My 23 Year Old Sister Just Tested Hiv Positive And Has Won American Visa.

OMG some beast in form of men, The pastor deserves to be shot. He knew he was positive and lead her on. What a sick excuse of a man!!!

Just tell your sister to get on with her life---GOSH, i'm just totally gob-smacked.

sorry to hear that though but they wont give her the visa once she tested hiv +ve.when she would go for med examination at Lagos, they would give her a form to fill  whether she wants to get tested or not and they would say it is optional but once you say no ,girl forget it you won't get the visa. I am sorry take heart but they don't give visas to anyone who tests hiv +ve.

 

Pastor for that matter, 

he ya, really sawrie to hear that

Under18, relax. You might find it hard to believe but it really is not that serious. Tell your sister to use the visa to go to America and once she gets there, she should get tested again. Once the tests come back positive (they most likely will), they would recommend that she take HAART (Combination of drugs that would slow the rate at which HIV turns into Aids). Since she has been diagnosed early, she should be able to live for 25-30 years as long as she stays on her medication. So, as you can see, 25-30 years using the current medication is still a very long time to live. Also, there are other HIV medicines that are showing strong signs of killing the virus that are still in testing phase (Should be out in 10 years or less if it works). Best of luck.

NA WA O

HOW DID THE "PASTOR" INFECT HER WITH HIV

DID THE DO BLOOD OATH OR THE HAD SEX?

AS A PASTOR, HOW THEN DOES HE DEFINE FORNICATION?

NA WA
THE GUY WICKED SRF, HE KNEW HE WAS +VE AND YET HE DID IT WITH AN INNOCENT GIRL

NA GOD HAND HIN JUDGEMENT DEY

MAY GOD SAVE US ALL

I am very sorry about this under18. God will take control - take afeni and chinani's advices. She will be more likely to live a bit longer. That pastor should be stoned.

sorry dear.as hard as this might sound its not the end of the world for your family esp your sister.that pastor will face reap badly.as for your sister she should get her viral load and CD4 done. that will determine if she is o start taking anti retroviral drugs, these drugs are miracle drugs and reduce the amount of hiv virus in the body to nearly undetectable levels. your sister can live for more than 20 years. keep the faith.

hmmm they might not say anything about rejecting HIV postive people on their website, why would they? that's discrimination but I'm sure that that's what they do. i also had to do the test, it's not compulsory but then they are like if u don't take, it could adversely affect ur chances of getting visa. but in your sistas case, i don't think they should care because shes not applying for a visa is she? she's actually won one and if they take it from her on basis of her serostatus, sue the embassy to hell! need a lawyer? holla at me

now darling, your sista needs to prosecute this stupid pastor, just think, how many other people has he or will he infect if you keep quiet. be courageous, after you will be leaving the country and any scandal behind by Gods grace. it is a crime to knowingly infect someone with HIV

lastly, how were u worshipping this pastor when he was sleeping with ur sista? abi u didnt know. what kind of pastor is that, the more reason why he should be exposed. so sweetie let this be a lesson to you, do not have any kind of unprotected sex with someone whose status u do not know because as you can see the hearts of men are evil.

* i meant men as in mankind oh

@under18

Read carefully and don't be deceived or mislead. I will address the two concerns you raised.

1. concerning your sisters HIV status. She may not be Positive. She should go ahead and get tested. I am a Doctor here in the US and believe me, couples have been tested and one party found to be HIV negative while the other is positive. It is imperative she gets tested so treatment can start. These days especially in the developed world, HIV is not a death sentence.

2. Concerning her US Diversity Visa situation, A candidate is permanently INELIGIBLE to receive a US immigrant visa if you fall in the categories listed below of which HIV is one. Heres the link: http://www.uscis.gov/graphics/publicaffairs/factsheets/HIVfs.htm

(a) Has a communicable disease of public health significance e.g HIV

(b) Has a Mental disease that can constitute danger to the American public

(c) Has a Felony (Criminal record)

IF she has the VISA already she can come to the US. But if she doesnt have it, one of the requirements is getting tested for HIV. From your post, I presumes she has the Visa already, in which case nothing stops her from buying her ticket and coming here.

I empathize with your family especially your sister, but its not the end of the road for her. My advise to her is first of all to get tested to know her status. If she turns out positive she can start on a healthy diet and combination medication that will improve her immune system and slow the progression of the disease. she can still live a full life.

Let me know when she gets her results, I might be able to help. There are many programs by the UN and other Charity organization from the US to Africa that I will explore for her. I am in paediatrics but I have a lot of friends in Public health and communicable dieseases. Yours is definately not a hopeless situation.

Shalom.


@chinani

Your advice to her was great, however, the link only addresses "pre-winning" the visa lottery, it doesnt talk about the procedure to actually obtaining the VISA. Winning the lottery is one thing, actually getting the visa is another. There is a disclaimer that states winning the Visa loterry doesnt guarantee automatic VISA issuance. Look on the USCIS website you will see waht i mean.
Here is an excerpt: Section 212(a)(1)(A)(i) of the Immigration and Nationality Act (Act) states that any alien who is diagnosed to have a communicable disease of public health significance is inadmissible. The etiological agent for acquired immune deficiency syndrome (AIDS), or HIV infection, is specifically included in this provision. Section 212(g)(1)(A) of the Act further provides, in pertinent part, that the Secretary of the Department of Homeland Security (DHS) may waive such inadmissibility in the case of an alien who is the spouse or child of a United States citizen or lawful permanent resident

Here is the link to the page on USCIS(United States Citizens and Immigration Bureau) website: http://www.uscis.gov/graphics/publicaffairs/factsheets/HIVfs.htm

cheers

sorry to hear this news.  please pray.  first, your sister needs to get tested.  as the previous poster said, she may very well not have it.  however, it is much easier for a woman to get it than a man.  a man can sleep with 300 hiv+ women before he might get it.  1 out of 300.  with women, it is more like 1 out of 5 odds.  if she has it, she needs to evaluate which country would be the best.  just because she comes to the usa doesnt mean she will have access to medical insurance.  medical insurance in the usa is about 97,600 naira per month.  so unless she has a good job, she might be better off in naira where the drugs are cheaper.  this is very sad, but be careful before you expose the minister.  he might sue you!

It's great to read the support variously given in such time of desperation. Under18, relax and let your sister get on with her life. Suicide is not an option, and with good care she could live a healthy, normal life.

What a horrible situation. I really sympathise with you. I hope this teaches people to USE PROTECTION. It can't be said enough.

Tell her to restrict her diet to pure organic vegetable diets. Her T cells count will go up and her immune system will be able to resist  infection. Tell her to eat more fresh organic green bell pepper. You will be surprised what result she will get. I wish her well and God bless.

Dear under 18 isyour sister married to the pastor or did she catch it because she was involved in unprotected sex {fornication} with a pastor haba she no fear God??I am sorry for the pains you are going tru but i believe sometimes just sometimes we can avoid such things happening if she had beeen wise enough to use the condom when sleeping with a man of God and done a test HIV i mean before marriage she would have found out about his status befre it became too late.If she was his wife then i really feel sorry for her its a pity what faithful wives go through in the hands of unfaithful husbands who end up destroying the lives of their wives leaving the children discriminated by friends and the society.Anyway since you said she tested negative in the previous test she might be lucky some women don't catch d desease even if their husbands are affected depending on how long the virus has been in his blood and how long theyv been doing it unprotected.Then she should take heart and take good care of herself if it turns out she is positive and denied entry into the US she should see a doctor when ever she feels sick and take her drugs.Good luck

I'm very sorry about your sister's situation. the whole family should come together and ask for the almighty God to heal. remember the God we serve is an everlasting God and would carry you guys in situations like this.

the sooner she seeks treatment the better. its too late to trade blame.