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lunafish (f)
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Is 25 an OK age for marriage?
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DaHitler (m)
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No. Wait till your early 30s.
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dominobaby (f)
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Y not? Esp. if u r a lady. I intend getn married at 25/26.
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queen2 (f)
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For a lady, yeah 24, 25, and 26 is very ok to get married.
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lunafish (f)
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@ Afeni- Why do you say early 30's?
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omogenaija (f)
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Any age is ok, as long as your mentally and emotionally ready. Plus its a good idea for females to get married before they reach the high risk pregnancy age which i believe is 35+
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queen2 (f)
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i guess Afeni was only joking  |
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Rhodalyn (f)
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yeah!! thats the age around which i also want to ger married, 26 actually   |
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DaHitler (m)
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I am not joking. Wait till your 30s to get married. Use your 20s to get your degree and your life in order. If you rush into marriage before you are set (stable job e.t.c.) if things don't work out in your marriage, you are stuck. Ever wonder why Nigerian women stick with abusive men? Think about it.
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Rhodalyn (f)
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Afeni 30's is too late 4 a woman!  all her beauty and youthfullness will be fading away by then plus she wouldnt as active in bed as she would be when in her 20's |
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Rhodalyn (f)
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well i'll be in Unni when I'm 19 and I'm going to do a 3 year Course  or sumtin [law] then i'll Use say?? the next 2 years for my degree and stuff?? by which tyme i'll be 24, then i'll Use the years inbetween to acquire my own house,Ride and stuff and then get married at 26 |
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Badman888 (m)
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yea for a girl that should be okay a guy can wait a bit, but if you ur life is in order why not go ahead
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Rhodalyn (f)
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lol Efani get married to u?? i first thought U were referring to the ques then i realised it was actually directed at me! yeah right! U wish |
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queen2 (f)
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@Afeni, u said ladies shld wait till they in their early 30s which is far too long, what if a man gets married at 27, afterall i have a family friend who got married at that age.
Age doesnt really matter, so far your successful, even without anybody's help, u can get married when u like and when your settled, fully settled and ready
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Badman888 (m)
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its even better to get married early so that when u re 50 u don't have ur kids at school again you have peace of mind
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Efani (m)
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haha u would want to get married to me tho
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DaHitler (m)
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Its even better not to have any kids, so you can always have peace of mind. Its not by force to reproduce.
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Rhodalyn (f)
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ken blocks loadza stuff @Efani
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queen2 (f)
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Err erm @Afeni
Lol, wats the product of marriage?
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Badman888 (m)
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to reproduce
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Rhodalyn (f)
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exactly! marriage is all bout making a family of Ur own and stuff
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DaHitler (m)
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To split the bill. Also, you get someone to sleep with (use protection).
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queen2 (f)
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Thank you badman.
So Afeni, if u don't want children why get married for, its better to a christian Father then
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Efani (m)
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@ rhod
whaddya mean ken blocks loadza stuff
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queen2 (f)
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So what ur telling me is that, sex is all u want in marriage.
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omogenaija (f)
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I am not joking. Wait till your 30s to get married. Use your 20s to get your degree and your life in order. If you rush into marriage before you are set (stable job e.t.c.) if things don't work out in your marriage, you are stuck. Ever wonder why Nigerian women stick with abusive men? Think about it.
Afeni where do u get ur sterotypes from  first u say yoruba people are cowards , and now nigerian women stick with abusive men. I hope u know thats not always true. |
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DaHitler (m)
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Queen2, I hate god. I will never devote my life to such a creature (if it does exist). Note: I could be talking about Songo or Orumila.  |
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queen2 (f)
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Shut up!
U hate god or you hate God, clarify it
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Rhodalyn (f)
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@Efani
yeah! i mean he blocks loadza stuff as in i wouldnt want to get married to u because i already have him
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DaHitler (m)
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omogenaija, would you leave a man if it meant being homeless and not being able to afford food? |
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