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nikekenny (m)
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if am dating a girl and she sincerely tell me her past, i will truly love her than she think!
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jekad
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the worst thing any woman will do on earth is to tell her lover all her secrets,if she tries it,then she is doomed for life,because that guy will surely use it against her and her emotions
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tope2000 (f)
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the worst thing any woman will do on earth is to tell her lover all her secrets,if she tries it,then she is doomed for life,because that guy will surely use it against her and her emotions
true talk se na u be this jenny? |
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jekad
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true talk
se na u be this jenny?
yes sweetie  |
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jekad
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people wey know me,suppose know me by my posts naaa,e no dey change |
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smooooooth
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the past shld be left where it belongs, in the past, and face the future, frim personal experience i dnt think its wise to tell your partner anything bout ur past,especially the the girls. because guys are always jealous and even events in the past still haunt them in the future. the only thing you shld not do is tell a lie when asked bout ur past,just simply tell him that u want ur past to remain in the past.
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iice (f)
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Am pretty much a close book. But i have no qualms telling somethings because am usually straight up about those things from the beginning. What is easy for others is hard for me and what is hard for others is easy for me.
Even when i don't keep secrets (well my secrets), i still come off secretive  But yeah he has to prove something first before i divulge more. He has to prove he is as crazy as i am 
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origina9ja (f)
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Hello origina9ja,
if you won't mind can you share some of yo rough past with the nairalanders.no offence
jst curios
i mind ohhh  i no fit 4 nairland haba u wnt make peep begin judge me |
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Emperoh (m)
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And if he or she somehow finds out?
t leads to damaging your marriage or relationship
Can those secrets be cmpared to the heart break you will feel losing that person to because of your untold secrets
Be sure to divulge ALL but wait till you are sure he or she is not a passer-by.
U must let him or she know. If she/he loves you, he will stay.
Moreover thats a ccriteria to determine emotional maturity,
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topup
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If you feel it is something that is very much a part of you and has made you who you are today, then why not, no point holding something like that from someone you love. Though there is fear that he may leave, you have to weigh if the positive result is worth the risk of losing the relationship, because if he accepts you despite your past, your bond will be stronger, you will feel more connected to him.
If however, you couldn't care less about the abortion, then maybe don't tell, especially if you'D rather pretend it never happened.
Me personally, with my conscience, I would have to tell no matter what it is.
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tammyswits (f)
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What if i killed my ex?
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Ujujoan (f)
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Why must you tell?? The word secret will loose its meaning if you keep telling everythim Me, I wont tell and please don't tell me, i don't want to hear.
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