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ztyle (m)
Re: People Afraid of Flying: What Remedy?
« #32 on: June 09, 2008, 01:56 AM »

Na which kind flyinq this poster dey yarn abi na the witch own?  Undecided
krama (m)
Re: People Afraid of Flying: What Remedy?
« #33 on: June 09, 2008, 02:15 AM »

I was never afraid of flying. In fact i always prefer window because i like looking out. Those who are afraid of flying are simply being yellow! Grin Cheesy Grin
Nwaka77 (f)
Re: People Afraid of Flying: What Remedy?
« #34 on: June 09, 2008, 03:13 AM »

@ Nigeria 1
What has what you posted above got to do what the topic at hand  Huh I tire fo una oh! Undecided
krama (m)
Re: People Afraid of Flying: What Remedy?
« #35 on: June 09, 2008, 03:15 AM »

 Huh  Huh  Huh
datross (f)
Re: People Afraid of Flying: What Remedy?
« #36 on: June 09, 2008, 03:57 AM »

just passingby Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
nkc (m)
Re: People Afraid of Flying: What Remedy?
« #37 on: June 09, 2008, 07:20 AM »

remedy should be to try and not have d fear of heights, cos there are some areas only flights can take u there, so just be strong, U WONT BELIEVE IT I ENETRED PLANE , 1ST WHEN I WAS 25YRS, ON D DAY I WAS TO ENTER, I SAID , CHEI, SEE ME SEE PLANE, OKAY THAT I WONT ENTER ANY OTHER APART FROM ARIK, SINCE THEY SAID THERE PLANES WHERE NEW, IF I MISS ARIK, VIRGIN WOULD E NEXT. SO ON D DAY I ENTERED , BEEN A NOVICE, I JUST SAT DOWN IN D PLANE, THEY SAID BUCKLE UP, BROS ME I LOOK LEFT, I LOOK RIGHT I NO SEE BUCKLE( mind u , i'm an IT Guru,so i should at least know a thing or two) WELL INSTEAD OF LOOKING SO RUFFLED, I JUST LOOK AT BY NEIGHBOUR WITHOUT HIS KNOWING, AND COPIED A 2 Z OF ALL HE DID, AND I WAS SMILNG TO MYSELF, THAT I HAVE CONQURED, WHEN D PLANE STARTED,  I SAID NO SHAKING, BUT BRODA WHEN IT STARTED CLIMIBING, IT WAS LIKE MY BODY SANK INTO MY BODY, I ALMOST WENT NUTS, BUT ONE THING HELD ME TOGEDA, I SAID I WAS A MAN, ONE WAY OR THE OTHER ONE MUST DIE, BUT I WILL BE FRANK WHEN TURBULENCE CAME, I BECAME A SAINT  Grin
lai-lai (m)
Re: People Afraid of Flying: What Remedy?
« #38 on: June 09, 2008, 07:57 AM »

i also hav air/height phobia, and i beliv road transport is safer even though air transport record fewer crashes, funny abi?
its the flights within nigeria i dread most and i do all my best to avoid them though sometimes it is inevitable

i read some statistics that made me more scard, something like if a plane has 1000 crucial components and one component becomes faulty unnoticed, then the probability of a crash is 0.999, after i heard that, i cancelled a visit 2 my friend in abuja, the next time i entered a plane abroad, all i could tink of was that statistic and during that flight, i tot i heard a kinda different noise in the area i was sitting(i still beliv i heard it), i had to car the hostess attentn who was just smilin while i was talkin of a possible serious matter, she suggested i sleep off, i replied God Forbid in this kinda dangerous circumstances, i just gripped my only books and continued praying(i still think thats why that plane did not crash)

now, i rush sleepin pills b4 d flight and make sure i'm goin wit someone or hook up wit someone @d airport(i've almost missed flights though i dont travel a lot)
i cant bliv i'm such a scared kitty, i hav a plan on d way to study planes and also to try sky-diving and especially parachute jumping as hobbies and, u know

also, i neva found out whether we are allowed to take parachute on board even though most crashes don't allow time for that(i beliv i can still manoeuvre some time)

don't 4get, repent and be good if u are going to be travellin by air
busygirl (f)
Re: People Afraid of Flying: What Remedy?
« #39 on: June 09, 2008, 08:46 AM »

I'm also scared of flying Cry Cry :'(whenever i'm on board i fall ill instantly. . .i lose my appetite, feel dizzy and throw up constantly. . .i dunno how to overcome this. . . During turbulences i can feel my heart in my mouth. . .funny enough my younger sister is so calm even during turbulences. . I tried asking her for solution. . she told me i was persimistic, if i set my mind off negaive thoughts i'll be alright! I need advice from people too Cheesy coz dis is the only reason why i'avn't been to nigeria for holiday!
Toonice
Re: People Afraid of Flying: What Remedy?
« #40 on: June 09, 2008, 10:09 AM »

If na me a go sayo wel wel b/4 i enter plane, I mean just take at least 5 bottle of HARP OR STAR. or what did u think readers?
celebritee (m)
Re: People Afraid of Flying: What Remedy?
« #41 on: June 09, 2008, 10:24 AM »

Who be dis mallam wey dey post pictures wey no concern topic in question???
wisemaster
Re: People Afraid of Flying: What Remedy?
« #42 on: June 09, 2008, 11:52 AM »

Ironically, people more often than not die of what they dread so much.
ty4real (m)
Re: People Afraid of Flying: What Remedy?
« #43 on: June 09, 2008, 12:34 PM »

Quote from: celebritee on June 09, 2008, 10:24 AM
Who be this mallam wey dey post pictures wey no concern topic in question???

The dude was only giving an example of how you can overcome fear of flying now,at least hes occupied him self by taking pictures while flying thats if he ever flew Grin Grin Grin

Quote from: jennykadry on June 09, 2008, 01:25 AM
i hear u ty4real,na two of us go carry d canoe to d atlantic ocean,so that u go fit teach me how to set the canoe wella

Na you dey fear to fly oo jenny,so na u go carry the canoe go the sea even row am sef,then you should by that time have overcomed your fear of flying Grin Grin Grin Grin
zheroes (m)
Re: People Afraid of Flying: What Remedy?
« #44 on: June 09, 2008, 01:08 PM »

@ topic,

the remedy is to avoid flying and look for other suitable means of transportation.
rume (m)
Re: People Afraid of Flying: What Remedy?
« #45 on: June 09, 2008, 01:35 PM »


I have no fear of flying, but sometimes your brain makes you imagine things would happen. Cheesy
To overcome the fear, KEEP FLYING.To Prevent the fear from becoming evident, don't fly,
use a bus if it is a local journey!!!!
chaircover (f)
Re: People Afraid of Flying: What Remedy?
« #46 on: June 09, 2008, 02:05 PM »

The Emirates planes have on board cameras. One underneath the plane and the other on the nose of the plane. Apparently its supposed to allay the fears of nervous passengers by giving them a sense of understanding of their environment.

This achieved the opposite in my case. On Arriving at Gatwick and the plane was taxing to its allocated hanger and just as I was breathing a sigh of relief, I switched this function on for the first time and nearly collapsed in fear when I saw how close the plane was to the airport terminal building. I was thinking to myself will this plane stop or are we going to go through the glass??

I think most of the fear stems from the fact that as passengers, we have no control over the vehicle. When I am driving and in control of my car, I am happy to do 85 miles an hour on the motorway but I don’t feel comfortable when any one else drives me even at 40 miles an hour and am constantly pressing this imaginary brake and telling the driver to slow down.

As a plane passenger you are relying on many things…… ground technical staff to tighten and fit parts correctly, the correct amount of fuel is put on the plane, Pilots reading the manual correctly and flicking the correct buttons, the doors have been closed properly,  the landing gear will work, etc etc etc and …………, of course one hopes that the computers display the correct information to the flight crew……………, Software testers are probably the most nervous passengers J

I read a story a couple of years ago about 1 passenger who died and several others injured in turbulence so I take turbulence very seriously.

…………….and nervous passengers MUST NEVER watch Air Crash Investigation on the national Geographic TV channel.

God is the only one we can & should rely on
popsonj (m)
Re: People Afraid of Flying: What Remedy?
« #47 on: June 09, 2008, 02:20 PM »

fear of flying? Fly more Grin Grin
Probably jumping out of the window of a plane with a parachute!!
nobilia
Re: People Afraid of Flying: What Remedy?
« #48 on: June 09, 2008, 02:57 PM »

@Nigeria1

Is this sheer folly or display of retardness?. I didn't know they have started allowing mental patients to use ward computers.
PurestBoy (m)
Re: People Afraid of Flying: What Remedy?
« #49 on: June 09, 2008, 03:10 PM »

Quote from: nobilia on June 09, 2008, 02:57 PM
@Nigeria1

Is this sheer folly or display of retardness?. I didn't know they have started allowing mental patients to use ward computers.


This case is more than mental problem. I guess it's spiritual and he needs serious prayer.
Ibime (m)
Re: People Afraid of Flying: What Remedy?
« #50 on: June 09, 2008, 03:55 PM »

It is simple - most people only get scared when the plane is taking off and feel like their stomach is lifting . . . . . you have to lean forward when the plane is taking off and you wont have any problem.

Digiman (m)
Re: People Afraid of Flying: What Remedy?
« #51 on: June 09, 2008, 07:08 PM »

Quote from: chaircover on June 09, 2008, 02:05 PM
The Emirates planes have on board cameras. One underneath the plane and the other on the nose of the plane. Apparently its supposed to allay the fears of nervous passengers by giving them a sense of understanding of their environment.

This achieved the opposite in my case. On Arriving at Gatwick and the plane was taxing to its allocated hanger and just as I was breathing a sigh of relief, I switched this function on for the first time and nearly collapsed in fear when I saw how close the plane was to the airport terminal building. I was thinking to myself will this plane stop or are we going to go through the glass??

I think most of the fear stems from the fact that as passengers, we have no control over the vehicle. When I am driving and in control of my car, I am happy to do 85 miles an hour on the motorway but I don’t feel comfortable when any one else drives me even at 40 miles an hour and am constantly pressing this imaginary brake and telling the driver to slow down.

As a plane passenger you are relying on many things…… ground technical staff to tighten and fit parts correctly, the correct amount of fuel is put on the plane, Pilots reading the manual correctly and flicking the correct buttons, the doors have been closed properly,  the landing gear will work, etc etc etc and …………, of course one hopes that the computers display the correct information to the flight crew……………, Software testers are probably the most nervous passengers J

I read a story a couple of years ago about 1 passenger who died and several others injured in turbulence so I take turbulence very seriously.

…………….and nervous passengers MUST NEVER watch Air Crash Investigation on the national Geographic TV channel.

God is the only one we can & should rely on


@chaircover  yoyu are spot on!.

The fear of flying is caused by the fact that the passenger does not know the how and why  an aeroplane flies  and also they have no control hence the feeling of helplessness.

The best way to overcome the fear of flying is to get to know how and why an aeroplane flies, search the internet and you'll find explanations. Some people may also experience motion sickness whenever they fly, my advice is eat before you fly but do not over eat just do not fly on an empty stomach.

Takeoffs and Landings are the most demanding tasks for the pilot and there is a chance that things may go wrong but rest assured that your pilot has been trained to handle the situation - stalling, failed engine,  failed landing gear e.t.c (just pray that they remember what they were taught in flight school !).

As regards trubulence you will enconter them every now and then as long as you are not flying in bad weather you'll be fine. If your pilot has done his/her  pre-flight planning and obtained accurate weather reports he /she should be able to plan a route that avoids severe weather area.

I fly light aircraft so I am talking from experience   Cool.



jennykadry (f)
Re: People Afraid of Flying: What Remedy?
« #52 on: June 09, 2008, 08:33 PM »

@digiman

thanks a lot Smiley Smiley i guess im a bit relieved now  Sad Sad Sad
popsonj (m)
Re: People Afraid of Flying: What Remedy?
« #53 on: June 09, 2008, 08:46 PM »

Is it you that's relieved or your brother  Huh Huh Huh
jennykadry (f)
Re: People Afraid of Flying: What Remedy?
« #54 on: June 09, 2008, 09:02 PM »

wat kinda question is dat @popsonj
Ajebota (f)
Re: People Afraid of Flying: What Remedy?
« #55 on: June 09, 2008, 10:31 PM »

Quote from: nobilia on June 09, 2008, 02:57 PM
@Nigeria1

Is this sheer folly or display of retardness?. I didn't know they have started allowing mental patients to use ward computers.



buhahaha,  Help me ask the dude oh. Seems to be a serious nutcase!
LASIEFAIRE (m)
Re: People Afraid of Flying: What Remedy?
« #56 on: June 10, 2008, 01:22 AM »

flying is one thing i like,  i stay up most flight not because i can't sleep but rather i love seeing the view from the sky.
for those that don't like flying, one thing that use to work for me before i became a height maniac is to remember that
if the Pilot knows he/she can't fly the plane he/she will not pilot it and the only way  .to guarantee is life is to land the plane safely.

P.S. i just went skydiving that shit was fun. I will open up a thread with pictures. Cool


popsonj (m)
Re: People Afraid of Flying: What Remedy?
« #57 on: June 10, 2008, 01:59 AM »

thought you posted the topic @jennykadry
No harm Grin Grin Grin
Emkayotis (m)
Re: People Afraid of Flying: What Remedy?
« #58 on: June 10, 2008, 03:02 AM »

Quote from: jennykadry on June 09, 2008, 08:33 PM
@digiman

thanks a lot Smiley Smiley i guess im a bit relieved now Sad Sad Sad

Don't be relieved yet, anytime you are on board just keep calling Mallam Musa's name softly, believe me you'll sleep like a baby till you get to your destination. Grin Grin Grin
Emkayotis (m)
Re: People Afraid of Flying: What Remedy?
« #59 on: June 10, 2008, 03:07 AM »

Quote from: PurestBoy on June 09, 2008, 03:10 PM
This case is more than mental problem. I guess it's spiritual and he needs serious prayer.

Maybe we should take him(The Photographer) to see Pastor KING! Wink Wink Wink Wink
dreeldee
Re: People Afraid of Flying: What Remedy?
« #60 on: June 10, 2008, 03:38 AM »

Quote from: Emkayotis on June 10, 2008, 03:07 AM
Maybe we should take him(The Photographer) to see Pastor KING! Wink Wink Wink Wink
ha!! Shocked you wan worsen the guy case be that

@post think more of the positivity when flying and take your mind of the plane by thinking of something else, reading novels or the like will help
popsonj (m)
Re: People Afraid of Flying: What Remedy?
« #61 on: June 10, 2008, 08:39 AM »

If
Quote from: dreeldee on June 10, 2008, 03:38 AM
ha!! Shocked you wan worsen the guy case be that



Maybe Guru Maraji will do!
demi2008 (f)
Re: People Afraid of Flying: What Remedy?
« #62 on: June 10, 2008, 08:48 AM »

take a flying without fear course virgin atlantic does 1 checkout www.flyingwithoutfear.info if u type flying without fear in goggle you would see a lot of different courses on flying without fear
popsonj (m)
Re: People Afraid of Flying: What Remedy?
« #63 on: June 10, 2008, 08:55 AM »

Nice one bruv, just looking it up.
A better and more technical solution
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