My Mum Is Cheating

hi nairalanders,


am going to make this very summarised because its a very serious n delicate issue.
av gat a very serious issue bugging me,  The thing is, i think my mum is cheating on my dad wit one of my so-called uncles. i started suspecting them a few months back n i decided to set traps n investigate her alone, reason being that i've never really liked that my uncle anyway.  anyway, my dad lives n works in kano but comes home every month
That silly uncle of mine recently had issues wit his wife n they r temporarily separated n he's always comin to my house n callin my mum on the phone, n my mum never picks his call in my prescence, n weneva he comes, my mum would tell me that she's trying to help him sort out his issues with his wife.
i kept this all to myself simply because i really trusted n loved my mum (am afraid now am too hurt to even call her my mum) n it was really weighin me down, till thankfully my younger sis came home from school on saturday. last night , i called my sis n narated everything to her ,but she refused to believe, there n then i told her to be vigilant when my mum gets bk.
my mum got bk by 8.30pm last night, she was gistin wit d both of us in our room, until suddenly her phone started ringin n since she knew who it was that was callin she quickly ran to her room n recieved d call, i was followin her just to eavesdrop on d phonecall ( i was curious to know who was calling) but unfortunately for me, a call came in on my phone n i had to pik it.

soon after d call, she told us that she had to rush out that a customer was waitin for her at her shop at 8.45pm!!(she's a fashion designer) n she rushed in to take her bath,  while she was bathing i stole her phone n checkd her last recieved call, n lo n behold, it was that stupid uncle of mine.
while i was goin through her phone, he called again n i went to giv her d phone in d bathroom, when she saw it was him n i was there, she dropped d call. after she finished takin her bath, he called again to tell her that he was comin to d hse.

he came to d hse about 3mins later, n they started talkin until he left about an hour later

my question now is if she didnt have anything to hide, why did she tell us that it was a customer that was callin n why did she never go back to her shop llast night to go and meet the so-called customer  that was waiting for her at her shop.

please all, i need your opinions.

@yemivictor, i agree with you.

thanks a lot y'all

Thought I just saw this topic elsewhere 

@poster,
You need to apply wisdom in every step you are going to take.

@OP how old are you?time to mind your own biz methinks,let the two married people sort out theirselves abeg.close your eyes and walk on by.simply

~I suppose "So~Called Uncle" means he's not a blood relative?

~Did your "Uncle" have a close relationship with your mum before the dispute with his mrs?


~I don't know. . . but am thinking this cud possibly not be what your suspect it to be!!

~Taking into account your suspicion,you seemed very much convinced she's cheating!!!. . .it's likely your thoughts get clouded with mistrust, misunderstand certain suitations,jump to conclusionsi'll tell you  one thing though when the shite hits the fan,it flies everywhere so don't be hasty to make accusations. . . for all you knw there could be a reasonable explanation for your mum's sudden closeness with your so called uncle!!

~Do you seriously think your mum  will Intentionally flaunt her extra marital affair in your presence? ?or give you reason to be suspicious of her activities?

If I were in ur shoe, I will confront her and am sure mum will have something to say and I try everything in I can to stop her but I don't support the idea of sending message to your daddy, because that can leads to seperation and it will affect the whole family.