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Ib (f)
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Guys i'm curious to know if you would seriously date or marry a girl who smokes cigarettes or maybe weed and drank. Ladies i also want to know you think about this. Do you (Ladies) smoke or drink and what how do guys perceive and treat you?
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Badman888 (m)
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if she drinks at a considerate level ok, but smoking nope, don't want to marry anyone that would give me problems and go to rehab
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Ib (f)
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What if she drinks like after work every evening? maybe a bottle of wine? would that matter?
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Badman888 (m)
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as long as it dosent affect her in anyway, am fine with that, do you have any expireince with anyone
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Ib (f)
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I've got a few friends who drink, not sure if to say they drink heavily, but they drink things like brandy and they smoke cigarettes. The thing is their relationships don't seem to last
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faf (f)
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drinking and smoking could be socially or occasionnaly hence if the person is addicted, the partner should try and convince the victim to stop! could start from rehab!
just correct the victim with love!
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Ib (f)
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but would u even toast the babe if you knew about her drinking and smoking?
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faf (f)
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if shes addicted or she drinks occasionally?
you know even though attitude counts, you still look for whats on the inside
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Ib (f)
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well not necessarily an addict, maybe she drank every weekend but smoked everyday
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faf (f)
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a Nigerian for that matter.! am not gay but i wouldnt associate myself with a man that smokes and drinks everyday
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diddy4 (m)
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i will try to get her to stop. if she says no den i will kick her out.
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DaHitler (m)
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I don't mind a light to moderate drinker. But I will definately not consider a smoker.
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Ib (f)
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But whats wrong with smoker?
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faf (f)
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sorry but smoking stinks!
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Badman888 (m)
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can't live with someone that smoke the smell again and its limits ur life span when u want to be with someone for a very long time
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DaHitler (m)
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smoking is disgusting. That is the worst habit to develop.
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faf (f)
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cirhosis of the liver is knocking on your door! and the smell! plus my head hurts when am around smokers
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Ib (f)
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Ok so whats the impression you have of a girl who smokes?
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faf (f)
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stinky, flabby, fat! smelly, disgusting! but could be very smart
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Ib (f)
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I'm worried because my very good friend smokes and is desperately seeking a relationship with a Naija boy, but she doesnt listen when i tell her that smoking may be one of the reason why guys avoid her
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Badman888 (m)
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i guess she would have to stop, unless it would really turn the guy off
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faf (f)
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you can't just say stop like that and she will! you have to help her out, help her quit smoking
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Badman888 (m)
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he would just move to another girl, to help the girl stop smoking is another 3yrs
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Ib (f)
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But if the girl knew that the relationship depended on her choice about smoking, i'm sure she'll change. But the thing is she just can't get the guy so she smokes to keep away the lonliness!
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aloib (f)
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i drink i smoke, so wats the big deal in it, as long as theres a limit, as long as its not in excess and u don't use it to give others wahala, there shuld be a limit to drinking, and smoking(not everyday, like once in a blue moon)
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lauryn (f)
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Whats wrong with girls that smoke or drink 
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Badman888 (m)
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ahh i can't stand the smoking part, i can't 
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lauryn (f)
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get a face mask
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j-girl (f)
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You can't change always change everybody to suit your taste. So if you know you can't stand smoking or drinking, look for a way out
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j-girl (f)
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lol @ lauryn. If he wants to kiss her nko?
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Badman888 (m)
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i wonder 4 layrn oo, If you can't stana girl that smokes, they are plenty out there that don't
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lauryn (f)
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they should both hold their breathes
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