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waterworks (f)
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this is mostly focused on the girls because na the girls dey keep deep deep secrets pass. . . . e.g abortions, past times uve cheated, sugar daddy and momies, faking pregnancies, and basically all the wicked things uve done in past relationships.
GURLS
when ure in a relationship with a guy u love and trully loves you. . . you may not have discused it yet but you think he has the potential to be the one. . . do you tell your secrets? if you do, when do you determine is right? after he does something selfless? after he proves hes love? after he proposes?
do you think its a wise move to tell deep secrets to the Manchester United may want to spend the rest of your life with? will it back fire? do you think its wiser to keep the secrets to yourself as long as it doesnt affect the both of you?
when ure about to be married do you believ in all that he is my husband to be let me enter my wedding a clear concience talk no matter how bad or promiscuos ur past life was? and vice versa. . .
guys
after youve met THE ONE and she tells you a deep secret does it change your view of her? do you love her less? will you haunt her with it 4 eva? or will u just ponder on it for a few days and move on?
even when you deem the sectrets unbearable do you have pity on those hu have bad secrets that couldnt be helped such as beign raped and aborting the baby e.t.c. and vice versa . . .
basically: TO TELL OR NOT TO TELL?
nairalanders please lets hear your views, and past stories and wt u yourself will do. . .
this is not a plea 4 advice but a debate. no one knows hu u are so theres no need to be hypocritical or form holier than thou. whut are ure REAL views??
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onyinye2 (f)
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personally I'm not the kind who would keep secrets from the guy I'm with. from the start, if i have something tell him, then i will tell him right then and there. if he excepts it cool, i guess the relationship can go forward. but he has a problem, see you later. because if you can't except me for who i am then, you don't need to be in my life. but i really don't that bad of secrets.
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jekad
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i don't tell him all y should i?everybody should have a secret naaa  |
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waterworks (f)
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lo @ jekad
ABI OHH!!
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Jackal (m)
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There are secrets and there are SECRETS!!!!!!
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Dr Kitaun
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@Jackal any reason why u spend so much time in the Romance sections these days ? Intel has it that u are trying desperately to capture Stillwater and a few other chics here . . . .true that ? |
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jekad
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@Jackal any reason why u spend so much time in the Romance sections these days ? Intel has it that u are trying desperately to capture Stillwater and a few other chics here . . . .true that ? oh gawd kitaun has come again  |
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jekad
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lo @ jekad
ABI OHH!!
my sis ´no be true?that is y dey call it secrets------meaning for u alone somethings r better left unsaid o jare before ,talking is dangerous because d man might just die of heart attack because hes little heart can't take d news  |
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Mesmerize (f)
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Welcome Kitaun Jenny, I'll advice you to leave him alone . . .thank ya |
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~Pandora~ (f)
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Not To Tell!  some men can handle the truth!
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Mesmerize (f)
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Where have you been na? Haba! No let me divorce you oh, you just e-packed and left  |
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jekad
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mesmerize stop monitoring this man |
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Mesmerize (f)
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mesmerize stop monitoring this man No can do! @post sorry oh, am not "experienced" enough to go through all those B.S! abortion etc. . jeez!  |
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Dr Kitaun
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@Mesmerize please leave me now or DECLARE UR UNDYING LOVE FOR ME . . .NOW !   |
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Mesmerize (f)
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@Mesmerize please leave me now or DECLARE UR UNDYING HATE FOR ME . . .NOW ! Why do you want me to declare my undying hate for you?  I dnt do such!! |
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Mesmerize (f)
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Help me ask am o!
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onyinye2 (f)
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yes that is the new way. romance is a lost cause. |
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Dr Kitaun
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@Pandora u wan tell me say u never sabi say Morenike don dey chase me for NLAND teytey ? |
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~Pandora~ (f)
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@Pandora u wan tell me say u never sabi say Morenike don dey chase me for NLAND teytey ? If she chase u, u ma run. . its that simple! |
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Mesmerize (f)
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@Pandora u wan tell me say u never sabi say Morenike don dey chase me for NLAND teytey ? I'm here trying to woo you, you're doing shakara? Bring that body over here or |
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opokonwa (m)
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@poster Which of the wicked acts have you done? |
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adex285 (m)
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Well, nice writes up.as for me i guess I'm going to tell her because everyone has done one or two things is the past and it beta you let her know because the secret might comes out some day when you think every is gone for good.and if the guy in particular should know bout it.guess that might be some thing Else(so this is what have been living with all this while)with this there might not be trust,Moreso the guy will jst loose intrest and would not believe what ever you tell him after then.
i guess, is best you tell him bout yo past by the time some of such comes up he'll definatly know how to handle to things.
we should all be straight with our lover life if not, you might regret keeping the secret to ya self, and we all know that there nothing new understand the sun.so you won't be 1st nor the last person some thing of that can happen to.
Peace,
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Godalone (m)
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There is no secret that will not be revealed to your partner some day no matter how you cover it.I told my wife every thing about my past when we were courting because i had a very rough past.
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waterworks (f)
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okonfuwa, onyinye, mesmerise, dr kituan thnk u oh! imagine my delight when i saw 24 response only to come and see all of u deviating from the topic. . . FOR A WHOLE PAGE!!! if u know what is good for you u betta come back and post ur responses!! |
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izeek (m)
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what happened in the past stays in the past.
simple answer to the long story.
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shylladear (f)
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they are called secrets cause they are secrets
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sagod
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Adex285, thanks for your sincere response. Your opinion, on my view is the ideal thing to do.
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adex285 (m)
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thanks sagod,
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origina9ja (f)
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There is no secret that will not be revealed to your partner some day no matter how you cover it.I told my wife every thing about my past when we were courting because i had a very rough past. thank u GODALONEbecause da day she would findout humm |
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adex285 (m)
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Hello origina9ja,
if you won't mind can you share some of yo rough past with the nairalanders.no offence
jst curios
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