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RedHotChic (f)
The Practice Of 'Hit And Run'
« on: June 18, 2008, 01:48 AM »

This question goes to most men that consider themselves playas and a few percentage of women that indulge in that act. "Hit and run" is simply sleeping with someone and bailing almost immediately.  Most guys spend their hard earned money, time, risk losing all they have, STD's etc just because of  few minutes of pleasure. It's a different thing if you approach someone with the intention of starting a relationship with her/him but the ones am concerned about are those that approach someone, spend their resources, waste valuable time, put a lot at risk for just few minutes of sexual gratification.

Question: After reading the cons above, Is it really worth it from your own  point of view?  If you think about about your escapades and all you lost for that short pleasure, was it worth  the stress?
Jackal (m)
Re: Hit And Run?
« #1 on: June 18, 2008, 01:52 AM »

It was worth every penny. Cool Cool Cool

Back in em days in ma borough, that single act earns a geezer STREET CREDIBILITY.
U can do the math.
HR.hotness (f)
Re: Hit And Run?
« #2 on: June 18, 2008, 01:54 AM »

Its called the thrill of the chase. . . 

and yes its worth it, nothin beats the feeling of satisfaction when u finally get your prey  Wink
RedHotChic (f)
Re: Hit And Run?
« #3 on: June 18, 2008, 01:55 AM »

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It was worth every penny. Cool Cool Cool

Back in em days in ma borough, that single act earns a geezer STREET CREDIBILITY.
You can do the math.
Did you consider whether the resources you lost can can be equated or less than the value of the notorious "credibility" you earned on the street?
RedHotChic (f)
Re: Hit And Run?
« #4 on: June 18, 2008, 01:57 AM »

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Its called the thrill of the chase. . .

and yes its worth it, nothin beats the feeling of satisfaction when u finally get your prey
At least a woman is also preying on men too. Who gets the street credibility this time?
HR.hotness (f)
Re: Hit And Run?
« #5 on: June 18, 2008, 01:57 AM »

Quote from: RedHotChic on June 18, 2008, 01:57 AM
At least a woman is also preying on men too. Who gets the street credibility this time?

dont need or want street credibilty

I do it purely for the thrill  Grin
j-girl
Re: Hit And Run?
« #6 on: June 18, 2008, 01:58 AM »

Hit and run, hit and run. . . . . . . . .reminds me of a certain animal.



A dog and by their answers - ye shall know them Angry
It's of no use - You don't get paid for it, you might get a lot of rubbish diseases and you're risking your life everytime you hit and run - where are the benefits in that?
4Her (f)
Re: Hit And Run?
« #7 on: June 18, 2008, 02:00 AM »

J-girl  Shocked Shocked Shocked you've become more aggressive  Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked


Me thinks seun needs to start banning you. . .instead of  me for aggressiveness  Cool
RedHotChic (f)
Re: Hit And Run?
« #8 on: June 18, 2008, 02:02 AM »

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don't need or want street credibilty

I do it purely for the thrill 
Ok, knock yourself out. Just stay off  hitting your neighborhood before they brand you a whore because it's only guys that can win the street credibility.
RedHotChic (f)
Re: Hit And Run?
« #9 on: June 18, 2008, 02:03 AM »

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Hit and run, hit and run. . . . . . . . .reminds me of a certain animal
roflmao
HR.hotness (f)
Re: Hit And Run?
« #10 on: June 18, 2008, 02:04 AM »

Quote from: RedHotChic on June 18, 2008, 02:02 AM
Ok, knock yourself out. Just stay off hitting your neighborhood before they brand you a whore because it's only guys that can win the street credibility.


words dont hurt me. .  . I dont need validation frm anyone

I know who I am and why i do what I do, and as long as I'm happy being who I am, the world can go F*ck itself!
Jackal (m)
Re: Hit And Run?
« #11 on: June 18, 2008, 02:05 AM »

Quote from: RedHotChic on June 18, 2008, 01:55 AM
Did you consider whether the resources you lost can can be equated or less than the value of the notorious "credibility" you earned on the street?

How much resources are we talking about here? Hundreds of GB pounds?
Puhleeeeeeaze. . . . . Men lose that in betting shops anyways so the loss is insignificant.
Hit and Run is centred around many motives. . . . Naturally, most men do it to see if they can get away with it. Wink Wink Wink
Busta (f)
Re: Hit And Run?
« #12 on: June 18, 2008, 02:08 AM »

Hit and Run is just a very stupid idea!!
j-girl
Re: Hit And Run?
« #13 on: June 18, 2008, 02:15 AM »

Quote from: 4Her on June 18, 2008, 02:00 AM
J-girl  Shocked Shocked Shocked you've become more aggressive  Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked


Me thinks seun needs to start banning you. . .instead of  me for aggressiveness  Cool
Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
I am not as aggressive as you are.
I'm against hit-and-run.
Any guy that does that deserves to wake up in the morning and discover that he left his wallet in the girl's place when he was running away.
I promise you, he'll just be hitting and running with care.
RedHotChic (f)
Re: Hit And Run?
« #14 on: June 18, 2008, 02:30 AM »

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How much resources are we talking about here? Hundreds of GB pounds?
Puhleeeeeeaze. . . . . Men lose that in betting shops anyways so the loss is insignificant.
Hit and Run is centred around many motives. . . . Naturally, most men do it to see if they can get away with it.
I don't think so. Guys do not indulge in hit and run just to see whether they can get away with it especially in Nigeria because they usually get away with it anyway. I think they do it because their horny ass has no damn control.
RedHotChic (f)
Re: Hit And Run?
« #15 on: June 18, 2008, 02:31 AM »

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J-girl  Shocked Shocked Shocked you've become more aggressive  Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked


Me thinks seun needs to start banning you. . .instead of  me for aggressiveness 
I think everyone here should have his/her own opinion dished out equally.
RedHotChic (f)
Re: Hit And Run?
« #16 on: June 18, 2008, 02:33 AM »

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Hit and Run is just a very stupid idea!!
Some guys don't think so. They think it helps sow their royal seed  smoothly.
Jackal (m)
Re: Hit And Run?
« #17 on: June 18, 2008, 02:36 AM »

Quote from: RedHotChic on June 18, 2008, 02:30 AM

I don't think so. Guys do not indulge in hit and run just to see whether they can get away with it especially in Nigeria because they usually get away with it anyway. I think they do it because their horny ass has no damn control.

It's not about their asses not having control.
Back in the Uni days, it was a game. You are having a drink with your mates and a gorgeous diva walks by. . . . . .
The pack picks on a dude and dare him to walk up to the woman and SCORE.
Most times, it's a bet.  This fills a man's ego up and adventure is one of the many characteristics of young adolescents. . . IT WAS FUN. Tongue Tongue
RedHotChic (f)
Re: Hit And Run?
« #18 on: June 18, 2008, 02:41 AM »

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It's not about their asses not having control.
Back in the Uni days, it was a game. You are having a drink with your mates and a gorgeous diva walks by. . . . . .
The pack picks on a dude and dare him to walk up to the woman and SCORE.
Most times, it's a bet.  This fills a man's ego up and adventure is one of the many characteristics of young adolescents. . . IT WAS FUN. Tongue
I wonder how you guys will feel if women play that kind of game with you. Personally, how will you feel if you, your sister or your daughter fall victim for that kind of game in the name of street credibility? What about guys that follow one chic for 6 months just to score once, is that still a game? 

Ulaaalaah, this game probably lasted longer than the English premier season.
proo212 (m)
Re: Hit And Run?
« #19 on: June 18, 2008, 02:43 AM »

Redhotchick is back again thinking she knows men,  Grin But she has no clue.
mylittle
Re: Hit And Run?
« #20 on: June 18, 2008, 02:45 AM »

all this talk talk, you have to understand that when the hormones are talking no one dares to interupt. My dear it's not fair but what can we do to help ourselves
acidrop (f)
Re: Hit And Run?
« #21 on: June 18, 2008, 02:49 AM »

hmmmm its not worth it oooo
HR.hotness (f)
Re: Hit And Run?
« #22 on: June 18, 2008, 02:49 AM »

I think the aim of this thread is to attack men. . .

Look dearie, men hit and run, they've done it for ages. . .  who knows why they do,

I have a problem with girls who think ranting about it will suddenly change the way things have always been.

Knowing what we do, how come some girls still fall for it?
Jackal (m)
Re: Hit And Run?
« #23 on: June 18, 2008, 02:54 AM »

Quote from: RedHotChic on June 18, 2008, 02:41 AM
I wonder how you guys will feel if women play that kind of game with you. Personally, how will you feel if you, your sister or your daughter fall victim for that kind of game in the name of street credibility? What about guys that follow one chic for 6 months just to score once, is that still a game?

Ulaaalaah, this game probably lasted longer than the English premier season.

It's a GAME.

Never let your guard down.  
Some men don't take REJECTION lighty so they persevere knowing fully well PERSISTENCE pays.
For a woman, once u say NO to a guy after the first week, u better keep saying NO till your grave(If u don't like the dude in question).

These type of men are ready to wait 2 years or more till u actually think they have passed the test of time.
The moment u fall in love. . . . . .  .Disaster strikes!!!
Use your church mind to figure out the rest. Cheesy Grin Cheesy
acidrop (f)
Re: Hit And Run?
« #24 on: June 18, 2008, 02:56 AM »

ask the men this question. even tho know will actually admit that they have done it b4
RedHotChic (f)
Re: Hit And Run?
« #25 on: June 18, 2008, 03:05 AM »

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all this talk talk, you have to understand that when the hormones are talking no one dares to interupt. My dear it's not fair but what can we do to help ourselves
Thanks for giving me a good laugh this evening.
RedHotChic (f)
Re: Hit And Run?
« #26 on: June 18, 2008, 03:09 AM »

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why they fall is because most girls love to feel important and appreciate and most guys use this as a front to get to them by making them feel like they are all they have just to hit and run. But some girls do the same to guys. I like to call it drain-the-account-and-run. Grin so that is why we hit first so as to not get drained.

Some guys get drained before they 'score' if i may borrow jackals vocbulary.  How do you guys play it when you are spending so much but it seems that scoring is not anywhere near, may be the chic is clever enough to know your game? Count your losses and move on or continue investing in the land till it bleeds oil? I need an answer especially from Jackal.
RedHotChic (f)
Re: Hit And Run?
« #27 on: June 18, 2008, 03:11 AM »

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Redhotchick is back again thinking she knows men,  Grin But she has no clue.
PrOfessional sweetheart, can you please let me in on men. If i recall very well, I accused both genders at the beginning of this tread and one woman already accepted being a playa because you guys are always quick to believe that it's only your likes  that have a tight game plan.
Jackal (m)
Re: Hit And Run?
« #28 on: June 18, 2008, 03:12 AM »

Quote from: RedHotChic on June 18, 2008, 03:09 AM

Some guys get drained before they 'score' if i may borrow jackals vocbulary. How do you guys play it when you are spending so much but it seems that scoring is not anywhere near, may be the chic is clever enough to know your game? Count your losses and move on or continue investing in the land till it bleeds oil? I need an answer especially from Jackal.

Very simple answer.

You apply the risk-based analysis.  Is this target worth pursuing or should i count ma losses and back off?
It depends on the goals ones have set before embarking on the project so it depends on the individual.
RedHotChic (f)
Re: Hit And Run?
« #29 on: June 18, 2008, 03:17 AM »

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Very simple answer.

You apply the risk-based analysis.  Is this target worth pursuing or should i count ma losses and back off?
It depends on the goals ones have set before embarking on the project so it depends on the individual.
Sometimes you think a woman that is not particularly preety or hot will be an easy lay but the more you delve into her affairs, the more she plays you. The more you think about your trap paying off, she keeps shifting the anointing day and keeps increasing her monetary requests that may range from pay my rent to help me complete the money for a new car. Do you really think any playa will have the heart to back off before reaping from an investment like this?
Jackal (m)
Re: Hit And Run?
« #30 on: June 18, 2008, 03:21 AM »

Quote from: RedHotChic on June 18, 2008, 03:17 AM
Sometimes you think a woman that is not particularly preety or hot will be an easy lay but the more you delve into her affairs, the more she plays you. The more you think about your trap paying off, she keeps shifting the anointing day and keeps increasing her monetary requests that may range from pay my rent to help me complete the money for a new car. Do you really think any playa will have the heart to back off before reaping from an investment like this?

You are very funny!!!!!  Playas don't date freeloaders. Grin Cheesy Grin
U really expect a geezer who hates time-wasting to date chics that want credits on their oyster cards, fone vouchers, rents, cars, utility bills?
Girls are in abundance. . . . .Matter of fact, there are many single professional women every corner u turn so why get maself involved with a complete tramp who would constitute a liability in ma challenge.  No way Jose!!!!!
onyinye2 (f)
Re: Hit And Run?
« #31 on: June 18, 2008, 03:24 AM »

this thread reminds me of this book i read called Contagious by Quentin Carter. all the guy did was go around and play girls. till he met his match. she used him like thread in a sewing machine.lol.
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