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Hannibal
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So, basically you're saying we should continue to live like in the days men made fire by rubbing two stones?  Where's Debo, his bush wife has finally surfaced Letz go back to the caveman era. . . . . . . Women were less stubborn then and there's no fronting!!!  |
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Radiant (f)
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Letz go back to the caveman era. . . . . . . Women were less stubborn then and there's no fronting!!! And no threats of trapping with pregnancy. It was only normal the men had their way anytime and the babies flowing out like a river Ain't no trapping whatsoever. In fact, who born you to insist on having less than 10 children??  Miss Trap, is lucky though.She would have fled for her life after 10 children and having to deal with 7 other wives before her |
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Hannibal
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And no threats of trapping with pregnancy. It was only normal the men had their way anytime and the babies flowing out like a river Ain't no trapping whatsoever. In fact, who born you to insist on having less than 10 children?? Miss Trap, is lucky though.She would have fled for her life after 10 children and having to deal with 7 other wives before her Are u sure there were no condomz then?? I am sure men used bubble wraps to shield their weapons in em days. Trust me, if every intercourse led to pregnancy in em days, there would be more people.  Miss Trap and 10 kids?? Awesome!!! |
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Radiant (f)
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Are u sure there were no condomz then?? I am sure men used bubble wraps to shield their weapons in em days. Trust me, if every intercourse led to pregnancy in em days, there would be more people. On a serious note now. What was the mode of contraception then?  Do the research please |
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Hannibal
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@ Radiant,
Safe period
Sexual Abstinence
Withdrawal method
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Radiant (f)
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@ Radiant,
Safe period
Sexual Abstinence
Withdrawal method
Yea right! Sexual abstinence for how long??Do more research 'cause this ain't it. Safe period my July 12! |
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Hannibal
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Yea right! Sexual abstinence for how long??Do more research 'cause this ain't it. Safe period my July 12! I dug the crates for information and i am afraid that was the best i could unearth. Men had little intelligence then compared to today. |
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Wokeyim (f)
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@ Radiant "Wasn't necessary, babe. You such a shame bag" Why didn't u answer the simple question. Can u or can't u fall pregannant. Easy way to escape the truth. That's typical of Nigerians. @ The rest of the jobless people here That's my opinion. The worse anyone can do is flog me @ Hannibal You're right. Wokeyim didn't invent this formula because she's not done it before. If i had, by now i should be married or been a single mother. But whether i'll do it or not is totally my business, not urs. @ proo212 My dear, you'll be deceiving yourself to think there's a perfect marriage. Every marriage, forced or not forced, has its ups and downs. You think marriage is all about love? Ask your mother!! On a serious note now. What was the mode of contraception then? Do the research please Rady baby, you want to do a research on "Family Planning in the primordial era?" You've got a good topic now. I can help you with real life references if u care! It's only on Nairaland that you find small boys and girls rambling anyhow. No respect for elders because any one can come say what he wants and disappear. You guys can keep rambling on and on and on. I already said am out of this place. |
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skyeyes (f)
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it turned out i was not pregnant.like i said a nurse did the pt,told me it was positive,i told him and we did a scan in his docs hospital and it showed nothing.right now i can't convince him that i was not playing a game. i think i have lost him,cause even if he forgives me,i know he will never trust me again.
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Wokeyim (f)
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Oohps! That's a really painful something. I think, if its possible, u should take him to see the nurse who made the mistake so she can explain things to him. If he still doesn't trust u after that, then the relationship may not be worth it afterall.
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skyeyes (f)
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Oohps! That's a really painful something. I think, if its possible, u should take him to see the nurse who made the mistake so she can explain things to him. If he still doesn't trust u after that, then the relationship may not be worth it afterall. [/ quote] he does not even believe i did a pt,talk more of following me to the place.he just confessed to me he was beginning to fall in love with me but what i did is criminal.i love him so much i don't even know what to do. |
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Wokeyim (f)
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then the relationship may not be worth it afterall.
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brine baba (m)
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Lol.so wot did u do to the nurse!
Ah! If i were in ur shoes ehn,d nurse ll loose her cert.
*false assumptns*
may be na "auxillary nurse".lmfa0
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proo212 (m)
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@ proo212
My dear, you'll be deceiving yourself to think there's a perfect marriage. Every marriage, forced or not forced, has its ups and downs. You think marriage is all about love? Ask your mother!! Of course there is no perfect marriage, and speaking as someone who was married before (for love I might add) and whose friends (virtually all of them are married), yes marriage is not all about love but marriage is horrible and miserable when you don't even like the person who is the mother of your child! Have you been married before? I suspect not, so you have no clue personally just what you read or hear from people. Marriage is different from living together or dating. |
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Radiant (f)
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@ Radiant
"Wasn't necessary, babe. You such a shame bag"
Why didn't u answer the simple question. Can u or can't u fall pregannant. Easy way to escape the truth. That's typical of Nigerians.
Sorry to disappoint you but "I can't fall pregnant". Only loosers without self value do such. 
@ proo212
My dear, you'll be deceiving yourself to think there's a perfect marriage. Every marriage, forced or not forced, has its ups and downs. You think marriage is all about love? Ask your mother!!
Ups and downs is not synonymous with misery. Check the new Oxford dic and stop reading writings on stones @ Radiant Rady baby, you want to do a research on "Family Planning in the primordial era?" You've got a good topic now. I can help you with real life references if u care! It's only on Nairaland that you find small boys and girls rambling anyhow. No respect for elders because any one can come say what he wants and disappear. You guys can keep rambling on and on and on. I already said am out of this place. Umm. . . thanks for the offer but I live in the 21st century. Keep your facts and experiences to yourself Where did you see an elder on Nairaland?? I hope you not talking about yourself 'cause I'll pull that wig off your head now |
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Wokeyim (f)
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@ Radiant
LMAO, so funny!!!
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kufreabasi (m)
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it very possible to trap a man through pregnancy.
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Wokeyim (f)
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it very possible to trap a man through pregnancy.
WORD!!! coming from a guy, to all the defenders of the masses like Rady baby |
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Radiant (f)
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it very possible to trap a man through pregnancy.
Definitely but only if the supposed man is a TOY and not a REAL MAN that knows what he wants. Wokey dearie, ur own na toy abi na man? |
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Wokeyim (f)
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Wokey dearie, your own na toy abi na man? Rady baby, i no get o. I don tell u say na ur brother i dey find
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Radiant (f)
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Loose that your cave mentality and I'll hook you guys up. |
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Wokeyim (f)
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that's if am not older than him too |
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Radiant (f)
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Umm won't ask your age but my bro is 26-27 |
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Wokeyim (f)
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Then he's still in the "play boy" age. You know, the "jeans, tee-shirt and canvas" wearing category. He couldn't be ready for marriage yet. Sure he's even a student
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Radiant (f)
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LOL he finished skul 2 years ago. He's working now. You're right though, he's a play boy And yea, I have only one brother |
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Radiant (f)
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I know. He broke up with his ex that he was terribly serious with and since then he's "been in the wild" |
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Wokeyim (f)
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That ain't the best for him. Tell him there's so much HIV in the air, seeking for whom to steal, kill and destroy! Besides, one of his kokolettes may soon hook him up with a pregnancy!!!  |
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Rhea (m)
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Contrary to what some may think, a woman can still trap a man into marriage with the pregnancy reason. But then it wouldn't really be a trap unless the baby ain't his. As a man, try and get the daughter of a rich tycoon pregnant. If they deem you worthy of being their son-in-law, then they will drag you to the altar whether you want it or not. A man willing to have unsafe sex, many of us do anyway, shouldn't be portrayed as having been trapped if the girl gets pregnant. He just had it coming. What should really bother both parties is the future of such a marriage. A marriage founded on compulsion . I would thus advise a girl/lady not to resort to pregnancy as a means of commtting a man to marriage. While you may succeed in dragging him to church/court/your father's house, you may not succeed in winning his soul and his love. You may never succeed in sharing in his life. Where the urge permits, delaying sex till marriage works. But that in itself requires A LOT of committment, steadfastness, God's intervention and a bit of 'foolishness' ( as the world would term it)on the part of both parties. A man willing enough to get married can let the sex thang wait. After all, after marriage, na u go tire. Enough said. |
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Radiant (f)
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That ain't the best for him. Tell him there's so much HIV in the air, seeking for whom to steal, kill and destroy! Besides, one of his kokolettes may soon hook him up with a pregnancy!!! He knows and I believe he's careful. If he impregnates a girl, that's his own cheese cake. No one is a baby anymore |
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Wokeyim (f)
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@ Rhea hmm  |
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