Ladies: Are You Attracted To Passionate Thugs?

that kind of language has just proven me right. . . local thug!

Truly what is betta then a passionate thug? i mean really. you get the best of both worlds. on the street he is rough and tough. and handles his business. but when he gets home, man he just turns on the charm. with his strong arms and it just the complete fantasy.

i don't even want my man in the streets sef. . . befor bad belle people go kill am for me

I want him in our penthouse apartment, from where he rules the world and my body

@Mesmerize

you right you know. gentlemen on the streets and a thug in the sheets. but there something so attractive about that thug love. i mean not trying to sound rowdy but i mean seriously. there is something so arousing with a guy who is a thug. he just control and you don't even mind. which is a complete turn on. im not suggesting women should go for that kind of man but hey it is just a fantasy.

Don't lose hope yet. I'm still searching goggle for a suiting wife for you. Presently, i'm on www.crackheadsgonewild.com

Its going to take more than google to find a befitting wife for me,   i can't tolerate yall's nonsense.   

Are you a nice guy who has always wondered why the cocky guy -- the one who barely appears interested in the girl -- is usually the one who gets the girl?
Have you suffered from hearing the words, "You're a really nice guy, but I only like you as a friend," from a woman who you would do (or may, in fact, have already done) just about anything and everything for -- only to turn around and watch her date (or even chase) a guy who treats her like she's nothing special? Like eldee,Debosky & Jackal  Cheesy And are you stumped wondering why she would date a guy who treats her like that when she could have you who would treat her like a princess and give her everything she wants?

Well, you better brace yourself because I'm going to tell you a couple of secrets that you might not want to hear.
First, "nice" equates with boring and predictable. Look up "nice" in the dictionary and you find: pleasant; agreeable; satisfactory. In other words, average -- not exceptional, not exciting, and not sexy.I'll bet you've never heard a woman say she didn't want to date a guy because he was too confident, too passionate, or too exciting --

have you? But, I'll bet you have heard women say things like, "He's such a nice guy. He's so sweet and he's always there for me, but I only like him as a friend." Or, "He's such a good guy -- kind, thoughtful, generous, honest, loyal -- but there's no chemistry. Grin He just doesn't turn me on."

Sadly, I hear it all the time. The fact is, Mr. Nice Guy, you cannot bore a woman into feeling attracted to you or into wanting to date you. And as obvious as that sounds, if you are one of those guys I described that is exactly what you are trying to do. And it won't work. Cheesy

To illustrate what I mean: The answer to the question, "Why does the guy (Like Jackal,Eldee and co) who doesn't appear to care as much about the girl get the girl?"  Cheesy Tongue

The answer is simple: The nice guy cares too much, too soon. He has made the woman too important and too valuable and it shows in everything he says and does.
 
He is too available, too eager to please, too accommodating, and he gives too much -- all without getting anything in return. By doing so,
He has made himself appear desperate, insecure, needy of this woman's attention, affection, and approval -- and he has stripped himself of any value in her eyes. After all, if he's already doing and giving everything, without her doing or giving anything - why would she value him? She won't. She is not going to value him any more than he values himself. What she is going to do is look for someone else, someone who she perceives as being more worthy, more confident, and more valuable.

 Things that are easily acquired, obtained, or maintained, without any effort or sacrifice, lack value,  it's human nature.
The secret to why the cocky guy wins with women, over the nice guy, is that he is perceived as being a stronger, more confident guy with more value. How?
 He never invests everything -- his entire being, ego, and self-worth in what one woman's response or reaction to him is.  Cool Cool Cool
He doesn't gush with compliments; he isn't always available; he doesn't give too much; and he knows he isn't going to die if a woman says "no" to him.
More, his attitude is, yeah, I'D like to go out with you, but if I can't, that's OK --
I'm a busy guy, with exciting things going on, and lots of other options. Cool






SO Damn True!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Cheesy Cheesy
May God Bless the author of this article!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I must save this note for me SON!!. . .  Cheesy Cheesy

Its going to take more than google to find a befitting wife for me,   i can't tolerate yall's nonsense

Are you a nice guy who has always wondered why the cocky guy -- the one who barely appears interested in the girl -- is usually the one who gets the girl?
Have you suffered from hearing the words, "You're a really nice guy, but I only like you as a friend," from a woman who you would do (or may, in fact, have already done) just about anything and everything for -- only to turn around and watch her date (or even chase) a guy who treats her like she's nothing special? Like eldee,Debosky & Jackal And are you stumped wondering why she would date a guy who treats her like that when she could have you who would treat her like a princess and give her everything she wants?

Well, you better brace yourself because I'm going to tell you a couple of secrets that you might not want to hear.
First, "nice" equates with boring and predictable. Look up "nice" in the dictionary and you find: pleasant; agreeable; satisfactory. In other words, average -- not exceptional, not exciting, and not sexy.I'll bet you've never heard a woman say she didn't want to date a guy because he was too confident, too passionate, or too exciting --

have you? But, I'll bet you have heard women say things like, "He's such a nice guy. He's so sweet and he's always there for me, but I only like him as a friend." Or, "He's such a good guy -- kind, thoughtful, generous, honest, loyal -- but there's no chemistry. He just doesn't turn me on."

Sadly, I hear it all the time. The fact is, Mr. Nice Guy, you cannot bore a woman into feeling attracted to you or into wanting to date you. And as obvious as that sounds, if you are one of those guys I described that is exactly what you are trying to do. And it won't work.

To illustrate what I mean: The answer to the question, "Why does the guy (Like Jackal,Eldee and co) who doesn't appear to care as much about the girl get the girl?"

The answer is simple: The nice guy cares too much, too soon. He has made the woman too important and too valuable and it shows in everything he says and does.
 
He is too available, too eager to please, too accommodating, and he gives too much -- all without getting anything in return. By doing so,
He has made himself appear desperate, insecure, needy of this woman's attention, affection, and approval -- and he has stripped himself of any value in her eyes. After all, if he's already doing and giving everything, without her doing or giving anything - why would she value him? She won't. She is not going to value him any more than he values himself. What she is going to do is look for someone else, someone who she perceives as being more worthy, more confident, and more valuable.

 Things that are easily acquired, obtained, or maintained, without any effort or sacrifice, lack value, it's human nature.
The secret to why the cocky guy wins with women, over the nice guy, is that he is perceived as being a stronger, more confident guy with more value. How?
 He never invests everything -- his entire being, ego, and self-worth in what one woman's response or reaction to him is.
He doesn't gush with compliments; he isn't always available; he doesn't give too much; and he knows he isn't going to die if a woman says "no" to him.
More, his attitude is, yeah, I'D like to go out with you, but if I can't, that's OK --
I'm a busy guy, with exciting things going on, and lots of other options.






SO Damn True!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
May God Bless the author of this article!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I must save this note for me SON!!. . .

Nonsense!!!!

ahhh Uchenna do you fall in the category of nice guys?

ahhh Uchenna do you fall in the category of nice guys?

was about to say the same thing RedHotChic. but yeah there is truly nothing more exciting then being with a thug. he is just got that fearlessness personality about him. and he is reckless and never apologizes. so you can imagine how the bedroom will be. but this just a fantasy.

You actually tried to read that?