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RedHotChic (f)
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My aunt's friend had a very rich husband in Nigeria and I remember vividly how she tells us that she constantly steal money from him to boost the family's financial budget since he's very stingy when it comes to giving his non working spouse money but will be quick to splash big money on his numerous mistresses. That story got me thinking that she may be ignorant of what is hers and what is not since she thinks she's stealing from him. He refused to give her the safe combination but she got it somehow(does it matter how she got it?).
Question: Can you really steal from your spouse since it's community property under marital laws?
Was she right in what she was doing? Did her actions qualify as stealing since you can't steal from yourself?.
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ibkaye
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Yes of course. His heart.  |
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RedHotChic (f)
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lmao, some hearts cannot be stolen,
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jek_kad
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she did not steal,she only tapped out from what is hers  |
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Mesmerize (f)
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@post sometimes stealing in a marriage can be allowed as borrowing. . but you just wnt return it  |
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Busta (f)
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#1. I can never date or marry a stingy man. I too like money o abeg. #2. It depends . . but never say never. if we are married . . of course I will. what ever happened to "TWo Become One" What is his is mine and what is mine is mine. |
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Mesmerize (f)
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lmao!! Busta, you're not serious |
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RedHotChic (f)
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she did not steal,she only tapped out from what is hers I knew it, some people really think they are stealing from their wives or husbands. |
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RedHotChic (f)
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My girlfriend stole from me before, and that was the end of the relationship. That one is different but whenever you sign a marriage certificate, she will not be able to steal from you again even if she wants to. |
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debosky (m)
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#1. I can never date or marry a stingy man. I too like money o abeg.
#2. It depends . . but never say never.
if we are married . . of course I will.
Why you no talk that one before? *now I aint saying she a goldigga, but she aint rolling with no broke fellas* Money lover + Barawo = Busta  It IS STEALING - how does it belong to you under 'marital law' na you work for d money?? |
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syren (f)
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A loving husand will not keep what is owed or intended for his wife and vice versa. If I needed it and it was mine aswell as his then I would take, but not the money he earns, he can't do that to me either. |
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Mesmerize (f)
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A loving husand will not keep what is owed or intended for his wife and vice versa. If I needed it and it was mine aswell as his then I would take, but not the money he earns, he can't do that to me either. no no no! You dnt steal his money, you're borrowing it. .just not returning it! but it does not go vice versa |
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jek_kad
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I knew it,[b][/b] some people really think they are stealing from their wives or husbands.
how do u mean? |
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Busta (f)
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Why you no talk that one before? *now I aint saying she a goldigga, but she aint rolling with no broke fellas* Money lover + Barawo = Busta It IS STEALING - how does it belong to you under 'marital law' na you work for d money?? Debo, If thats how u see it . . . na ur business be that. Thats why I don't come near broke ass like u. |
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ibkaye
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Can you steal from your spouse sha? What's mine is his vice versa  |
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syren (f)
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You dnt steal his money, you're borrowing it. .just not returning it! but it does not go vice versa of course not  |
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jek_kad
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i don't steal ooooo ,i don't steal at all but sometimes i take money from his bag wtout asking him  and he still wouldnt know because i no go talk that is not stealing ,its called sharpness |
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RedHotChic (f)
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It IS STEALING - how does it belong to you under 'marital law' na you work for d money?? Marital law= what is yours is now mine and what is mine is now yours. marriage is not about trading booty and love alone, it also involves material wealth too. |
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jek_kad
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@ redhot and mesmeriz
So if your child steals your money, he/she too is also borrowing it. no be so?
off topic sir,we r talking about spouse and not pikinssss |
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RedHotChic (f)
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@ redhot and mesmeriz
So if your child steals your money, he/she too is also borrowing it. no be so? Are you married to your child? |
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RedHotChic (f)
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. If I needed it and it was mine aswell as his then I would take, but not the money he earns, he can't do that to me either. Cool How can you take it if it wasn't the money he earns? |
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RedHotChic (f)
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#1. I can never date or marry a stingy man. I too like money o abeg. Some dudes know how to swing abeg. The moment you have 2 kids et al for them, you'll be relegated to the basket of history and he'll start wasting the family income on his secretary. |
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Hannibal
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My aunt's friend had a very rich husband in Nigeria and I remember vividly how she tells us that she constantly steal money from him to boost the family's financial budget since he's very stingy when it comes to giving his non working spouse money but will be quick to splash big money on his numerous mistresses. That story got me thinking that she may be ignorant of what is hers and what is not since she thinks she's stealing from him. He refused to give her the safe combination but she got it somehow(does it matter how she got it?).
Question: Can you really steal from your spouse since it's community property under marital laws?
Was she right in what she was doing? Did her actions qualify as stealing since you can't steal from yourself?.
There's nuthing wrong in what she is doing as long as it doesn't harm the husband financially. Money is meant to be spent anyways. . . . .Who's going to spend it when the husband goes 6 feet under? |
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jek_kad
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#1. I can never date or marry a stingy man. I too like money o abeg.#2. It depends . . but never say never. if we are married . . of course I will. What ever happened to "TWo Become One"What is his is mine and what is mine is mine. i no sure say u like money reach me,who no like better thing |
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Busta (f)
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Some dudes know how to swing abeg. The moment you have 2 kids et al for them, you'll be relegated to the basket of history and he'll start wasting the family income on his secretary.
No problem na. As dey get female secretary . . . na so they get male secretaries. |
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Busta (f)
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i no sure say u like money reach me,who no like better thing Yes o . . . Abeg, to look good no be chewing gum. if u can't afford me . . .scram!! |
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jek_kad
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Same difference. its still the family purse. if you dip hand into with without authorisation, you be thief. As baba fela sing.
there is a great diff between a child and a spouse,ok since u say its d same thing y not start shagging ur kids |
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davidylan (m)
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what is the meaning of "broke ass"?
Is their sacral bone fractured or what?
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debosky (m)
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If what is his is yours, then you must BOTH agree before you have access to his funds - or will you say because your body is your hubby's that he can force you to have sex anytime he wants because you 'belong to each other'?? A few moments from now, people will start talking about marital rape, well this is a simple case of marital ROBBERY. |
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Mesmerize (f)
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@ redhot and mesmeriz
So if your child steals your money, he/she too is also borrowing it. no be so? Do you need me to define the word "spouse" for you? |
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jek_kad
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If what is his is yours, then you must BOTH agree before you have access to his funds - or will you say because your body is your hubby's that he can force you to have sex anytime he wants because you 'belong to each other'?? A few moments from now, people will start talking about marital rape, well this is a simple case of marital ROBBERY. naaaa its not marital robbery ,its simply called marital wisdom and intelligence |
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Busta (f)
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what is the meaning of "broke ass"?
Is their sacral bone fractured or what?
not exactly but close. @ debo that ur jeko jeko school u went to . . u need to go back fro refund o. am glad u included the word "Marital" in front of "Robbery". better know wathu goin into before u go and delcare ur vows because it all comes in a combo!! |
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