Me And Ma Girls

I'm a fresh graduate from Unilag, I must Confess that i know i am very comely in many ways and that explains the bevy of women around me, but i av realised that having a lot of women is really not in my interest. Considering the fact that I am kind of Job Hunting and turned a new leaf.
Besides most of these girls threw thierselves at me, the problem now is, How do i extricate myself from these girls, I really wish to do so without hurting anyone anymore, 'because i have already hurt some.

Secondly, there was this one that became very close to me at service, I was just having fun, but she was building her obsession, now she's in limbo with me, each time we have a little quarell, she almost kills herself, infact i am amazed because she knew about the my escapades at service, yet she wouldn't loosen her grip on me. I Know i can't marry her, what should i do, please i need ur advice.
She sees me as pretending when i tell her i am now a new creature in the Lord.

don't lead them on in anyway, no playful hugs,none of that stuff some girls hmmmm, but then when u do that people will be quick to call u a fag, anyways God help u

as a new man in the lord, I'll advice u put everything in prayer and see wait on the lord. He works in miraculous ways

It happens bros and just keep prayin lol

if u tell them ur seeing a special gurl and they don't leave u alone just play ball abeg when/if u feel like it

or change location or phone numbers