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syren
Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached?
« #32 on: July 01, 2008, 08:14 PM »

Quote from: eldee on July 01, 2008, 08:09 PM
Give her your number instead
The days of men asking for contacts have passed

That's kinda true, so she doesn't give you the wrong details. I did that once  Wink

have to be cruel to be kind I guess  Cool
Mesmerize (f)
Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached?
« #33 on: July 01, 2008, 08:15 PM »

Quote from: syren on July 01, 2008, 08:14 PM
That's kind of true, so she doesn't give you the wrong details. I did that once  Wink
have to be cruel to be kind I guess  Cool
hehehe. .

Quote from: eldee on July 01, 2008, 08:09 PM
Give her your number instead
The days of men asking for contacts have passed
NO!! she wnt call you. .trust me! Tongue
ibkaye
Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached?
« #34 on: July 01, 2008, 08:17 PM »

Quote from: Mesmerize on July 01, 2008, 08:15 PM

NO!! she wnt call you. .trust me! Tongue
SECONDED!
jek_kad
Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached?
« #35 on: July 01, 2008, 08:18 PM »

@topic

with polite intimidation  Cool
Pataki
Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached?
« #36 on: July 01, 2008, 08:19 PM »

Quote from: syren on July 01, 2008, 08:09 PM
Lol yeah right Grin
Seriously. . . . .

There a way you exude the confidence that makes the lady that catches your fancy walk up to you freely. The cheapest of places is at the bar/clubs. I don't dig bar/club chics.

Gone are the days of walking to a lady and asking for her contact details.  . . . Not with me!
ikamefa (f)
Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached?
« #37 on: July 01, 2008, 08:20 PM »

Quote from: jek_kad on July 01, 2008, 08:18 PM
@topic

with polite intimidation  Cool

heheheheheheh!  Grin

abeg how?  Tongue
dreeldee
Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached?
« #38 on: July 01, 2008, 08:21 PM »

Quote from: eldee on July 01, 2008, 08:09 PM
Give her your number instead
The days of men asking for contacts have passed

you think she's gonna call you  Grin Grin Grin Grin
Waiti till Jesus Christ Comes, She wont even look at you in heaven or hell or werreva you both end up in   Cheesy you berra collect her no and even dial it in her presence to be sure it's right, in that way, she has also gotten your no.
Mesmerize (f)
Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached?
« #39 on: July 01, 2008, 08:22 PM »

Quote from: dreeldee on July 01, 2008, 08:21 PM
you think she's going to call you  Grin Grin Grin Grin
Waiti till Jesus Christ Comes, She wont even look at you in heaven or hell or werreva you both end up in   Cheesy you berra collect her no and even dial it in her presence to be sure it's right, in that way, she has also gotten your no.

Rotflmao!!
It'll be embarrassing if her phne didn't ring and you found out it wasn't her number. .
It'll be worst for you
jek_kad
Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached?
« #40 on: July 01, 2008, 08:23 PM »

Quote from: ikamefa on July 01, 2008, 08:20 PM
heheheheheheh!  Grin

abeg how?  Tongue

my sister im a very stubborn person,so any guy that wants to be cool wt me will receive a knock from me on d road or wherever we meet

im not saying i like guys that r too harsh no way,but i mean a man that is inbtw,

i only fell for d first man that intimidated politely because i met  my match  Cool
eldee (m)
Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached?
« #41 on: July 01, 2008, 08:23 PM »

Quote from: davidylan on July 01, 2008, 08:11 PM
big no no! You'll sit there waiting for her to contact you? If its a real decent chic she wont call you.
Hehehe . . . Believe me, if you've presented yourself perfectly at first, she'll be dying to call you . . .
It's all about being able to send the simple message 'I'm not any next random dude, I'm giving you this priviledge, the ball is in your court'

It's coming from me, I've seen chicks at their weakest
Just try it and get back at me Wink

Quote from: Mesmerize on July 01, 2008, 08:15 PM
NO!! she wnt call you. .trust me! Tongue
Believe me, chicks don't get their minds off guys like that
Why were you cuddling the pillow the other day Tongue Tongue Grin
syren
Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached?
« #42 on: July 01, 2008, 08:24 PM »

Quote from: dreeldee on July 01, 2008, 08:21 PM
you think she's going to call you Grin Grin Grin Grin
Waiti till Jesus Christ Comes, She wont even look at you in heaven or hell or werreva you both end up in Cheesy you berra collect her no and even dial it in her presence to be sure it's right, in that way, she has also gotten your no.

Omg there's no escape for us now o  Shocked
Mesmerize (f)
Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached?
« #43 on: July 01, 2008, 08:25 PM »

Quote from: eldee on July 01, 2008, 08:23 PM
Believe me, chicks don't get their minds off guys like that
Why were you cuddling the pillow the other day Tongue Tongue Grin

Yepp, you got me there. . but how did you know what I was doing?
stalker!
Mesmerize (f)
Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached?
« #44 on: July 01, 2008, 08:26 PM »

Quote from: syren on July 01, 2008, 08:24 PM
Omg there's no escape for us now o  Shocked
Act. there is. . make one of your friends pick up the phne, then tell him that the person has changed their number that it now belongs to you(your friend) ! simple!
dreeldee
Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached?
« #45 on: July 01, 2008, 08:26 PM »

Quote from: Mesmerize on July 01, 2008, 08:22 PM
Rotflmao!!
It'll be embarrassing if her phne didn't ring and you found out it wasn't her number. .
It'll be worst for you


yeah but at least in that way, i'll be sure she hasn't played a smart one on me.
syren
Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached?
« #46 on: July 01, 2008, 08:26 PM »

Quote from: Pataki on July 01, 2008, 08:19 PM
Seriously. . . . .

There a way you exude the confidence that makes the lady that catches your fancy walk up to you freely. The cheapest of places is at the bar/clubs. I don't dig bar/club chics.

Gone are the days of walking to a lady and asking for her contact details. . . . Not with me!


Wow! r u that irresistible Pataki  Wink Grin
Mesmerize (f)
Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached?
« #47 on: July 01, 2008, 08:27 PM »

ROTFLMAO!! Grin Grin Grin

Quote from: dreeldee on July 01, 2008, 08:26 PM
yeah but at least in that way, i'll be sure she hasn't played a smart one on me.
Yea, true that
davidylan (m)
Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached?
« #48 on: July 01, 2008, 08:28 PM »

Quote from: eldee on July 01, 2008, 08:23 PM
Hehehe . . . Believe me, if you've presented yourself perfectly at first, she'll be dying to call you . . .
It's all about being able to send the simple message 'I'm not any next random dude, I'm giving you this priviledge, the ball is in your court'

this works with club/bar chics. Real women out there wont call you no matter how much they are dying inside to. You're the man, do the stepping up . . . if i were a woman i wont take you seriously. It cuts across as a man who is not likely the type to take any form of responsibility seriously.
syren
Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached?
« #49 on: July 01, 2008, 08:29 PM »

Quote from: Mesmerize on July 01, 2008, 08:26 PM
Act. there is. . make one of your friends pick up the phne, then tell him that the person has changed their number that it now belongs to you(your friend) ! simple!

But of course , I have so much to learn from you Mesmerize  Wink Grin
jek_kad
Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached?
« #50 on: July 01, 2008, 08:29 PM »

Quote from: davidylan on July 01, 2008, 08:28 PM
this works with club/bar chics. Real women out there wont call you no matter how much they are dying inside to. You're the man, do the stepping up . . . if i were a woman i wont take you seriously. It cuts across as a man who is not likely the type to take any form of responsibility seriously.

you're right u know
Mesmerize (f)
Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached?
« #51 on: July 01, 2008, 08:30 PM »

Quote from: syren on July 01, 2008, 08:29 PM
But of course , I have so much to learn from you Mesmerize  Wink Grin
LOL!! Me sef, I learned. .and it works Cool
ikamefa (f)
Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached?
« #52 on: July 01, 2008, 08:30 PM »

Quote from: davidylan on July 01, 2008, 08:28 PM
this works with club/bar chics. Real women out there wont call you no matter how much they are dying inside to. You're the man, do the stepping up . . . if i were a woman i wont take you seriously. It cuts across as a man who is not likely the type to take any form of responsibility seriously.

gbam!

 Grin
Quote from: eldee on July 01, 2008, 08:23 PM
Hehehe . . . Believe me, if you've presented yourself perfectly at first, she'll be dying to call you . . .
It's all about being able to send the simple message 'I'm not any next random dude, I'm giving you this priviledge, the ball is in your court'

It's coming from me, I've seen chicks at their weakest
Just try it and get back at me Wink
Believe me, chicks don't get their minds off guys like that
Why were you cuddling the pillow the other day Tongue Tongue Grin



no kidding?  Grin na wah for privileges oh!  Cheesy Grin
dreeldee
Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached?
« #53 on: July 01, 2008, 08:31 PM »

Quote from: Mesmerize on July 01, 2008, 08:26 PM
Act. there is. . make one of your friends pick up the phne, then tell him that the person has changed their number that it now belongs to you(your friend) ! simple!


in this way, i see no reason why you should give me your no in the first place if you ain't interested in me. if this happens then i'm sure you are not interested, then i let you go afteral, there are many fishes in the ocean
eldee (m)
Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached?
« #54 on: July 01, 2008, 08:32 PM »

Quote from: davidylan on July 01, 2008, 08:28 PM
this works with club/bar chics. Real women out there wont call you no matter how much they are dying inside to. You're the man, do the stepping up . . . if i were a woman i wont take you seriously. It cuts across as a man who is not likely the type to take any form of responsibility seriously.
Believe me, top-class chicks don't care
If they want a guy, they go after him

It just shows the next level of confidence
It's a serious turn-on for top-class chicks
Mesmerize (f)
Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached?
« #55 on: July 01, 2008, 08:33 PM »

Quote from: jek_kad on July 01, 2008, 08:29 PM
you're right u know
Dnt mind him . . he doesn't do the "stepping" up Lips sealed
eldee (m)
Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached?
« #56 on: July 01, 2008, 08:35 PM »

Quote from: ikamefa on July 01, 2008, 08:30 PM
no kidding?  Grin na wah for privileges oh! Cheesy Grin
It's just like marketing, guys need to know how important they are to ladies
Mesmerize (f)
Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached?
« #57 on: July 01, 2008, 08:35 PM »

Quote from: dreeldee on July 01, 2008, 08:31 PM

in this way, i see no reason why you should give me your no in the first place if you ain't interested in me. if this happens then i'm sure you are not interested, then i let you go afteral, there are many fishes in the ocean
Some men are very persistence you know. . if you tell them no, they keep following you and chatting with you
The best thing to do, is give them a fake number, let them leave you in peace, and the torture ends faster.  .

And some girls just dnt want to be rude by saying no, they think it'll hurt the guy's feelings
davidylan (m)
Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached?
« #58 on: July 01, 2008, 08:36 PM »

Quote from: eldee on July 01, 2008, 08:32 PM
Believe me, top-class chicks don't care
If they want a guy, they go after him

lol this your "top class" chics. One thing you have to quickly realise . . . are you after a woman or a "chic"?
Second thing to consider - every woman has no less than 2 men actively interested in her.
Last thing to consider - giving her your number when other men are calling her night and day is the quickest way to push urself into the ocean of oblivion.

But you never know with women.  Smiley Isnt the world funny?

Quote from: Mesmerize on July 01, 2008, 08:33 PM
Dnt mind him . . he doesn't do the "stepping" up Lips sealed

"Stepping up" involves so many supposedly minute but very important issues to consider.  Wink
Mesmerize (f)
Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached?
« #59 on: July 01, 2008, 08:38 PM »

Quote from: davidylan on July 01, 2008, 08:36 PM
"Stepping up" involves so many supposedly minute but very important issues to consider.  Wink
Issues like?

Quote from: eldee on July 01, 2008, 08:35 PM
It's just like marketing, guys need to know how important they are to ladies

Eldee, you are not serious!
You and this your men are important movement  Embarrassed
ikamefa (f)
Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached?
« #60 on: July 01, 2008, 08:38 PM »

Quote from: eldee on July 01, 2008, 08:35 PM
It's just like marketing,

i agree!  Cheesy

Quote from: eldee on July 01, 2008, 08:35 PM
guys need to know how important they are to ladies


oh really?  Grin  like water is to a dying man in the desert Tongue  "  Grin "

na today?  Cheesy   you were soo important you just had to approach  her abi? to let her know you existed in the 1st place   Grin
syren
Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached?
« #61 on: July 01, 2008, 08:39 PM »

Quote from: Mesmerize on July 01, 2008, 08:35 PM
Some men are very persistence you know. . if you tell them no, they keep following you and chatting with you
The best thing to do, is give them a fake number, let them leave you in peace, and the torture ends faster. .

And some girls just dnt want to be rude by saying no, they think it'll hurt the guy's feelings

Very true  Cool
dreeldee
Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached?
« #62 on: July 01, 2008, 08:41 PM »

Quote from: Mesmerize on July 01, 2008, 08:35 PM
Some men are very persistence you know. . if you tell them no, they keep following you and chatting with you
The best thing to do, is give them a fake number, let them leave you in peace, and the torture ends faster.  .

And some girls just dnt want to be rude by saying no, they think it'll hurt the guy's feelings

 Huh Huh Huh

Quote from: davidylan on July 01, 2008, 08:36 PM
lol this your "top class" chics. One thing you have to quickly realise . . . are you after a woman or a "chic"?
Second thing to consider - every woman has no less than 2 men actively interested in her.
Last thing to consider - giving her your number when other men are calling her night and day is the quickest way to push yourself into the ocean of oblivion.

But you never know with women.  Smiley Isnt the world funny?

"Stepping up" involves so many supposedly minute but very important issues to consider.  Wink

exactly  in this world we're in where every lady you admire is currently the no 1 on the list of 10 other guys. I'll rather get her no and call her than dwell in an illusion
Mesmerize (f)
Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached?
« #63 on: July 01, 2008, 08:41 PM »

Quote from: ikamefa on July 01, 2008, 08:38 PM
i agree!  Cheesy

oh really?  Grin  like water is to a dying man in the desert Tongue  "  Grin "

na today?  Cheesy   you were soo important you just had to approach  her abi? to let her know you existed in the 1st place   Grin
rotfl. .  Grin Grin
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