a bloody kiss. i would have had you moaning and groaning under me long before now. in any case i have very kissable lips too. and am willing to help out and do beyound kissing.
are u down honey???
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dearie (m)
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Mr Dude, na wa for you o, is that the issue? She simply wants an advice and u are thrusting yourself forward, Naija guys sef, Anyway, luck to u!
As for u girl, You shl be mindful of the society u live in, if your antics are not enough to get him notice what you're trying to offer , he may simply be pretending not noticing u because he's not interested,That doesn't make him a slacker, he simply no want, abi! then give it up, because as for me, if u go beyond that, u make yourself worthless, and may be taken for granted.
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desiree (f)
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@sexy_nes
If he finds you attractive he would kiss you anyway, there is no point trying too hard.
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kimba (m)
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so after you get him to kiss you,
then what
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baby4u2 (f)
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like i said earlier plus this, make sure u do enough to try and make him want u, but don't jump on him that's not how proper girls roll. then abeg ehn sexynes if he doesnt try to atleast kiss u, just forget it he doesnt want to or is not used to it.
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desiree (f)
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try to atleast kiss u, just forget it he doesnt want to or is not used to it.
Abi oooo my sister, I must also stress that just try to be your normal self, you don't want to seem all pushy and in your face whereas he is laughing at you behind your back. Teenage boys can be funny at times. |
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sexy_nes (f)
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Thanks people, I see what y'all are saying and you guys reflected a lot of the thoughts that had been going through my mind. Meanwhile @dude, you are very funny. Why would you think that I would want to kiss you when I already said that I want to kiss someone else. Is that how I'll just be going about kissing people. LOL
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Big Shishi (m)
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the problem is that with girls , u never know when they want u to kiss them, I remember when , actually never mind  |
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bluenubian (f)
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@big shishi
i konw what u mean, but if u guys are dating, kissing should be a give,. don't kiss on the first date if you're uncomfortable, but on the second date u cud do it, if she has agreed to go out on a second date then she really likes u, now im talking to grown folks not the little hgh school dates kids have.
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DAMMYGLOW (f)
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who says he has to kiss you first
go ahead and make the first move
and fulfil your fantasies
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edatika (m)
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i don't seem to understand one thing.
do u just want to kiss d guy and go,
because i personally feel that kissing should be a part of a relationship
or do want him to be just your kiss-pal?
why not initiate a relationship
then u can eat his mouth for as long as u want.
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baby4u2 (f)
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rhodayln where did she beg for the kiss?
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eslynera (f)
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hey, i think she should just try to figure out of a way when she'll be alone with the guy and get their faces suddenly close to eachother. the girl shouldn't tripp, she should atleast show some emotions/feelings through her eyes, and if the guy'll feel like kissin her, he'll do it, if he's got no will to do it, or if he never thought about it and just turnz away ouch!   then the girl shouldn't force it much, she should just forget about it as well.  let us know when you succeed feelin the flirty lips!!! good luck yo  |
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Rhodalyn (f)
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rhodayln where did she beg for the kiss?
that was a ques not a statement! duh! |
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baby4u2 (f)
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rodayln i choose to believe that was not a question, it was rhetoric, i guess u know what that means cause u ended it by criticizing. duhhhh
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cammax7 (m)
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Nes, when I had ma first kiss *clears throat* she mad the first move. if u want it that bad go ahead and make your move girl and DONT BE AFRAID OF REJECTION. I guess thats whats stopping you from making the move.
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CoolDave (m)
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OK ,OK ladies and Gentlemen--- (As if you guys portrayed the mien characters of L & G)well, @Lady that needs to be kissed,it seems to me that this is not your first time of being kissed,the question was just to pull the legs of those with hot lips and , but you are having fun aren't you?
@pro-make the first move----No wonder guys don't want to smell the foul breath you offer for free.
@Against making the first move---If you are that truthful,you'll enjoy your guy when eventually he decides to taste the juice offered in the heavens.I suggest Kissing to be a special gift you should give to your guy on the altar.I'm sure my Grandma is applauding my suggestion.
@Bad guys---why taste the pudding while on the hot plate?You'll get your tongue all burnt.
@Me,Myself & I---I truly wish I could kiss my lady but I have made a covenant with my eyes not to look at the succulent lips of the most beautiful lady in the whole wide world-(My Darling sweetheart)
In summary,@sexy_nes,your id suggests some thoughts of xxx,have you ever tried kissing a coke bottle?It shows you ways of acheiving the most romantic&ecstatic feeling,if you are this hungry for a kiss,please buy the content and the bottle.Cheers
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Greatpeter (m)
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Which planet earth are all these thoughts coming from?
OMG!
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eslynera (f)
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from Nairaland house, just from the house, many heads put together you know?? @Rhod, yeah girl, no doubt. |
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Greatpeter (m)
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Good answer Miss Nairaland!
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curiousNja (f)
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Strictly for Guys? So what are you going to do? Put a gate, a bouncer, a password or an entry fee to this topic to prevent women? What, is there a requirement to show your d**k before entering?  |
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habibat (f)
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if u are desperate 4 his kiss ;)den u should go 4 it.don't wait 4 him 2 make d 1st move.but if u hear GBOSA; no b me send u message oooooo
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