Infidelity 24 Hours to Wedding

What would you do if u catch your spouse making out (sex) with someone else a day before your wedding?

Adapted from the Movie ... "Ale Ariwo"

cancel the wedding duh!

The devil you know is better than the angel you don't know.  How do you know that your next fiance would not do the same or hasn't cheated on his past girlfriend?

Eventually one would be old and willing to take just about anybody.  It's probably better to learn to overlook offences  because the grass at the other end is always greener.

don't go ahead with the wedding!

well i will go ahead with the wedding, but it is not going to be the same.
he is got some explaination to do .

That is so mean 

why are you guys saying thats mean , she didt think of the guy before accepting to marry me. Thats not mean, If she loved me she wouldnt do it. So why would i spare her.

I feel you. But to .... is human, But to forgive divine. 

oh God,
terry, i know is going to be hardbut what if it is you that she caught.
i know u will want her to forgive you
like angel said to err is human to forgive is divine

Marriage to me is a life long commitment. She got a weddin tomorrow for heavens sake. She must be a nympho or lacks self control. She's not prepared for the wifely duties then.
I sure wont go ahead with that wedding. I wont postpone either (i'll cancel it).
I also wont discard her because no one is a saint. I'll forgive her anyway. We've just got some stuffs to settle before i know the next move.
"This is my Life, the world can wait"

"Nothing can be hidden under the sun"
My 'husband' would still find out sumday. No need goin through all that stress. I'll rather tell him myself.
A lie is a loop. U have to keep liein to cover it up and where do u end....

The truth truly sets u free baby.

Yeah i watch the movie but she neednt have gone that way. That was d cause of her problems. What stops her from tellin her man?
don't keep fire under ur clothes and expect not to get burnt!

are we talking about the usual bachelors' eve -  spinsters' eve madness or what??

I want u all to understand the basic fact that calling off or even postponing a wedding isn't that easy. Gosh! y'all don't know what L O V E means. If at all u catch ur wife in such an act (and probably u trust her so much and u also know that the love between u two is too strong), then u should be able to know something is definitely wrong somewhere. She couldnt have done it willingly or to hurt you. Perhaps, she's doing it to save ur marriage and ur being together as husband and wife, maybe as a result of blackmail of something she did in the past.

As for me, I'll continue with the wedding but on the wedding night, instead of the normal "play", I'll sit her down and we are going to have a serious conversation together after which I'll have no choice but to forgive her and try as much not to remember the scene of her in bed with someone else.

I know it isn't that easy. It might take me days to think about it (after the wedding) before I finally forgive her (that's if she's truely sorry). But then, I'll scold and threaten her in a manner that she'll never think of committing such an act anymore, no matter what!