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RedHotChic (f)
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Why do some men lead the women in their lives on when they know their relationship ain't going nowhere? which is more masculine, leading her on and not being man enough to tell her it's over or telling her straight up it's over? Could it be that cruelty is part of manhood or that these men actually think it's cool as long as the woman in question is not their relation?
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ariblaze (m)
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is the question really fair?
don't women lead men on too?
agreed we have more instances
of the male leading the female on,
in cases like this we can't entirely be sure
its cruelity on the mans part,or an ego rush
some guys just don't know what they want,at certain times
am sure this would have happened with quite a few of the guys who would
eventually reply this too
and mam
woman holdout on guys tooo
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RedHotChic (f)
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is the question really fair?
don't women lead men on too?
agreed we have more instances
of the male leading the female on,
in cases like this we can't entirely be sure
its cruelity on the mans part,or an ego rush
some guys just don't know what they want,at certain times
am sure this would have happened with quite a few of the guys who would
eventually reply this too
and am
woman holdout on guys tooo I agree with you, women lead men on too but men seem not to be complaining and they easily come around after a devastating heartbreak. |
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ariblaze (m)
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men seem not to be complaining and they easily come around after a devastating heartbreak . you actually believe that? my dear, the same blood that pumps through you does to us we mask our emotions better in terms of heartbreak as you females know how to mask yours when tripping for a guy
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RedHotChic (f)
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you actually believe that?
my dear, the same blood that pumps through you does to us
we mask our emotions better in terms of heartbreak
as you females know how to mask yours when tripping for a guy Which one do you think that leaves more residue? leading men on or leading women on(put the age saga into consideration). |
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ariblaze (m)
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am sorry i can't, but ignore the age thingy
because, you mean to imply because a woman's biological clock ticks
when she is lead on she is worse off(probably)
but , a man who has sacrificed all, am sure you must have heard stories (funny a female colleague just told me how she doesnt like a guy who has being dating her for over 7 years)
what do you want to say about that!
this guy is 38 never being married and she is 29
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Uche2nna (m)
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It is really funny to see how women think that men are immune to heartbreak.
I don't know of other men, but I have been heartbroken before and it was not funny. It hurt as hell. However, nobody could really tell because most men don't wear their hearts on their sleeves unlike the ladies. But deep inside , it stung as hell. I just took it out on the couple of girls that I was not really into.
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onyinye2 (f)
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poor uchenna. well personally i don't feel as if i am wearing my heart on my sleeve. if i got my heart broken well i had a life before the guy i will surely have one afterwards. there is no reason crying for something you can't erase. but except it. learn from it. then move on.
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ariblaze (m)
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It is really funny to see how women think that men are immune to heartbreak.
I don't know of other men, but I have been heartbroken before and it was not funny. It hurt as hell. However, nobody could really tell because most men don't wear their hearts on their sleeves unlike the ladies. But deep inside , it stung as hell. I just took it out on the couple of girls that I was not really into.
hear hear |
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RedHotChic (f)
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poor uchenna. well personally i don't feel as if i am wearing my heart on my sleeve. if i got my heart broken well i had a life before the guy i will surely have one afterwards. there is no reason crying for something you can't erase. but except it. learn from it. then move on. Yep, Dare To Live!!!!! |
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sheniqua
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It is really funny to see how women think that men are immune to heartbreak.
I don't know of other men, but I have been heartbroken before and it was not funny. It hurt as hell. However, nobody could really tell because most men don't wear their hearts on their sleeves unlike the ladies. But deep inside , it stung as hell. I just took it out on the couple of girls that I was not really into.
Chineke mee Uche? even you too? the only good man on nairaland besides debosky has also been corrupted?, chai!!  :' I hope morenike/4her knows this  ( |
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RedHotChic (f)
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It is really funny to see how women think that men are immune to heartbreak.
I don't know of other men, but I have been heartbroken before and it was not funny. It hurt as hell. However, nobody could really tell because most men don't wear their hearts on their sleeves unlike the ladies. But deep inside , it stung as hell. I just took it out on the couple of girls that I was not really into. Pele(that is if what happened to you is not karma) |
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RedHotChic (f)
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the only good man on nairaland besides debosky has also been corrupted?, chai!! I wonder why some fellow women still believe that a handful of men are up to some good in this age and time every scientific theory on how bad men are have been proven beyond every reasonable doubt. |
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ariblaze (m)
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Chineke mee Uche? even you too? the only good man on nairaland besides debosky has also been corrupted?, chai!! :' I hope morenike/4her knows this (whats the criteria for you conclusion madam? |
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sheniqua
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whats the criteria
for you conclusion madam?
I don't even know  |
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ariblaze (m)
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I wonder why some fellow women still believe that a handful of men are up to some good in this age and time every scientific theory on how bad men are have been proven beyond every reasonable doubt.
ok out with it madam who hurt you? you can speak with papa blaze.  Note:if u decide to start talking about how terrible men are we can dedicate a thread to just how bad some women can be too the earlier you know being bad is not gender related but personality related the batter agreed gender,is a factor too |
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ariblaze (m)
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I don't even know for being honest you are forgiven next time just make sure you add my name |
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RedHotChic (f)
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ok out with it madam
who hurt you?
you can speak with papa blaze. Grin
Note:if u decide to start talking about how terrible men are
we can dedicate a thread to just how bad some women can be too
the earlier you know being bad is not gender related but personality related the batter
agreed gender,is a factor too Hurt me ke? I beat men in their own game. |
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sheniqua
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ok out with it madam who hurt you? you can speak with papa blaze. Note:if u decide to start talking about how terrible men are we can dedicate a thread to just how bad some women can be too the earlier you know being bad is not gender related but personality related the batter agreed gender,is a factor too goodluck with hotfunmilayo aka topbooty aka needlelady aka osunamazon. |
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®Th£ Sly®
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Hurt me ke? I beat men in their own game.
Stop deceiving yourself! There is difference between men and kids. . . im sure you've been dealing with the latter. |
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onyinye2 (f)
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with some men there is no difference between a four year old and 21 year old.
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RedHotChic (f)
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with some men there is no difference between a four year old and 21 year old. thank you. i think it's a 4 yr old and a 38 yr old. most men start developing at 40. |
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RedHotChic (f)
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Stop deceiving yourself!
There is difference between men and kids. . . im sure you've been dealing with the latter. Talk is cheap, ban is expensive. |
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onyinye2 (f)
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Truly Hilarious!!!  |
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vicade (m)
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@topic I don't see why it has to be a guy that has to break off a relationship that is not working and not a lady. I still don't understand why ladies cannot stamp their foot and break off relationships that are going no where instead of hoping for a miracle only for a guy to do it and he is then labeled the devils advocate.
some relationships are doomed to fail,some will add to our experiience then fail while some lead to the altar. afterall if it is a guys role to ask a girl out so it is only fair for a girl to break it off if she feels the prospects of such union is null. Unless of course,all ladies are happy with their relationships.
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RedHotChic (f)
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@topic I don't see why it has to be a guy that has to break off a relationship that is not working and not a lady. I still don't understand why ladies cannot stamp their foot and break off relationships that are going no where instead of hoping for a miracle only for a guy to do it and he is then labeled the devils advocate.
some relationships are doomed to fail,some will add to our experiience then fail while some lead to the altar. afterall if it is a guys role to ask a girl out so it is only fair for a girl to break it off if she feels the prospects of such union is null. Unless of course,all ladies are happy with their relationships. There are peculiar situations where a man is all over a woman and everything appears alright while he's busy creating a family on the other end. Men can be cats with nine lives. |
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®Th£ Sly®
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with some men there is no difference between a four year old and 21 year old.
What do you know about men? You think those u play PS3 with are men? |
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®Th£ Sly®
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Talk is cheap, ban is expensive.
Step your game up and stop dealing with kids otherwise i'ma sue you for child molestation! |
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RedHotChic (f)
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What do you know about men? You think those u play PS3 with are men? Every creature that is male and is up to 25yrs should be qualified to be called a man,Ps2,Wii or not, what is your definition of a man and where in that your definition lies a man that does not act like a baby? |
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vicade (m)
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There are peculiar situations where a man is all over a woman and everything appears alright while he's busy creating a family on the other end. Men can be cats with nine lives.
and Vice-Versa |
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RedHotChic (f)
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Step your game up and stop dealing with kids otherwise i'ma sue you for child molestation! Knock yourself out, I know a few good lawyers. |
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