Ladies In The House Pls Help; What Does She Want From Me

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geospirit
Ladies In The House Pls Help; What Does She Want From Me
« on: June 16, 2008, 11:29 AM »

I asked this chick out, said she was dating someone but would give me a chance .before i asked her out she was cool and was not demanding but after i asked her out it seems she now turns to me for every need of hers though she is still in school and has no job yet  so those requests might be genuine. i am beginnng to feel she is just out for the money and the irony is that i truly care about her but she is begining to piss me off with her demanding  nature what does she want from me ,is she for real or she is using me for backup cos i dont know the status of the so called relationship she is into. i dont know what level to put her in my heart .i already concluded i would deny further requests until she reverts to her former sweet self b4 i asked her out . i am at apoint where i am doing a critical evaluation of this whole relationship thing so useful suggestions are welcomed
SENATOR JD (m)
Re: Ladies In The House Please Help; What Does She Want From Me
« #1 on: June 16, 2008, 11:39 AM »

Quote from: geospirit on June 16, 2008, 11:29 AM
I asked this chick out, said she was dating someone but would give me a chance .
ERROR Number 1,  Tongue
she agreed base on chance not love so don't expect anything unique
Quote from: geospirit on June 16, 2008, 11:29 AM
but after i asked her out it seems she now turns to me for every need of hers though she is still in school and has no job yet so those requests might be genuine.
Question? how was she providing for ''those'' needs before you came?Of course she must have had a source?

all I would say is follow your heart my bro, if it feels ok for you to continue ride on, but if not retrace your steps before u fall.
note the two points above.
i wonder at times why guys(some) come to complain about how a girl demands this and that from them in relationships. is that all relationships are about?,give me give me?? Cry
sistawoman
Re: Ladies In The House Please Help; What Does She Want From Me
« #2 on: June 16, 2008, 02:46 PM »

Quote from: SENATOR JD on June 16, 2008, 11:39 AM
i wonder at times why guys(some) come to complain about how a girl demands this and that from them in relationships. is that all relationships are about?,give me give me?? Cry

If your out to use a guy then yes, it is all about the give me give me give me.  If you have not had sex with her then i would say she is using one of my tricks that i used to use on guys, the promise/hint of female orifice.  Usually you can string a guy along for 3 -6 months before you have to cut him loose but before you get rid of that one you have to get another one.  Maybe you are that replacment.  If you put the demand on her to have sex then she will drop you like a hot potatoe unless of couse she is a slut and has already slept with you.  in that case use that girl up and drop it like its hot, lol Grin
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