Is 25 An Ok Age For Marriage?

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aloib (f)
Re: Is 25 An Ok Age For Marriage?
« #128 on: June 04, 2006, 04:22 AM »

ur twin, werent u just scoping toy now
Badman888 (m)
Re: Is 25 An Ok Age For Marriage?
« #129 on: June 04, 2006, 04:25 AM »

thats another angle coded runs everywhere  Cool

back to topic  Wink
aloib (f)
Re: Is 25 An Ok Age For Marriage?
« #130 on: June 04, 2006, 04:26 AM »

coded runs, pimps would always be pimps, so what are are u going to get married if u aint married now
chinani (f)
Re: Is 25 An Ok Age For Marriage?
« #131 on: June 04, 2006, 10:26 PM »

I think 25 is a great age if the person is ready for the committment & responsiblity. But of course not if they still want to act like a kid. That's obvious though, huh?

But I hear marriages after the woman has reached the age of 28 are more successful b/c the woman knows her own mind & won't change too much as years go by. But then some (woman & men) always know their own mind (and future plans).

It is best to finish your education though so you future Docs might have to wait a bit. Wink

@Efani
No marriage? Shocked Lol. I ain't trippin. But remember: no marriage, no babies. And how do we make babies? K, we won't have class here just yet. But they ain't going to come up right w/ Mummy to the left & daddy to the right. And you don't know the meaning of your own name? Shocked Shocked I renounce that in the name of the Father & Son. lol! But fo real my dude for real.

@Afeni
I think you have some good points but your conclusions aren't totally logically. You mention financal stability & education etc etc but many people (women & men) reach that point before the coveted age of 30. And that's not say they won't make more money or go back to school (PhD etc) but such things happen as we age.
Big Shishi (m)
Re: Is 25 An Ok Age For Marriage?
« #132 on: June 04, 2006, 10:42 PM »

i hope to get married real soon tho!
chinani (f)
Re: Is 25 An Ok Age For Marriage?
« #133 on: June 04, 2006, 10:46 PM »

Quote from: Big Shishi on June 04, 2006, 10:42 PM
i hope to get married real soon tho!
Oh really? Why? How old are you? Do you have the girl yet? Don't mind mejust being noisy. Cheesy
Badman888 (m)
Re: Is 25 An Ok Age For Marriage?
« #134 on: June 04, 2006, 10:48 PM »

Shishi i agree u really need to settle down  Cheesy
dominobaby (f)
Re: Is 25 An Ok Age For Marriage?
« #135 on: June 04, 2006, 10:53 PM »

N u badman? Aint u settlin down? Lol.
Badman888 (m)
Re: Is 25 An Ok Age For Marriage?
« #136 on: June 04, 2006, 10:53 PM »

do u want to settle down with me then no problem  Cool
dominobaby (f)
Re: Is 25 An Ok Age For Marriage?
« #137 on: June 04, 2006, 11:00 PM »

Eeyah, too l8!
Badman888 (m)
Re: Is 25 An Ok Age For Marriage?
« #138 on: June 04, 2006, 11:01 PM »

Quote from: dominobaby on June 04, 2006, 11:00 PM
Eeyah, too l8!

damn am cool with it  Tongue
weev (f)
Re: Is 25 An Ok Age For Marriage?
« #139 on: June 05, 2006, 12:09 AM »

Rhodalyn i am so hurt  Cry you think a Womans beauty is fading at 30, what about Hallie Berry, Jennifer Lopez, Mary J , Vivica fox & me Wink.

when you find the person you want to marry that is the right age , i got married at 24 and widowed at 29 life is for living if you find someone special do not waste time on insignificant matters like age




MrBean (m)
Re: Is 25 An Ok Age For Marriage?
« #140 on: June 05, 2006, 12:52 AM »

Yes, If you are ready emotionally and financially.


@afeni

You are a very "Amusing" fellow.
omogenaija (f)
Re: Is 25 An Ok Age For Marriage?
« #141 on: June 05, 2006, 12:56 AM »

Quote from: mrlawng on June 05, 2006, 12:52 AM
Yes, If you are ready emotionally and financially.


@afeni

You are a very "Amusing" fellow.

u don't need to be financially ready, unless u want kids. just emotionally or mentally.
Badman888 (m)
Re: Is 25 An Ok Age For Marriage?
« #142 on: June 05, 2006, 12:57 AM »

thats rite if u wait before u re a millioniare to get married, then u go wait tire, unless lucky
j-girl (f)
Re: Is 25 An Ok Age For Marriage?
« #143 on: June 05, 2006, 12:58 AM »

i think marriage is a thing of maturity. It depends on how mature you are. My 19-year old friend is getting married this sumer. what do you think of that
Badman888 (m)
Re: Is 25 An Ok Age For Marriage?
« #144 on: June 05, 2006, 12:59 AM »

lol  Cheesy Cheesy thats all i can say, but it mite end up bein a successful marriage
omogenaija (f)
Re: Is 25 An Ok Age For Marriage?
« #145 on: June 05, 2006, 01:02 AM »

Quote from: j-girl on June 05, 2006, 12:58 AM
i think marriage is a thing of maturity. It depends on how mature you are. My 19-year old friend is getting married this sumer. what do you think of that

i wish her the best of luck with the furture husband. tell her to seek advice from God and don't tell her body her busy. and just pray.
j-girl (f)
Re: Is 25 An Ok Age For Marriage?
« #146 on: June 05, 2006, 01:05 AM »

The guy gan sef is twenty and they are still both in school. The girl is almost in third year while the guy is going to his final year and they are still in school but they are getting married this summer
edygirl (f)
Re: Is 25 An Ok Age For Marriage?
« #147 on: June 05, 2006, 01:06 AM »

@jgirl,
        Isn't that so sweet? I love it love it love it. Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley
Badman888 (m)
Re: Is 25 An Ok Age For Marriage?
« #148 on: June 05, 2006, 01:06 AM »

why the rush
j-girl (f)
Re: Is 25 An Ok Age For Marriage?
« #149 on: June 05, 2006, 01:08 AM »

that was what i said
Badman888 (m)
Re: Is 25 An Ok Age For Marriage?
« #150 on: June 05, 2006, 01:09 AM »

to wait 2yrs wouldnt hurt but every body have their reasons, hope it wont be a celebrity marriage
edygirl (f)
Re: Is 25 An Ok Age For Marriage?
« #151 on: June 05, 2006, 01:10 AM »

at least they will be  free from fornication
j-girl (f)
Re: Is 25 An Ok Age For Marriage?
« #152 on: June 05, 2006, 01:10 AM »

hmmm. i think they just want to do it.
Ib (f)
Re: Is 25 An Ok Age For Marriage?
« #153 on: June 05, 2006, 01:49 AM »

At 25 i was still trying to discover myself, and at this age, i'm trying to stabilize myself in my career and learn to appreciate myself so that i can offer more to myself, my future husband (still searching) and my kids.

I really wonder what i would have been like as a married woman at 25!!!!. Life is just beginning to be fun for me.
omogenaija (f)
Re: Is 25 An Ok Age For Marriage?
« #154 on: June 05, 2006, 02:07 AM »

aunty Ib, u make it sound like ur in ur 40's. ur only 26 so u still got time. high risk pregnancy is 9 years away from u. i wish u the best of luck on finding yourself.
MrBean (m)
Re: Is 25 An Ok Age For Marriage?
« #155 on: June 05, 2006, 02:09 AM »

Quote from: omogenaija on June 05, 2006, 12:56 AM
u don't need to be financially ready, unless u want kids. just emotionally or mentally.

You may like to do a reasearch on the percentage divorce based on finances,. It will put things in perspective.

I am not saying you need to be a millionaire. like the saying goes: ROMANCE without FINANCE makes a man a NUISANCE.
omogenaija (f)
Re: Is 25 An Ok Age For Marriage?
« #156 on: June 05, 2006, 02:17 AM »

Quote from: mrlawng on June 05, 2006, 02:09 AM
You may like to do a reasearch on the percentage divorce based on finances,. It will put things in perspective.

I am not saying you need to be a millionaire. like the saying goes: ROMANCE without FINANCE makes a man a NUISANCE.


well as for me, finance aint a thing when its just a guy and his wife. they r suppose to be together 4 richer or poor. they just have to use protection until they r fincancially ready to have kids. I aint saying u got to be a millionare. But its ok to get married if ur poor. thats just my opinion
MrBean (m)
Re: Is 25 An Ok Age For Marriage?
« #157 on: June 05, 2006, 02:18 AM »

Whatever floats your boat girl.
omogenaija (f)
Re: Is 25 An Ok Age For Marriage?
« #158 on: June 05, 2006, 02:51 AM »

Quote from: mrlawng on June 05, 2006, 02:18 AM
Whatever floats your boat girl.

thanks for understanding me.  Wink Wink
zionchic (f)
Re: Is 25 An Ok Age For Marriage?
« #159 on: June 05, 2006, 03:27 AM »

Quote from: omogenaija on June 05, 2006, 02:17 AM
well as for me, finance aint a thing when its just a guy and his wife. they r suppose to be together 4 richer or poor. they just have to use protection until they r fincancially ready to have kids. I aint saying u got to be a millionare. But its ok to get married if your poor. thats just my opinion

I really respect your opinion hun, but i'm so tempted to say it's not the best (not that you av to change that opinion, it's good if it suits you) seriously you're not supposed to have it all but the bills got to be paid, i don't see how it's going to work when the basic neccesities of life can't be afforded.

@ Topic

25 i think is a perfect age to get married (if you've got it all together at that age), i wish i had it together at 25 i would have hit the aisle so fast but i got to wait till later (acada and stuff).

@ Afeni

You're not a joker, are you?(seen some of your posts and Gosh, you make mii wonder)
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