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DAMMYGLOW (f)
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because they don't have lot's of to give out
guys are like donuts
full in the outside
with nothing to offer inside
except emptiness
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Big Shishi (m)
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because they don't have lot's of to give out
guys are like donuts
full in the outside
with nothing to offer inside
except emptiness that's harsh, the type of girl i like, do u want a big shish donut, i'm all sugar baby!  |
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twinkledew (f)
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guys are weak with their emotions.
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twinkledew (f)
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why do most guys say stuffs with sexual intent?
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Coco29 (f)
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honey i thought you were the loooove docter  |
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favourite (f)
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guys don't want to be hurt the way they hurt women.
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nwanne
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???this topic has always been a time bomb whenever its brought up.
presently I'm in a relationship thats headed for the alters,when i met him ,i observed how difficult it was for him to tell me how he felt.it took him 2yrs to open up his heart and tell me he loved me(it took the Grace of God before the words struggled out of his mouth).i think its got to do with the male ego and fear of rejection.
you never know, you try,right?All the best guys. JD
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Big Shishi (m)
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happy for you nwanne  |
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juddywoko (m)
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Well,2 me,i think d reason behind this is simply because most women are not worth falling in love with, or guys,abi na lie i talk? who ever doubts this,give me genuine reasons,
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ToyM28 (f)
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awwwww, comeon. aint that harsh.
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juddywoko (m)
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thanx man,abi what else do u expect me to say.na d very truth i just talk so
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juddywoko (m)
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toyosi,u not talking 2 me anymore.u dey vex 4 me?
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eveseh (f)
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because some women hurt them lot of times
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2fine4u (f)
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because they are dumbasses!!!
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Big Shishi (m)
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2fine, that is a 2dumb answer little mama |
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Shagari2 (m)
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'because it's too damn expensive! 1st your time goes than your wallet than your home than your life, why do you think men die 1st? its cheaper being a player, you get all you want for free.
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2fine4u (f)
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2fine, that is a 2dumb answer little mama why u denyin it?? u one of them dumbasses too, hehehe!!! |
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Big Shishi (m)
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little mama, i'm playing, u know i'm playing  |
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ToyM28 (f)
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crayola, y do u like lookng for trouble.
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Big Shishi (m)
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i dnt look for trouble, this place is trouble
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ThoniaSlim (f)
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cause never mind the strong side men show,deep down they are very emotionally weak.when they fall in love,they become very foolish. |
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ToyM28 (f)
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well, shishi, i suggest u better behave yourself, before this new personality of urs, gets shishied.
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labbylove
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itz those guys that are not serious that girls do that 4 i believe any break in relationship always come from the guys (i'm i right)
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Cleofel (f)
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CUZ THEY R SCARED A GIRL MIGHT BREA THEIR HEART.
THIS TOPIC SHOULD BE:WHY R SOME PEOPLE AFRAID TO FALL IN LOVE GUYS SOME LADIES R ALSO SCARED.
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wasty (f)
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1)they want to be the bigger person
2)they are scared about the reaction of the woman
and u guys know that without us, u guys are lost
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jammin (m)
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Men are afraid to love BECAUSE----
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phoenixman
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because what? if you aint got nothing to say, shut your trap.  |
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WebMonk (m)
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All well said and true. But i think the most painful aspect that when you see your ex with somebody else and you wonder "how could she get over you that fast?". Like "was it even there?" (depends on you sha)
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TerraCotta (m)
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Similarly, it is difficult to choose. Believe it or not, women, it is possible for a man to love more than one woman. Choosing to stick with one means giving up all the others- and guys are afraid of making a mistake.
Also there is the tendency of a girl to transform once she has 'caught' a guy. Sometimes it is so fast it makes your head spin. Then it is guilt and conscience that causes you to remain with her. when you finally leave, there are only bad feelings and, yes, regret.
All these point to one thing: it is hard for guys to stomach a closed relationship, especially one in which they were emotionally invested, and it is difficult to repeat something you regret having done before.
Finally, a person in love, male OR female is a very weak and vulnerable creature. This seems to be ok for women, but our crazy society expects men to be PILLARS OF STRENGTH AND FORTITUDE, which is at odds with this. Sometimes the woman herself may despise the man for being such a pathetic weakling and lose respect for him. Men are terrified of this (being percieved as weak) All this is right on the money. |
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adconline (m)
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because guys don't want to engage in a venture that is not real. Imagine if a girl likes you because of money or success and now wants to settle down. Guys will be like if it was not for the money or success would you still like me not to talk of love.
Any time a girl is over pushing for a committment, i believe that -
the clock is ticking,
you cannot be a liability
you are the best person she has ever been with
you are very successful and the future is bright.
Girls don't really settle for less.
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Cleofel (f)
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GIRLS R LIKE APPLES ON THE TREES,THE GOOD ONES ARE ALWAYS ON THE TOP AND THE ROTTEN ONES ARE ALWAYS ON THE GROUND. BOYS ALWAYS TAKE THE BAD ONES ON THE GROUND INSTEAD OF CLIMBING TO THE TOP B'CUS THEY R SCARED TO CLIMB AND FALL AND GET HURT.THEY R NOT BOLD ENOUGH TO APPROACH THE BETTER ONES AND SO THEY R NOT WORTH TRUE LOVE.
MAN UP,BE BOLD AND HAVE THE COURAGE.
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