Making Love, Having Sex: What's The Difference?

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Big Shishi (m)
Making Love, Having Sex: What's The Difference?
« on: June 02, 2006, 09:45 PM »

 Okay, the resident randy billy goat, colourful cockerel, big shishi of a gunner or wuteva wants to know, this got me thinking because on this other thread, one of our female members said there was a difference, actually guys, what will you do if your girl said, "Thomas, make lurrrve to me", would you put on a cd of boys 2 men?, and start doing your bobby brown impression, or would you get feathers and ice cream, or take advantage of NEPA's shortcomings and melt candle wax all over her body?  Grin

Boys, I think making love is less about action, more bout emotion, you know controlling your strokes, while letting your strokes become one with her soul, making her swim on sexual ocean, while she dripping loads, reducing all tension, should i mention, the ladies love making lurrrve Cool

SO WUTZ DA DIFFERENCE??, MAYBE IF I KNOW, I'LL BE ABLE TO KEEP WIN OVER DA GIRL OF MY DREAMS!! Undecided

Hotstepper (f)
Re: Making Love, Having Sex: What's The Difference?
« #1 on: June 02, 2006, 09:49 PM »

as far as am concerned, if u r not married and having intercourse, u r having sex but if u r married, u r making love
queen2 (f)
Re: Making Love, Having Sex: What's The Difference?
« #2 on: June 02, 2006, 09:51 PM »

m opinion
I think having sex is all about having fun, When having sex it is two people sharing their bodies and possibly the lack of commitment, as to where making love it is two people sharing their bodies and souls. Making love involves communicating and cherishing the other person, it is a deep connection with respect and affection and when you make love there are real feelings and emotions

Also making love, is when you are genuinely sharing yourself with another person in whom you truly care for. You are giving them a part of you, and not just your body. You are sharing a part of who you are during the intercourse. The thing with making love is that you don't necessarily need to be having sexual intercourse to be making love.

If ur in love with someone, u can make love with them with a simple glance, a tender kiss filled with so much emotion that u both just get lost in that very moment and forget everything except what's happening in that moment.
faf (f)
Re: Making Love, Having Sex: What's The Difference?
« #3 on: June 02, 2006, 09:51 PM »

making love is something you do with someone you LOVE and its passionate while sex is just a one off thing that you do for your enjoyment!

only the terms are different but basically you do more or less the same thing.
Big Shishi (m)
Re: Making Love, Having Sex: What's The Difference?
« #4 on: June 02, 2006, 09:55 PM »

but i guess u can make love if u in love but not married?? common teach Shish!
lunafish (f)
Re: Making Love, Having Sex: What's The Difference?
« #5 on: June 02, 2006, 10:06 PM »

Making love is a physical expression of love which is intercourse with sentimentality attached.

Having sex is the action. It doesn't REQUIRE and emotional bond between the participants. However when there is a bond then they're making love.

In a good relationship; the couple make love on special occasions and it's romantic. However, they have sex more frequently which is more experimental and about fulfilling their sexual desires. Every relatioship should have both so that both partners are satisfied.
Big Shishi (m)
Re: Making Love, Having Sex: What's The Difference?
« #6 on: June 02, 2006, 10:08 PM »

how come only the females talking, where all my boyz at, sdon't y'all be learning nuthin??, all y'all know is wham!, bam! like a ram, and y'all wonder why these women be giving us attitude Lips sealed
Rhodalyn (f)
Re: Making Love, Having Sex: What's The Difference?
« #7 on: June 02, 2006, 10:10 PM »

Making love is when ya having sex with the one U love, yeah and it aint harsh or rough but sex could be with anyone and it's just Usaully 4 fun and could be rough and without mercy Grin Angry
Big Shishi (m)
Re: Making Love, Having Sex: What's The Difference?
« #8 on: June 02, 2006, 10:13 PM »

rHODA, STOP CONFUSING, MAKING LOVE AND HAVING SEX CANNOT BE USED TOGETHER, (HA! I KNOW MORE THAN A GIRL Grin)
hot-angel (f)
Re: Making Love, Having Sex: What's The Difference?
« #9 on: June 03, 2006, 12:56 AM »

QUEEN2 Said it all. I can't even say anything else. She got it right.
Rhodalyn (f)
Re: Making Love, Having Sex: What's The Difference?
« #10 on: June 03, 2006, 12:59 AM »

Quote from: Big Shishi on June 02, 2006, 10:13 PM
rHODA, STOP CONFUSING, MAKING LOVE AND HAVING SEX CANNOT BE USED TOGETHER, (HA! I KNOW MORE THAN A GIRL Grin)
lilllllllllllllllllllllllllllll ShIshI Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
mrmayor (m)
Re: Making Love, Having Sex: What's The Difference?
« #11 on: June 03, 2006, 02:34 AM »

Q.
Wutz da diff.b/w driving and crusing Huh no difference
my pipol Shaging na Shaging no matter the name u call am  Wink

Chekina
j-girl (f)
Re: Making Love, Having Sex: What's The Difference?
« #12 on: June 03, 2006, 02:43 AM »

Making love involves genuine emotions and you actually really care about the person and you are expressing the love you feel for that person through sex. Sex is just sleeping with someone for just pleasure
dominobaby (f)
Re: Making Love, Having Sex: What's The Difference?
« #13 on: June 03, 2006, 11:46 AM »

Really queen2 took d wrds out of my mouth. Sex is wit anybody, making love is with d one u love.
dominobaby (f)
Re: Making Love, Having Sex: What's The Difference?
« #14 on: June 03, 2006, 11:47 AM »

Really queen2 took d wrds out of my mouth. Sex is wit anybody, making love is with d one u love.
geniusmuyi (m)
Re: Making Love, Having Sex: What's The Difference?
« #15 on: June 06, 2006, 06:47 PM »


I agree with you dominobaby. I don't know how others feel about sex but I have never had sex with anylady without getting emotionally in love with that person.
DaHitler (m)
Re: Making Love, Having Sex: What's The Difference?
« #16 on: June 06, 2006, 06:53 PM »

There is no difference. Making love is just used to make girls think sex is something more than sex. It really isn't.  Cool
beyunce (f)
Re: Making Love, Having Sex: What's The Difference?
« #17 on: June 06, 2006, 07:22 PM »

Love makin is doin it wit the one u love.

sex is doin it for doin it sake.
Big Shishi (m)
Re: Making Love, Having Sex: What's The Difference?
« #18 on: June 06, 2006, 08:44 PM »

i seriously hope to fall in love, with EVE so we can practice 'love-making' Cheesy
ami89 (f)
Re: Making Love, Having Sex: What's The Difference?
« #19 on: June 06, 2006, 11:04 PM »

love makin is the art of blendin ur souls 2gether durin intercourse with love makin dere is passion fire thrill in every stroke u and ur girl or boy are in touch with each other its like it's just u and ur boy in d world nothin else exists at that point there's so much fire and thrill that u can't think of anythin else but ur Manchester United both r so in touch u flow with each other and finally reach orgasm 2gether Smiley Grin Wink

but sex is just him stickin his d i c k in ur p u s s y and goin for a few spins and he's out regardless of whether u reach orgasm or not (men could be selfish)  Angry Angry Angry
Big Shishi (m)
Re: Making Love, Having Sex: What's The Difference?
« #20 on: June 06, 2006, 11:15 PM »

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omogenaija (f)
Re: Making Love, Having Sex: What's The Difference?
« #21 on: June 06, 2006, 11:18 PM »

u have sex with a jump-off. and u make love to ur partner.
Big Shishi (m)
Re: Making Love, Having Sex: What's The Difference?
« #22 on: June 06, 2006, 11:20 PM »

what if all ur partners are jump offs?? actuall some jump poffs keep it 2 ya so good, u might want to replace your main chick! Grin
omogenaija (f)
Re: Making Love, Having Sex: What's The Difference?
« #23 on: June 06, 2006, 11:22 PM »

ur partner isn't a jump off. jump off is someone u fxck and jump off. nothing less nothing more.
with ur partner there is more. and if u have a partner than no need for jump-offs.
Big Shishi (m)
Re: Making Love, Having Sex: What's The Difference?
« #24 on: June 06, 2006, 11:25 PM »

jump offs are better gur!!, they don't get jealous, don't want to hold hands, don't get mad when u don't remember their birthday, ill make love 2 my jump off!! Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
omogenaija (f)
Re: Making Love, Having Sex: What's The Difference?
« #25 on: June 06, 2006, 11:31 PM »

it now clear that u don't understand. bye
Big Shishi (m)
Re: Making Love, Having Sex: What's The Difference?
« #26 on: June 06, 2006, 11:32 PM »

omoge, teach me , i do't know nada!
mrmayor (m)
Re: Making Love, Having Sex: What's The Difference?
« #27 on: June 06, 2006, 11:39 PM »

This is just amazing Cheesy only women think that there is a difference between having sex and making love.
Imagine Kennet Starr cross examining Clinton,
Mr President did have sex or make love to Monica Lewinsky?I wonder what his answer would be Shocked
If I cheat on my partner a good excuse would be,don't worry dear I had sex with her I only make love with you Cheesy
Big Shishi (m)
Re: Making Love, Having Sex: What's The Difference?
« #28 on: June 06, 2006, 11:43 PM »

mrmayor, u are a nutter Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
mrmayor (m)
Re: Making Love, Having Sex: What's The Difference?
« #29 on: June 06, 2006, 11:49 PM »

Bigshishi,
this our naija babes think with the back side of their brain.the problem is they read too much mill & boon like my girl Grin
Big Shishi (m)
Re: Making Love, Having Sex: What's The Difference?
« #30 on: June 06, 2006, 11:53 PM »

will and wetin, di only tin una girl for read BE IKEBE SUPER!!! Grin
mrmayor (m)
Re: Making Love, Having Sex: What's The Difference?
« #31 on: June 07, 2006, 12:02 AM »

make women keep am real,i don talk shagging be shagging.juss imagine wetin Duada the nackar or mr Nackson go call the ting nacking wey we all as naijarians know wetin e be.Lovemaking indeed Grin
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