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Moyola (f)
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off topic!!  @ gabrywyl fanx 4 d reply about chinese marryin their relatives  |
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gabrywyl (f)
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off topic!! @ gabrywyl fanx 4 d reply about chinese marryin their relatives Yeap. Thats what I'm trying to say but I replied for courtesy sake.  No probs girl  |
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WendyRao
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WendyRao quote :- -----Be Frankly,those my girls with nigerian guys,they are all kind to me,we stay friendly,but some of them do not have stable work,might be because they do not have good certificate(I mean Good Education)/, and then they do not have a skill for life, So basic on this condistion,how are they going to to survie, I think possibly basic on boyfriend,
Ohhhh. . . . Ok I misunderstood you. So you mean your friends had to depend on their Nigerian boyfriends to survive just because they cannot earn a living on their own? Well. . . . I think that is a shame and I hope they don’t fall in love for the money and to survive but for real true love.
-----I think Not Exactltly Mean they are depends on their boyfriends,basically speaking,each couple has their own style to be togerther,so I think my friends with their boyfirends,they are working together to make money,thats different from me and my boyfreind,as we are working seperately,as he has his own business ,I myself running my own business,bu when he needed,I do him a favor/help me in business,most of them concerning with translating,as he is a foreigner do not know chinese well, its normal happened that he can not communicate with suppliers as well,
So thats brings somebody would forget the time even do not care whether am sleeping, just as his own wish make a call for asking"Baby,Please can you tell me how to say, In chinese, "?---But anyhow its ok,always happy to hear from him:)
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WendyRao
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Quote WendyRao quote :- ---Forget to tell you,when we move out for shopping,I used to rmber buy something for him/his parents/sister, as he did used to think of me/my parents/brother:) That’s very thoughtful of you and yes, its also for courtesy. We Asians should be like that. Its part of our culture. ---See Wendy REplied: Hehe, SHaring some sweet story here, when he decide back to visit his people,we used to go shopping preparing gifts for them(from newly borned baby to old papa), when he back to china bring special food and custume(His sister/mother said he MUST bring back for me,and helped him packed inside luggage, ), Sorry,I realy would like to type more here,but working just busy like that, wau,  maybe next time, |
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AshtonJake (m)
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OH MY GOD Wendy. . . . I'm so sorry to say this but the way you type in here, people will get confuse with your story as it is very misleading. Why don't you talk to your fellow friends whom dated Nigerian guys so that you could talk to them and express to them in Chinese? Cause I think you are confusing Gabby as well and she misundestood you so many times and now I think she also still misunderstood you (Can see it by reading her post and your post). I wonder how your boyfriend understands you? Can he talk in Chinese?  |
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WendyRao
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OH MY GOD Wendy. . . . I'm so sorry to say this but the way you type in here, people will get confuse with your story as it is very misleading. Why don't you talk to your fellow friends whom dated Nigerian guys so that you could talk to them and express to them in Chinese? Cause I think you are confusing Gabby as well and she misundestood you so many times and now I think she also still misunderstood you (Can see it by reading her post and your post). I wonder how your boyfriend understands you? Can he talk in Chinese? ---1.Thanks for your open/Straight talking, Yes,I see my explaining in english seems not so good, But I think if you have mind to read it well,Try to understand,You wil understand it more or less, Ok? ----2.Me and my boyfriends,we communicate in English as well, but sometimes we joke in Chinese, Basically speaking,I think he can understand me well as we has been together for a while, ----3.Am here,Never Expect Everybody to understand/Know what am talking, But whomever give me a reply basic on what i post I would be great pleased and thank to them. For those whom can not understand even ignore my post,I Dont care, Thats All!! |
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olrotimi (m)
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yes thats all  |
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WendyRao
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yes thats all , , |
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gabrywyl (f)
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OH MY GOD Wendy. . . . I'm so sorry to say this but the way you type in here, people will get confuse with your story as it is very misleading. Why don't you talk to your fellow friends whom dated Nigerian guys so that you could talk to them and express to them in Chinese? Cause I think you are confusing Gabby as well and she misundestood you so many times and now I think she also still misunderstood you (Can see it by reading her post and your post). I wonder how your boyfriend understands you? Can he talk in Chinese? JAKE. . . . HOW MEAN AND RUDE. . . . Do you even see yourself? Dude, I completely understand what Wendy has to say so if you don't understand, why don't you go to the next thread? Bro, I'm actually surprise, speechless and dissapointed with you cause I know you too well. You're not this kind of guy. . . Hmm! |
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WendyRao
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Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Call Their Girlfriends "Mom"? « #265 on: July 16, 2008, 05:41 AM » -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Quote from: AshtonJake on July 16, 2008, 03:41 AM OH MY GOD Wendy. . . . I'm so sorry to say this but the way you type in here, people will get confuse with your story as it is very misleading. Why don't you talk to your fellow friends whom dated Nigerian guys so that you could talk to them and express to them in Chinese? Cause I think you are confusing Gabby as well and she misundestood you so many times and now I think she also still misunderstood you (Can see it by reading her post and your post). I wonder how your boyfriend understands you? Can he talk in Chinese? JAKE. . . . HOW MEAN AND RUDE. . . . Do you even see yourself? Dude, I completely understand what Wendy has to say so if you don't understand, why don't you go to the next thread? Bro, I'm actually surprise, speechless and dissapointed with you cause I know you too well. You're not this kind of guy. . . Hmm! --------------Grabby,Just Thinking when he was typing here,possibily he was drunk,  |
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gabrywyl (f)
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Hey Wendy, I havent heard from you in a long time. How are you? How is your relationship with your boyfriend going on? The last I heard, it is doing fine so I hope that it will maintain that way. All the best sister. |
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WendyRao
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Hi gabrywyl
Because of Peak Season for delviery,
So has been busy for a while did not come here,
He called me to be his city by this weekend,
I DOnt think I would have time ,
Maybe he will come over my side,
Thats All, Thank for care My Dear Sister/Friend,
Good Luck to you!
Wendy
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AshtonJake (m)
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Hi gabrywyl
Because of Peak Season for delviery,
So has been busy for a while did not come here,
He called me to be his city by this weekend,
I DOnt think I would have time ,
Maybe he will come over my side,
Thats All, Thank for care My Dear Sister/Friend,
Good Luck to you!
Wendy
You wait for him to come and you wont go there therefore he will surely be sleeping around girl . . . .  Good luck to you.  |
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WendyRao
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You wait for him to come and you wont go there therefore he will surely be sleeping around girl . . . . Good luck to you. Is that Hows you Used to deal with your girlfriend? |
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WendyRao
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AshtonJake,
I Dont think thats your Own Pic in your Profile,
The Face Looks like thats an italian, OOOOOOOOOOOOO
Becuase we are doing business with Italian guys,
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gabrywyl (f)
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JAKE!!! SHUT IT OR ILL MAKE SURE YOU DONT COME VISIT ME!!!
Sorry Wendy, sometimes he can be very boyish. . . . . Ignore him girl. And also because of his attitude, thats why he doesn have no girlfriend. Oh and he is Spanish but he lives in Italy.
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WendyRao
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Haha ,
Gabby Thank you!!!
Noted that he is Spanish ,
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timmfikk (m)
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Hey, well to my own view, I think its not a bad idea that a man is calling her woman mom or mama or whatever, all i know is that it must be that he is in a kind of good or great mood, which will make him do that, such as feeling so much excited on a particular project or something else such as getting a promotion or the wife give birth to his desired choice, and so on, and also it has to do with the act of african man and american as well, i have been able to hear many american saying hello ma'm or something like mama,
To me, mom/mama means samething
Mom---old school
MaMa---old school
So i think any one can really feel great and cool among you ma'm s if your man call you such a name. Its showing a great honour to you and also showing he loves you more than you ever thought.
@Gabrywyl, your man is showing it to you that he is a great african man, and he also understand the word africa and thats why he is cheering you up all time with the word mama,
@Ibkhaye, well i think every woman or lady have a choice of theirs, what you need to do is tell your man you always enjoy it when ever you are called with the name"babie mi" and i believe he will understand but i want you to know there is no problem with the word mom or mama its all about encouraging and cheering you guys, ladies or womans of these world will always be the mom or mama to guys whenever till eternity thats their position in life.
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ibkaye (f)
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@timmfikk
it's just weird
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timmfikk (m)
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Yea, you might said so, thats a little bit to your own opinion but average Nigerian do like there man to call them such a name, alright tell me what you felt with the word you said you like babie mi Also can't believe your post 6666 was to timmfikk, uhmmm hope gabrywyl won't come out with another fishy word , hehehehehe |
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gabrywyl (f)
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Hey Tim, Nice to see ya in here. My boyfriend no more calls me mom anymore. Now he calls me Iyawo. I ask him what does it means and he refuse to tell me and just smiled. Even his friends did not want to tell me so maybe it means mom as well but in some Naija language??? What does it mean? Do you know? Hey, since when I came out with a fishy word |
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Scopium (m)
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It sounds stupid to me. I don't do it. I can be like Sawyer in LOST if I really like you and call you lots of nicknames. Nicknames where darling, honey, sweety, etc won't even show up
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sistawoman (f)
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Hey Tim, Nice to see ya in here. My boyfriend no more calls me mom anymore. Now he calls me Iyawo. I ask him what does it means and he refuse to tell me and just smiled. Even his friends did not want to tell me so maybe it means mom as well but in some Naija language??? What does it mean? Do you know? Hey, since when I came out with a fishy word It means wife. |
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timmfikk (m)
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@sistawoman, thanks for helping out @Gabrywyl, don't mind me so much, we have always know when we are both upto something, i am still looking forward to some revelations from u, gat it,  |
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gabrywyl (f)
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It means wife.
WIFE OH NOOOO This is bad. . . . . Ok that explains why all his friends are laughing everytime he says it. . . . @sistawoman, thanks for helping out @Gabrywyl, don't mind me so much, we have always know when we are both upto something, i am still looking forward to some revelations from u,gat it, Yes sure Bro but you always dissapear into thin air ohhh. . . . How can I catch you? And what type of revelations are looking forward to hear from me? |
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baby4u2 (f)
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Anyway back to topic. Why is that we ask nigerians to be creative and stop copying then they form "mom" as nick name for their girlfriends. Am shocked. I've been passing this topic since cause i thot the question was stupid not knowing it was really true. Nigerians leave mom for mothers now. Guys you can't even find something better, then some girls your allowing it. Meanwhile in america they don't call their girlfriends mom infact we never hear am here oh. so some people should stop saying false stories.
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gabrywyl (f)
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Anyway back to topic. Why is that we ask nigerians to be creative and stop copying then they form "mom" as nick name for their girlfriends. Am shocked. I've been passing this topic since cause i thot the question was stupid not knowing it was really true. Nigerians leave mom for mothers now. Guys you can't even find something better, then some girls your allowing it. Meanwhile in america they don't call their girlfriends mom infact we never hear am here oh. so some people should stop saying false stories.
HAHAH! |
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timmfikk (m)
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@Baby4u2 Here we come with another lie, Don't tell me its not said in the State, you will only tell us you never come across it, okay thats the point of correction i need to do in your post, more so, its really not new that babes are called mom, ask someone who knows better right from the beginning of the world is been happening and it will do continue, either we support it or not, there are other people out there who do always support such an idea. ok. |
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sistawoman (f)
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WIFE OH NOOOO This is bad. . . . . Ok that explains why all his friends are laughing everytime he says it. . . . What is wrong with that? do you not see him as a future o'ko' ( please forgive me if the accents are not correct) |
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timmfikk (m)
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@Gabrywyl,
You should be proud of that, so whats the problem with it, well they are laughing because they are happy for you. thats all i can say about them laughing
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gabrywyl (f)
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Well, I think it has to do with the cultural differences. I remembered my boyfriend told me that to him, he says that after one year of knowing each other and the both happen to love each other, both will get engage and than marriage after that. But when dating, the guy would call their girl Mom and African queen and all these names but for my culture, 1 year, 2 years, 3 years is too short. It take a couple at least 5 years to know each other before declaring each other as husband and wife. Thats why most of us get married quite late. I am flattered that he called me his wife but its a culture shock and I never knew of a guy wanting to be so commited to a relationship? |
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timmfikk (m)
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@Gabrywyl, So many people also support the idea of 3-5 years over here as well i have heard of people whom their was 9 good years, so its not a big deal shey, but also some do go for a shorter year due to the age or being so close and wealthy which do end up in divorce after 4-6 years of marriage.
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