If You Suspected Your Boyfriend Was Cheating:

No, because he will lie to protect his friend. Men have a code of slience amongst themselves

That's the worst decision you can ever make
There's no guy that cheats without boasting about it with his pals


IMO, just get to know what you think he likes about that other lady
Try your best to blend into his perfect lady, remember, don't push it
He might not even be cheating

One thing you should have in mind is that the relationship is yours to save

You should try to catch him in the act. Be clever

Do it yourself and pretend like you don't know?

Try to act like you trust him a lot so that can make him more careless. Don't make it too obvious though.

When you are around him act like your normal self.

That is the best way.

Don't accused him until you see for yourself?

This is one of the things friends don't share with their wives.

LOL! Funny but nice quote.

@post
The best thing to do catch him cheating on you.

I wont stress,

I'd ask him straight up and listen to whatever he comes up with.

Then If I'm not satisfied I'd make it clear that d day I catch him cheating will be the last time he'll ever see me, so he has the chance to decide.

If i find out he's cheating, I'll just walk away  

cheat too

call his friend and be ready to hear the biggest lie of d century

U are rite on that. 




LMAO

if you suspect your guy is cheating, he prolly is. i will try to catch him in the act to be 100% sure n make him pay (you don't want to know what i will do, but he will live to regret it for  the rest of his life) n move on.

if my hubby cheats then we r done, there is no working it out afterall thats one ground for divorce based on the bible.

Did U expect him to say yes? 

LMAO

U are really picking up in ur Naija slangs

confronting his friend or him for that matter is the wrong thing to do.  Just sit back enjoy the relationship and know that everything done in the dark will come to the light.  I can't tell you how many things just come to me and lay themselves in my lap.  All truth is reveled in due time.

I would in casual conversation just remind him that if he was to ever cheat that yall would be over (if of course that is your will)

I heard You loud and clear.

I am just wondering why You would confront him knowing damn well he is going to deny 


 _{And prolly start covering his tracks}

C'mon, would you like your girlfriend to assume things about you, or asking? I mean, asking is your way of giving him the avenue to clear up any loose ends. Now remember the topid didn't say " If my boyfriend is cheating  It says " If you suspect Now that's the difference. SO asking is the only choice you have, since you have NO tangible proof, YET

Yes I agree confronting is the wrong thing to do until you have the evidence.

let me tell you how i caught someone cheating once.

We always had this thing where we would go through each others phones, to look at pictures or get numbers for people he or I wanted to call.  This particular day as i was going through the text messages in the in box i hit the wrong key and went to the sent box.  There in the sent box were three outgoing messages to someone i had never heard of before:
1.  I miss you
2. dam your sexy
3. I can't wait

when i checked the in box to find the corresponding in coming text there were none.  He deleted all of them except for everything before and after the time of the outgoing ones.  he was hiding something and it was not a good something.  When i asked him who "Renee" was he quickly said "a friend from Massachusetts" and ran down into the basement.
Long story short his ass was caught and out in the street.