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ampie
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Hi I have a problem here.My best friend has fallen head over heels over a guy but this guy is really not at serious about their relationship and is actually using her and is also flirting with another girl.Whenever she confronts him he goes all over her and by his charming behaviour she just melts.This guy has also openly critised her on her back .But finally a few days back she turned sensible and broke up with him and is now in a state of trauma  .And also the guy often turns up to hit her in her soft part emotionally.I'm totally sad to see her in this condition .MY FRIEND OFTEN TENDS TO FALL FOR HIM .HOW DO I SAVE HER FROM THIS TERRIBL\Y TERRIBLE GUY :'(PLS DO SUGGEST SOMETHING |
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Plumber (m)
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2 ways
1. she will need to see sense by herself and go through all this hurt to overcome whatever
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2. She needs to really detach; and i mean this by not being in d same area or seeing the dude.
Proper detox
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noetic (m)
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@ poster
stay out of it. this experiences make us better n stronger persons. u can ask nubian, jennykandry and HRhotness
she will come out stronger, just let her be.
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HR.hotness (f)
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@ poster
stay out of it. this experiences make us better n stronger persons. u can ask nubian, jennykandry and HRhotness
she will come out stronger, just let her be.
LOL. . , I quite agree, u need these experiences in order for u to learn, she will survive and be better at handling herself   |
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NubianQ (f)
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@ poster
stay out of it. this experiences make us better n stronger persons. u can ask nubian, jennykandry and HRhotness
she will come out stronger, just let her be.
yeah i agree leave her alone. My friend is like that as well, she even had her guy tell her that he is dating her and someone else, she left him and went back when he begged as she has broken up with him a million times, i even went with her to see him one day and he refused to open his door because another girl was there and she took all the shit all i do is listen to her, she will get over it. leave her be! |
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ampie
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YEAH I GUESS You ALL R RIGHT.JUST HOPING FOR THE BEST. ANYWAYS actually i am quite new here and so many thanx for your help and suggestions nubian and dear HOTTY  |
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sincity (m)
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Hi' You could equally send her to me and i will hear her broken heart |
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scantee (m)
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@POSTER JUST ADVICE HER LET HER NOW THAT LIFE IS ALL ABOUT UPS THEY BORN YOU UP YOU GROW UP YOU JOIN UP YOU FOLLOW UP YOU MAKE UP YOU OPEN UP YOU ZIP UP BUT NEVER GIVE UP @ KENNYKANDRY HOW FAR LONG TIME, AM BACK TO NIARALAND  |
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Busta (f)
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Leave her alone . . . let her keep playing with fire.
she won't know what she's gotten hersef into until she gets burnt once.
next time . . .she'll know better than to play with fire.
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bode 007
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maybe the guy is the only one doing it the right way,the don take am go sckool
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galatico (m)
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You can only talk to her but if she refuse like the saying goes you can force a horse to the river but you can not force the horse to drink water, Experience they say iis the best teacher, if she gets a bad experience then she should learn from it then if she doesn't it's left for her afterall no be the same mama born una,
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topup
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Just tell her that it's okay to let it out. Also, tell her that the pain she is feeling is only temporary, it will get better with time, and that if she had stayed with him she would be in pain too, and when it finally ends, she'D be in more pain because it went on for longer.
She should accept that there are just some 'nasty' people out there. I have this same problem, accepting that some people just are not nice 
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hollandis
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LOL GIRLSSSS!!!! BOYS PLAY THINGY |
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Ujujoan (f)
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@ Hollandis, Sharrrrrrrrrrrap there wrapper like you |
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iykedee
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I am guessing your friend is actually you. You/your friend need to severe all links with Mr. charming while your heart is still attached to him. He knows he can get you whenever he wants to. Hopefully, if you stayed away from him for a while, his charm might wear off. Good luck
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