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Eclairs
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good luck,
Your time will come
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StephenP (m)
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Now, nothing. Keep living your life the way you want. You don't have to get married unless you want to.
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PatKing
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Why do U condemn ur self,
Old woman?
And U expect good to come ur way?
Wake up, God is not through with U yet.
What if U had married, and ur live ended in d cause.#
It is beta LATE than being LATE.
I don't mean to scold U,
thou am in ma 20s, but I know wht it is like U feeel.
I think U should refocus into ur life.
analyse wht U've been doing all ur life, I mean, things u av
refuse to let go, say
i. Dress styles
ii. type of make up
iii.kind of gatherings U attend
iv. kind of job U do.
v. ur leasure time
I guess it is time to let-go.
IDEAS
i. wht is ur ideal husband like? d picture.
what r things U want him doing?
------ be that person
ii.if ur makeups r heavy,
-----reduce em.
iii. u don't love ur job?
----- quit, so U can have a cheery look.
iv. adopt d leasure U want ur man to b in.
v. visit places likely such person can be found.
vi. LOOK UR SELF IN D MIRRROR EVRY DAY AND DECLARE ===== AM WONDERFULLY AND FAIRFULLY MADE====
vii. Work on ur spiritual life.
All will be well with U!
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Radiant (f)
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Marzi, I remember your story a little bit. This is not the first time u be talking about this issue. Relax, abeg!
David, you will indeed see how all them "I don't care about marriage" people turn out in 10 years. Not everyone is destined to be married.
Like I always say, better happy single than miserable in a marriage. When you understand that your life is your life and nothing more then you'll understand you have every reason to live it as you want and despise every tyranny of precedent.
Seriously, marriage these days is nothing but "satisfying the public". I for one can't be bothered with all that crap. I have better things to do with my life other than worrying over a bloody ass marriage.
Why is the divorce rate increasing daily? Because marriages are failing and individuals are plain wicked!
I'm not saying I won't get married but I simply won't loose sleep over that and I mean every word. When I meet a reasonable man I won't need a prophet to tell me. Only weak men will avoid people like me. Come to my level of reasoning and we can move from there.
Marriage ko, polygamy ni
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lucabrasi (m)
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divorce rate is high because couples get bored faster with marriage
because couples are less disposed to trying hard at making it work
especially in a country where u get half of the estate irrespective of wether u assisted in acumulating that wealth or contributed in any way shape or form ana nicole smith,heather mills(asso of gold diggers inc)
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manmustwac (m)
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marzipan go to my profile and email me, then we'll take it from there ok
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marzipan73 (f)
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Is 35 too old to marry a Nigerian man?
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bridget007 (f)
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Hell no, course its not too old, i'm 37 and just married my nigerian man whose 29. We had a tricky time but come through it and now we are expecting our second child conceived the week of our marriage. Believe in yourself, make the best of yourself ( physically, spiritually, emotionally and career wise), 'do' things, get out there and you will find love will come your way, but beware men do not want desperate, clingy or insecure/low self confident women, love yourself first, feel good and the rest will follow.
It may not be easy but the best things in life are usually found down the most difficult path, oh and pray and what is meant to be will be!
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idupaul
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Hell no, course its not too old, i'm 37 and just married my nigerian man whose 29. We had a tricky time but come through it and now we are expecting our second child conceived the week of our marriage. Believe in yourself, make the best of yourself ( physically, spiritually, emotionally and career wise), 'do' things, get out there and you will find love will come your way, but beware men do not want desperate, clingy or insecure/low self confident women, love yourself first, feel good and the rest will follow.
It may not be easy but the best things in life are usually found down the most difficult path, oh and pray and what is meant to be will be!
did u buy the 29yr old chap from a shop. |
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Nella (f)
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It is nuthin, u can marry at any 30-somethin age, please! Relax and forget the pressures, they will always be there. No mind Nigerian mentality. Tyra Banks ( 34 goin to 35) and many other celebrities are in there 30's were marriage? even people that got into marriage some of them are commin out because it was a mess. - - Chill, . . . . did u buy the 29yr old chap from a shop.
How ignorant can u be!? |
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idupaul
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No mind Nigerian mentality. Tyra Banks ( 34 goin to 35) and many other celebrities are in there 30's were marriage?
even people that got into marriage some of them are commin out because it was a mess. - - Chill, . . . .
console yourself, its everywhere in the world that poeps are scared of marrying old women, if u get husband at 35 thank God, because its rare ooo. |
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trendsvivi (f)
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@ poster, age is just a number, always take care of the person inside of you; love yourself , be good to yourself and to people you come across with and take care of your looks, You will marry, you are not old yet. Most celebrities abroad that are older than you; are either recently engaged or married. Even babes that you've not heard of and are older than you , are either in a tigh relationship /married, don't lose hope, simply love yourself and look good.
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bridget007 (f)
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@ idupaul, lol!   no not in a shop, He just knows what's good!! Some people in their 30's are mentally and physically wiped out, while some look and feel like they are 20, some people in their 20's look and act like they are in their 40's, age is just a number, and well me, i may be 37 but look younger and have an energetic and fun attitude to life but with the maturity of my age, education and life experience, and my fertility sure as hell is not affected hehe! Age is only an issue if people make it an issue, certainly age differences of up to ten years dependant on the type of people they are cannot be a boundary to a good and mutually beneficial relationship. |
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idupaul
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@ idupaul, lol! no not in a shop, He just knows what's good!! Some people in their 30's are mentally and physically wiped out, while some look and feel like they are 20, some people in their 20's look and act like they are in their 40's, age is just a number, and well me, i may be 37 but look younger and have an energetic and fun attitude to life but with the maturity of my age, education and life experience, and my fertility sure as hell is not affected hehe! Age is only an issue if people make it an issue, certainly age differences of up to ten years dependant on the type of people they are cannot be a boundary to a good and mutually beneficial relationship. I think i know why he allowed u to be his cougar, because ur fun, never met u though but from the tone of your post u sound like a ton of fun |
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Hannibal
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Hiya again,
HANNIBAL - where is this banker you said you had for me?
He is fyne!! Are u interested in him?  |
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topup
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There are thousands of men out there who will want to marry you.
There are several different reasons and aspects you should look at;
- Are you overly picky on physical/exterior things, which can stop you from spotting a truly amazing man.
- Are you taking good care of yourself, dressing nicely and making a great effort to make great first impressions with all the people you meet.
- Also, let your friends know your situation, they may know lovely men out there looking for the same thing.
- No matter what people say, you are not past your 'sell-by date', there is someone out there for everyone.
If you're a Christian also, pray about it, he hears our prayer.
Overall, I just advise you to start making a real conscious effort to make more friends, date more and become more outgoing, the men don't always come to you.
**People please don't be harsh on this woman, I have heard tales of how people treat single women in their thirties, they treat them like outcasts, they don't respect them, I heard a testimony from a lecturer who was in her 30s and she said people would walk all over her, because apparently without a man she was a nobody.
Nobody can really understand unless they are also in their 30s, people will look down and put pressure on these women.
Please be strong!**
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tope2000 (f)
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topup has spoken  |
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idupaul
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topup hw old are u please?
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Hannibal
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[color=#cc0066]There are thousands of men out there who will want to marry you.
I thunk as much but it seems to be getting HARDER for women over 30 to nail a man. There are several different reasons and aspects you should look at;
- Are you overly picky on physical/exterior things, which can stop you from spotting a truly amazing man.
- Are you taking good care of yourself, dressing nicely and making a great effort to make great first impressions with all the people you meet.
- Also, let your friends know your situation, they may know lovely men out there looking for the same thing.
- No matter what people say, you are not past your 'sell-by date', there is someone out there for everyone.
Are u sure all these factors play a role?? There are many women out there in pristine conditions without a man and they are desperately searching. Besides, her problem is not dating/meeting men. . . . . She wants to get MARRIED. |
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topup
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I thunk as much but it seems to be getting HARDER for women over 30 to nail a man.
All I am saying is when the scope is increased, past just the men who are already in your life, you can find thousands of men looking for a woman your type, if she is willing to go outside her village, town, city, country, continent, the number of suitable bachelors increases.Are u sure all these factors play a role??
There are many women out there in pristine conditions without a man and they are desperately searching.
They are just some suggestions, there are extremes, women who do all the 'right' things and are in the wrong places, maybe all the guys she works with or socialise with or in her area are mostly around their twenties (since we know, quite a lot of men don't like to marry women who are much older). And then there are women who have let themselves go subconsciously, due to society telling them that no one will want them so why are they trying. Other reasons, could be religion, shyness/insecurities, how outgoing the woman is . . .
Besides, her problem is not dating/meeting men. . . . . She wants to get MARRIED.
You increase your chances of finding a person to marry if you present yourself in a way that interests as many types of people as possible. I'm sure that if she wore a sign that said 'I want to get married' it would scare a lot of men away. |
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djcrucifix (m)
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now go adopt a child, or you become a nun, or you do wateve,
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Hannibal
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You increase your chances of finding a person to marry if you present yourself in a way that interests as many types of people as possible. I'm sure that if she wore a sign that said 'I want to get married' it would scare a lot of men away.[/color]
At 35, u don't expect her to have ice-cold nerves, do you?? |
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topup
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At 35, u don't expect her to have ice-cold nerves, do you??
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Hannibal
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I am saying a woman of 35 is expected to be more desperate than a woman of 22. |
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The Sly
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35 Years Old Woman And Not Married? Now What? Are u cute? |
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Hannibal
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Are u cute? What a question!!! SLY?? |
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The Sly
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What a question!!!
SLY??
Huh?? Just a question now. . . . . You know some 35Yr old women tend to look better than em 18Yr old young's. Of course If she is cute. . . . .That is.  |
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Okija_juju (m)
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@ Topic 35??  My dear that is bad o!! You are fast approaching your validity period. In approximately 5 - 7 years from now you'll expire. Youu should either use juju to trap a man, or become a single mother, or join the convent or end up old and alone. |
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onyinye2 (f)
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My dear that is bad o!! You are fast approaching your validity period. In approximately 5 - 7 years from now you'll expire. Youu should either use juju to trap a man, or become a single mother, or join the convent or end up old and alone.
What is she. . . . milk carton. |
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idupaul
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What is she. . . . milk carton.
Milk carton get hope na, it can be recycled  |
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Okija_juju (m)
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Who needs her ass after menopause??  @ poster Get married or die trying - 50 Kobo |
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