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izeek (m)
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mes my dear i bow for the guy oooh?
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Templa (m)
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@ poster u get a job, u get married ok. then u get another job, u get married again ok. just thinkingwhat happens when u get out of a job? u get out of marriage  . it's all good. advice is: try to develop yourself. look everyone has a good degree in geo(whatever) even a better one than u. there is competition out there. instead of being this desperate (posting cv and pictures of u in a car) channel this energy into developing yourself. c'mon stop bragging about being smart or intelligent.u r still too young and have enough time to develop yourself. i don tire sef. use ur head now |
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Mesmerize (f)
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u get a job, u get married ok. then u get another job, u get married again ok.
just thinking lmao! |
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MyPeace (f)
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change the font of your CV, preferably use arial.
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CARUSO (m)
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@Poster
The day NL would be completely rid of freaks, would mark a start of a new era on NL!
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LadyT (f)
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@Poster I will try Poison before I try a desperate fool like you.
Grow up please. You cannot be serious. I guess your plan is to marry this woman no matter who they are and still carry on dating and messing up on the side.
Ori ti daru Olorun I swear Ori e ti daru.
Better get the hell out of the internet cafe and start looking for a job.
Alakori
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HR.hotness (f)
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and who says the lady will want to marry u? how do u knw what every woman wants in a man? this, young man, is where u are getting it all wrong  |
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Mesmerize (f)
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@Poster I will try Poison before I try a desperate fool like you.
Grow up please. You cannot be serious. I guess your plan is to marry this woman no matter who they are and still carry on dating and messing up on the side.
Ori ti daru Olorun I swear Ori e ti daru.
Better get the hell out of the internet cafe and start looking for a job.
Alakori
lmao!  |
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tpia
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@ poster: why post your complete information on the web nah? I don't understand that part oh.
Unless your girlfriend is also on Nairaland sha, and this is your Dear John/Joanna letter.
You might also want to try standard dating sites, if you're serious about all this.
As a geophysicist, you can also try applying for a master's degree abroad, though your finances might not be looking too good at the moment. But never say never.
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ogb5 (m)
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Why una dey yab the guy. The guy one use one stone kill 2 bird, Job with wife on top. Also the wife go foot the bill for the marriage.
Nor yab the guy, someone might want him
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Outstrip (f)
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Kai. LOL. Ok this is definitely a first. KAyode on bended knee asking a women "Will you get me a job". Get the hell out of here. You have to be joking.
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asamuel
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You no get job, how u come get the car wey u take post here? I fear you oo!
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prince_onx
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why you wan tell everybody say the guy dey poss with him friend car? stop am Ohhhhhh
chai! women don suffer!
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Wallie (m)
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I struggle with what to say because I feel it’s wrong to kick someone while they’re down.
The very first thing you need to take care of is your resume. I don’t know about the Nigerian job market but the font is wrong and I think you have way too much unnecessary info in there. Your actual job experience which is more of substance is also in the wrong order. I hope you take the offer of the guy willing to help you in that regard and if that falls through, I can help.
Secondly, I think as long as you’re still breathing, you shouldn’t give up hope. You should always try to re-invent yourself if your current skills are not in demand or just to keep you ahead of the competition. In today’s competitive environment, even professionals don’t rest on their laurels. I see that you studied Geophysics…what kind of job are you looking for?
Thirdly, forget the girl. You should be trying to make something out of your life. Believe me, once you get “that paper”, you’ll be fending the girls off you.
Lastly, I’ll be in Naija in August to pursue a few business proposals and if anything pans out, I’ll give you a shot of interviewing for a job, that’s if you’re still looking for one.
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poetikalz (m)
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Its just a pity that so many nairalanders on here are not providing answers to my most probing questions.Its not actually the way you people picture it.I figure thats the way most of you are trained to think.If am to start lashing back at all those who responded negatively,i would have spent the most useful part of my time on here responding to their useless comments, SILENCE IS JUST THE BEST ANSWER FOR SOME FOOLS!!!!, you don't have to help me if you don't want to!!!!! .I just keep wondering why a random sampling of nigerian citizens wont live above board but fall below the level of right thinking and reasonability. It is petinent to state that my situation is not as worse as you think it to be .I live in the city of Abuja.I pay rent up to 300k a year,the car there is my car(As a matter of fact,its my second after graduation).Just that am trying to live up to my dreams using the very available resources at my disposal(internet at home ).I am not a pauper.I AM JUST UNEMPLOYED AND LOOKING FOR A JOB RIGHT NOW. But for serious and sensible individuals like chikobi,jaybee,wallie, i value your opinions and i promise i will make steps rectifying some things you pointed out.I am not perfect ,i stand the chance to be corrected. @wallie Thanks for your words ,i really appreciate them .Should in case you might want to call me,here is my mobile(08060657696) and my chat id is gbadejonet@yahoo.com.Would love to talk to you pretty soon. And for nairalanders,i value good opinions not baked out of some selfish reasons and envy.When i posted this comment,I expected some good words from some good individuals here.And what do i get?accusations and sneers from some individuls who have posted some comments here before now good enough to label them as sexual dogs and slaves!!!!Trust me,i don't even want to consider their comments. I think i speak for the wise onhere when i say it aint a good thing to judge someone just like that,not even when you are not too close to that person and not even when you can't be labelled as a perfect individual too.And for that i advise you go on your knees and ask God for forgiveness and if you can't do that,perhaps i have over-estimated the sensibility of every matured and right-thinking individual.I don't have any regrets over what i posted!!!!!!! |
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acidrop (f)
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y not? isnt she a woman?
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texazzpete (m)
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Post Modified!
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texazzpete (m)
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@Poster And just after i posted that stinging reply in your defense, i see this It is petinent to state that my situation is not as worse as you think it to be .I live in the city of Abuja.I pay rent up to 300k a year,the car there is my car(As a matter of fact,its my second after graduation).Just that am trying to live up to my dreams using the very available resources at my disposal(internet at home ).I am not a pauper.I AM JUST UNEMPLOYED AND LOOKING FOR A JOB RIGHT NOW.
And i lose every single ounce of sympathy i had for you. All you are is a greedy sonofabitch. Only a weakling would seriously consider shacking up with a 55 year old woman (2x his age) just to 'live up to his dreams'. |
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acidrop (f)
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if dey dnt have a job for you nko?
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poetikalz (m)
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@texazzpete
I don't need your sympathy because you are not even qualified to offer one. Excuse me .who are you and by the way how many usernames have u on nairaland?You don't qualify less of a sonofabitch u called me .I assume you were the one that just called me.Well i give it back to you the same way u dished them out.Believe me,every word you said to me is all coming back to you in more than a million ways.
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texazzpete (m)
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@texazzpete
I don't need your sympathy because you are not even qualified to offer one. Excuse me .who are you and by the way how many usernames have u on nairaland?You don't qualify less of a sonofabitch u called me .I assume you were the one that just called me.Well i give it back to you the same way u dished them out.Believe me,every word you said to me is all coming back to you in more than a million ways.
call you?! I wouldn't waste a minute on a weakling like yourself. Unlike your sorry ass i rely on my brains. And Nigerian employers did not find me unemployable. |
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poetikalz (m)
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no more replies !!!!!or do i create another thread , i am serious.
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gabrywyl (f)
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oh gosh Poster,
You're not serious are you?
You know, I don't think its that difficult to get a job
You need a fantastic resume ( cause you are selling yourself to a company), send it to everywhere around the world. Apply for holiday maker in UK and get a job there for example. Just apply anywhere and everywhere. Who cares. . . As long as you get a job.
Its not hard. As long as you are willing to get any kind of job for a start, you will surely get one eventually in no time. Was in your shoe once before and I had to work dope and then slowly to build myself up.
I was a toilet cleaner at first considering that I have my Master's Degree and then slowly to a receptionist, a bar tender, a waitress, and then an accounts clerk, and then a Sales Coordinator, Sales & Marketing Executive, Sales & Marketing Manager, Costing Manager, Business Developement Manager and now Deputy General manager. But bare in mind that if you want to jump high, always treat everyone as your friend and with full respect than you are able to get your own connections and jump high. Thats what the career field is all about.
See? Everything is possible so start from the bottom and build yourself up from there. You don't need no female to build you up. You are a man and you are old enough to stand on your own two feet. Good luck in your future endeavors and all the best.
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419er (m)
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@Poetikalz
you're knocking at the wrong door give me a call when you made up your mind to be a man let me give you some tips.
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Cayon (f)
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@ poster
Marriage is not a game
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Negro_Ntns (m)
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@poster, I think I will separate the issues and prioritize them according to immediate need. There are two issues intertwined in your post _ job; marriage. You are making it conditional that you will enter into marriage with any lady that secures a job for you. That is called contractual marriage, i.e where terms and conditions exist and the parties are mutually consenting to the terms and agreement. That was smart of you to leave that aspect hanging. Personally I see nothing wrong in your proposal; for every commodity there is a buyer out there. It is on account that laws permit a man and a woman to enter into contractual marriage upto and including extraneous circumstances in which the two can mutually satisfy in each other an immediate need, not withstanding short-term or long-term. Your situation fall into this category. On the job issue, I don't know if this will be your first job or not, but you will soon learn that in a competitive work environment you need balance to advance yourself upward in your career. There are several factors that will determine if you are able to maintain that balance or not. Primary amongst those factors are: you, your spouse and your boss. You might be wondering what your spouse got to do with your career, I say plenty; she can ruin it. Men that secured their job on their own effort alone have a hard time keeping their spouses nose out of their business much less someone whose job was secured for him by his woman _ the fate of his job security hangs in her finger snaps! Good luck  |
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Eclairs
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@posta
Do sth new with your life, See u exhorting yourself like you'r God,
And by the way, wht mks u think any girl will fall for that. So if u mistakingly loose the Job, you dump the girl abi no be so?
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debosky (m)
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First of all, your resume is too darn long!
4 pages and you've only worked 2 jobs? Change the font to something more friendly, remove the next of kin, geopolitical zone, local government and all thatunless you are seeking a job through federal character or something, that will NEVER get you a job. I think you need to improve your CV and begin to market yourself better, marrying a woman for a job will only lead to sadness for you.
Hang in there; keep trying and keep trusting in God.
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poetikalz (m)
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I really want to start from the scratch but i can't get a job placement in abuja here.Okay am modofying the post by saying that 'i will pray for whoever gets me a job to start with'
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gabrywyl (f)
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I really want to start from the scratch but i can't get a job placement in abuja here.Okay am modofying the post by saying that 'i will pray for whoever gets me a job to start with'
How about trying other countries? Like I told you hliday maker? |
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lady bam (f)
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@ poster you really need prayers  |
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