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Steroid101 (m)
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From www.datingkeys.blogspot.com/ Many men believe that it is wrong to say "sorry" to a woman. There are even some dating coaches who teach men to say "too bad" instead of "sorry" to a woman whenever they make a mistake. I disagree. I think it's perfectly okay to say "sorry" to a woman, as long as: 1) You have a real reason to say it. 2) You don't repeat it. 3) You don't ask for forgiveness. A real man shouldn't be afraid of admitting his own mistakes. If he screws up really badly, he shouldn't be afraid to apologize to anyone. Just apologize, and let it go. After all, part of being a man is accept responsibility for your own action. What you DON'T want to do, however, is to keep on begging a woman for forgiveness. A lot of men who do apologize to women make the mistake of apologizing "too much". The human mind is very interesting. If you "keep on" saying "sorry" to a woman, she is going to get on a power trip and keep "pretending" that she's mad at you in order to hear more - until she actually BELIEVES that she's mad at you. Sometimes, they will eventually forget WHY they are mad at you, but STAY MAD at you anyway in order to keep the upper hand. So, instead of begging for forgiveness, just say "sorry", admit you've made a mistake, and change topics. If she's really mad at you, leave her alone and let her blow up some steam. But don't ask for forgiveness. You've already apologized. Asking for forgiveness won't do you any good. Lastly, be careful about saying "sorry" if you're one of those guys who are "always sorry". While there is no problem with saying "sorry" when you have made a big mistake, you should NOT apologize for everything you do on a date. Nairaland real men, do you say sorry to your girl? |
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ayeesha (f)
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From www.datingkeys.blogspot.com/ What you DON'T want to do, however, is to keep on begging a woman for forgiveness. A lot of men who do apologize to women make the mistake of apologizing "too much". The human mind is very interesting. If you "keep on" saying "sorry" to a woman, she is going to get on a power trip and keep "pretending" that she's mad at you in order to hear more - until she actually BELIEVES that she's mad at you. Sometimes, they will eventually forget WHY they are mad at you, but STAY MAD at you anyway in order to keep the upper hand.  *ima go try it out then. will come back with my findings*  |
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ayeesha (f)
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For what now?
so as not to lose her. |
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toyinrayo (f)
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You men need to stop being egoistic baboons . , say sorry. it wnt cut off your balls  |
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full depth (m)
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never beg a woman,  this is an advice to all Men, do not beg them for any reason whatsoever, nonsense.
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ayeesha (f)
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You men need to stop being egoistic baboons . , say sorry. it wnt cut off your balls
pls help me tell them o! they rather a woman says sorry for every argument they have, even when its not her fault. i`m sorry has never killed a man before.*or has there been past cases we`ve not heard about* |
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Alapo meji
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You men need to stop being egoistic baboons ,,, say sorry. it wnt cut off your balls u, u ve come with your stupidity abi? nobody as said anything insultfull here, male/female. take your time o! |
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toyinrayo (f)
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u, u ve come with your stupidity abi?
nobody as said anything insultfull here, male/female.
take your time o!
No, you've taken priviledge of your stupidity. . . like I said, egoistic baboons. . .and you're already proofing it. , read my siggy buddy. . .adios  |
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Alapo meji
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so as not to lose her. hen hen! so r u saying u cant loose a lady even after saying sorry? |
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jassie (m)
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Alapo meji like 9ice~ copycat notin does ya  |
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Alapo meji
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Alapo meji like 9ice~ copycat
notin does ya Jassie like D'banj/Don Jazzy , copy cat Notin did u too jare  Me Alapo plenty,various,many,surplus, unlimited . . . etc how u doing today? |
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buzyDiva (f)
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I tire o why not? . . .if not? |
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toyinrayo (f)
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I tire o why not? . . .if not? OMO, NO MIND THEM JARE. . .they think part of being a man is being egoistic baboons  If my guy does not say sorry when he does sth wrong, wahala dey |
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buzyDiva (f)
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beats me how some of these men think? the way God created man na so he created women. |
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Aladunni (f)
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may some men not die under the full weight of EGO one day
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donpapa (m)
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~SORRY~ any mature man can admit when he's wrong and apologize. If its deserved I say it. But if its not then I won't. specifically,i might not be able to say sorry. It might be hard for me to say the words but i might show it in a different way (being extra nice,buying you things, taking you out, etc) rather than SAYING the words "I'm sorry" but being sorry is a feeling not the specific action of saying the words. So as long as you two learn to communicate with eachother, you will see that i says sorry more often than not. Really, the issue isn't about SAYING sorry but being sorry.
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onyinye2 (f)
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a man should always say sorry cuz he is always wrong
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toyinrayo (f)
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a man should always say sorry because he is always wrong
lmao. . . not always |
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buzyDiva (f)
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may some men not die under the full weight of EGO one day
Amin o just because of that yeye thing dangling between their legs. |
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Aladunni (f)
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Amin o just because of that yeye thing dangling between their legs. ha!!! i weak O |
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toyinrayo (f)
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Amin o just because of that yeye thing dangling between their legs. that's why they need to behave. abi, where will it eventually end up? |
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buzyDiva (f)
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that's why they need to behave. abi, where will it eventually end up? U'll neva know . . . these days . . its growing in their heads, their brains to be precise. |
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®Th£ Sly®
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There is nothing wrong in saying sorry if its CRYSTAL CLEAR that you've done what's wrong. Just tell her you are sorry. . you aint gon die by saying so. . . If she keeps talking. . .Just say ''sheeeeeeeeeeeesh''. . .Then go for a kiss. . . I promise you wont regret it. . .  |
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buzyDiva (f)
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There is nothing wrong in saying sorry ifs is CRYSTAL CLEAR that you've done what's wrong. Just tell her you are sorry. . you aint gon die by saying so. . .
If she keeps talking. . .Just say ''sheeeeeeeeeeeesh''. . .Then go for a kiss. . . I promise you wont regret it. . . good boy . . . i taught u well |
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®Th£ Sly®
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good boy . . . i taught u well U didn't teach me nothing jare. . . |
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buzyDiva (f)
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You didn't teach me nothing jare. . . c'mon naw . . u know i did |
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onyinye2 (f)
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as i said before the man is always wrong so he should always apologize
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buzyDiva (f)
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as i said before the man is always wrong so he should always apologize
nahh , not always sweetie some girls are very stubborn too o |
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