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dyabman (m)
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Call Their Girlfriends "Mom"?
« #288 on: July 25, 2008, 08:05 PM »

stupid topic so far,
baby4u2 (f)
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Call Their Girlfriends "Mom"?
« #289 on: July 25, 2008, 11:56 PM »

na wa timmfikk you're in nigeria telling me what i know in america. No one calls their gilfriend mom here expect its the nigerians here and i have asked all my friends cause i was surprised and they are also surprised too. YOur the one that does not know what ur saying, i didnt say boyfriend don't call their girlfriend mom in naija (still doesnt mean its sexy), i said they don't say it here, maybe you should ask your people here.
gabrywyl (f)
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Call Their Girlfriends "Mom"?
« #290 on: July 26, 2008, 01:46 AM »

Quote from: timmfikk on July 25, 2008, 07:14 PM
@Gabrywyl, So many people also support the idea of 3-5 years over here as well i have heard of people whom their was 9 good years, so its not a big deal shey, but also some do go for a shorter year due to the age or being so close and wealthy which do end up in divorce after 4-6 years of marriage.

Yes but not for my boyfriend's family. Their's are short term and they expect us to get married soon which I am trying to find all types of excuses to not get married so soon if possible. Undecided
Cause for us Asians, we have to ensure that we are stable enough to support ourself, our parents, our husband/wife and our children and then we can get married. Otherwise, forget about marriage cause then we will consider ourselves to be a failure in life. Thats my family culture.


Quote from: dyabman on July 25, 2008, 08:05 PM
stupid topic so far,

If the topic is stupid to you, you don't have to give any opinions. Besides, if it really sounds that stupid, there wouldn't be more than 50 posters giving their opinions about this topic in the first place. Na waaa ohhh. . ,  . .See yourself ohhh brotha. . . Undecided


Quote from: baby4u2 on July 25, 2008, 11:56 PM
na wa timmfikk you're in nigeria telling me what i know in america. No one calls their gilfriend mom here expect its the nigerians here and i have asked all my friends cause i was surprised and they are also surprised too. YOur the one that does not know what your saying, i didnt say boyfriend don't call their girlfriend mom in naija (still doesnt mean its sexy), i said they don't say it here, maybe you should ask your people here.

Yeap sis, I'm surprise by it myself thats why I ask cause as far as I know, mothers are the one whom born you, not have sex with you. So I don't understand how can the boyfriends call their girlfriend's mom. . . . .

timmfikk (m)
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Call Their Girlfriends "Mom"?
« #291 on: July 26, 2008, 03:21 PM »

@Baby4u2,

I am not talking about Nigerians in the State, i am talking about black American's do not , have a mistake about my post, try and read well,  and also i am still wondering why you said i am in Nigeria and i am telling you what is happening at america,  please explain what that means, because i do not seems to understand any sense in that word, you don't know me and if i am somewhere else in the world saying am in NIgeria,  what about it.
timmfikk (m)
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Call Their Girlfriends "Mom"?
« #292 on: July 26, 2008, 03:37 PM »

@Gabrywyl,
Well i believe you can talk to him, and i mean him alone he will understand you more than his family. good luck
gabrywyl (f)
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Call Their Girlfriends "Mom"?
« #293 on: July 26, 2008, 03:39 PM »

Quote from: timmfikk on July 26, 2008, 03:37 PM
@Gabrywyl,
Well i believe you can talk to him, and i mean him alone he will understand you more than his family. good luck

Yes Tim, have done it. He knows and understands me thats why we are working on how to suit each other's needs. Its just that I find it a hosck for him to call me his wife infront of the public without me knowing it.  Undecided
rampant (f)
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Call Their Girlfriends "Mom"?
« #294 on: July 26, 2008, 03:40 PM »

is this thread still on Undecided  i tot it has been thrashed out
gabrywyl (f)
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Call Their Girlfriends "Mom"?
« #295 on: July 26, 2008, 03:41 PM »

Quote from: rampant on July 26, 2008, 03:40 PM
is this thread still on Undecided i tot it has been thrashed out

I thought so too. . . . Undecided  Huh
dyabman (m)
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Call Their Girlfriends "Mom"?
« #296 on: July 26, 2008, 04:22 PM »

Quote from: rampant on July 26, 2008, 03:40 PM
is this thread still on Undecided i tot it has been thrashed out

i wonder ooooooooo
gabrywyl (f)
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Call Their Girlfriends "Mom"?
« #297 on: July 26, 2008, 04:23 PM »

Well, maybe because some people still love this thread.  Grin  Grin






Thanks for the support guys. I couldn't have done it without you.  Cool
timmfikk (m)
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Call Their Girlfriends "Mom"?
« #298 on: July 26, 2008, 05:25 PM »

@Gabrywyl, Common ma'm i think you can get used to it,  you're going to be called that name forever very soon,  so why not, uhmm okay with it from now till then.
baby4u2 (f)
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Call Their Girlfriends "Mom"?
« #299 on: July 26, 2008, 06:09 PM »

@timmfikk

please stop confusing yourself and others. You said african americans called their girlfriends mom in ur post to me, after i claimed from what others where saying here that i have never heard it before. I said maybe nigerians here do that (which i have never heard and think will never hear) and not african americans. So what was i confused about or you didnt read what i said and what you then said to me. In the end my brother if you don't want me to think you're in nigeria there is no need to put ur location on ur page atleast alot of people don't. What is my crime if i think ur in nigeria telling me what i know here when ur page clearly says ur in naija. Lets not confuse you my friend, african american's do not, i repeat do not call their girlfriends mom in america.
rampant (f)
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Call Their Girlfriends "Mom"?
« #300 on: July 26, 2008, 06:24 PM »

Quote from: baby4u2 on July 26, 2008, 06:09 PM
@timmfikk

please stop confusing yourself and others. You said african americans called their girlfriends mom in your post to me, after i claimed from what others where saying here that i have never heard it before. I said maybe nigerians here do that (which i have never heard and think will never hear) and not african americans. So what was i confused about or you didnt read what i said and what you then said to me. In the end my brother if you don't want me to think you're in nigeria there is no need to put your location on your page atleast alot of people don't. What is my crime if i think your in nigeria telling me what i know here when your page clearly says your in naija. Lets not confuse you my friend, african american's do not, i repeat do not call their girlfriends mom in america.

emmm,i don't quite get u on that please expalin,is that nigerians don't call their babes mom in america,or some africans don't ?
onyinye2 (f)
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Call Their Girlfriends "Mom"?
« #301 on: July 26, 2008, 06:28 PM »

@baby4u2
AA don't say "mom". they say "ma" instead.
baby4u2 (f)
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Call Their Girlfriends "Mom"?
« #302 on: July 26, 2008, 06:37 PM »

onyinye thank you, ma no be mom. "Hey ma" doesnt that sound sexy to you? "Hey mom", how does that sound? Ma i believe is even a form of respect and it sounds sexier in their own mouth sef. @rampant i said i've never heard a nigerian calling their girlfriend mom here but i can't generalize cause i don't know all the nigerians here so i said maybe some do. But mom is not part of the slangs that guys use for girls in america. so african american's do not call their girlfriend mom here maybe some nigerians do like i said earlier.
timmfikk (m)
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Call Their Girlfriends "Mom"?
« #303 on: July 26, 2008, 06:56 PM »

Alright i don't need to say much more.
timmfikk (m)
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Call Their Girlfriends "Mom"?
« #304 on: July 26, 2008, 07:01 PM »

Well do you know what i will do to u,  good i just discover that right now, i am going to make you a hajia,  then we shall see how many people who will show up.hehehehe
timmfikk (m)
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Call Their Girlfriends "Mom"?
« #305 on: July 26, 2008, 07:04 PM »

Rampant,  i believe you said some bad statement about this thread earlier so you don't need to participate or post anymore if we are to count on your word ke.
gabrywyl (f)
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Call Their Girlfriends "Mom"?
« #306 on: July 27, 2008, 01:43 AM »

Quote from: timmfikk on July 26, 2008, 05:25 PM
@Gabrywyl, Common ma'm i think you can get used to it, you're going to be called that name forever very soon, so why not, uhmm okay with it from now till then.

Yeap. Agree Tim. Wink

Quote from: timmfikk on July 26, 2008, 07:04 PM
Rampant, i believe you said some bad statement about this thread earlier so you don't need to participate or post anymore if we are to count on your word ke.

Exactly!  Grin
ibkaye
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Call Their Girlfriends "Mom"?
« #307 on: July 27, 2008, 02:24 AM »

lol 'mom'

'mom, i love you, you know that right? you make me feel so whole and right now, i just want to make sweet passionate love to you, yes mom, i do'

 Tongue
gabrywyl (f)
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Call Their Girlfriends "Mom"?
« #308 on: July 27, 2008, 02:26 AM »

Quote from: ibkaye on July 27, 2008, 02:24 AM
lol 'mom'

'mom, i love you, you know that right? you make me feel so whole and right now, i just want to make sweet passionate love to you, yes mom, i do'

 Tongue



HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!  Grin  Grin  Grin  Grin  Grin



Ok sis, that sounds like ewwwww. . . .   Lips sealed
ibkaye
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Call Their Girlfriends "Mom"?
« #309 on: July 27, 2008, 02:29 AM »

lol, not to the guys who enjoy calling their girlfriends 'mom' Grin

'oh mom, i love you so much, i'm so happy you're carrying my baby, what will we name him/her?'
Tongue
gabrywyl (f)
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Call Their Girlfriends "Mom"?
« #310 on: July 27, 2008, 02:34 AM »

HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!  Grin  Grin  Grin  Grin  Grin




Stop it!!!
blue-sky (f)
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Call Their Girlfriends "Mom"?
« #311 on: July 27, 2008, 02:36 AM »

does ur boyfriend still call u mom? what tribe is he from?  Undecided
ibkaye
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Call Their Girlfriends "Mom"?
« #312 on: July 27, 2008, 02:36 AM »

'oh mom, do me like that again baby, you know how to make a man feel just right mom, oooh aaah'

Tongue
blue-sky (f)
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Call Their Girlfriends "Mom"?
« #313 on: July 27, 2008, 02:39 AM »

Quote from: ibkaye on July 27, 2008, 02:29 AM
lol, not to the guys who enjoy calling their girlfriends 'mom' Grin

'oh mom, i love you so much, i'm so happy you're carrying my baby, what will we name him/her?'
Tongue

mummy jnr?

does he call u mom in public gabriel?
ibkaye
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Call Their Girlfriends "Mom"?
« #314 on: July 27, 2008, 02:41 AM »

Quote from: blue-sky on July 27, 2008, 02:39 AM
mummy jnr?

does he call u mom in public gabriel?
hehehehehe
WendyRao
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Call Their Girlfriends "Mom"?
« #315 on: July 27, 2008, 05:23 AM »

Recently My Boyfriend Used to Call me  "Madam" ,
Means what ,Please?


I asked him.He Smiled/replied Madam is Big Madam,

wau, am Confused,
AnthonyKil (m)
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Call Their Girlfriends "Mom"?
« #316 on: July 27, 2008, 09:48 AM »

 Grin  Grin
gabrywyl (f)
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Call Their Girlfriends "Mom"?
« #317 on: July 27, 2008, 09:53 AM »

Quote from: blue-sky on July 27, 2008, 02:36 AM
does your boyfriend still call u mom? what tribe is he from? Undecided

Quote from: blue-sky on July 27, 2008, 02:39 AM
mummy jnr?

does he call u mom in public gabriel?

Nope, he does not call me mom anymore and he's Edo. He used to call me mom in public before but now he calls me Iyawo everywhere. don't know why but oh well. . . .

Quote from: ibkaye on July 27, 2008, 02:36 AM
'oh mom, do me like that again baby, you know how to make a man feel just right mom, oooh aaah'

Tongue

HAHAHA! Girl. . . . Wait till your guy call you mom oh. . . .  Grin  Grin  Grin

Quote from: WendyRao on July 27, 2008, 05:23 AM
Recently My Boyfriend Used to Call me "Madam" ,
Means what ,Please?


I asked him.He Smiled/replied Madam is Big Madam,

wau, am Confused,

Madam is a word usually people would addresss a female in a respectful way. Alot of people use this word when they are calling or talking to a lady. . . Geez. I don't know how to explain but overall, its good. Nothing bad in it.
ibkaye
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Call Their Girlfriends "Mom"?
« #318 on: July 27, 2008, 11:30 AM »

Quote from: gabrywyl on July 27, 2008, 09:53 AM
HAHAHA! Girl. . . . Wait till your guy call you mom oh. . . . Grin Grin Grin
God forbid such a thing Tongue
WendyRao
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Call Their Girlfriends "Mom"?
« #319 on: July 27, 2008, 12:14 PM »



Madam is a word usually people would addresss a female in a respectful way. Alot of people use this word when they are calling or talking to a lady. . . Geez. I don't know how to explain but overall, its good. Nothing bad in it.
Quote

----I know that kind of basic meaning,
But I mean For him and me,In Our Relationship whether Madam means wife ,


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