No Interest In Boyfriend At 19: Is It Possible?

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ann marien (f)
No Interest In Boyfriend At 19: Is It Possible?
« on: June 30, 2008, 10:16 PM »

just wanted to ask a couple of things, Is it possible that at the age of 19,you still havn't met anyone u can say you see in a romantic light, as in you want to have a relationship with? not that i havnt met some very good guys,  am i just deceiving myself?, just never seen them in that light.plus if they're in my class and my age, the whole thing just seems weird, i'm just very good friends with them, how can u know u really genuinely like/love someone?(please no butterflies in my belly descriptions, i don't get that), generally when my good male friends start wanting more, they start to irritate me and then i give them space? is that normal?, and how do u turn someone down nicely? someone very good?   i hate being the heartbreaker, its not fun at all and i don't lead people on, i need answers to all these and related things.please no harsh words or criticisms, i get enough of that, any contributions would greatly help, thanks in advance
ibkaye
Re: Is It Possible
« #1 on: June 30, 2008, 10:17 PM »

it is most certainly possible, don't worry yourself dear Smiley
jek_kad
Re: Is It Possible
« #2 on: June 30, 2008, 10:20 PM »

its true because its obvious u havent fallen in love yet


but as for your friends,if u aint interested in them tell them politely that u guys can be just friends and nothing more,don't be rude

But if they decide to back out of the friendship then u let them be,.because d last thing any body will do is date out of pity . sympathy,or date because u don't want to loose whoever it is

ibkaye
Re: Is It Possible
« #3 on: June 30, 2008, 10:21 PM »

Quote from: jek_kad on June 30, 2008, 10:20 PM
its true because its obvious u havent fallen in love yet


but as for your friends,if u aint interested in them tell them politely that u guys can be just friends and nothing more,don't be rude

But if they decide to back out of the friendship then u let them be,.because d last thing any body will do is date out of pity . sympathy,or dating because u don't want to loose whoever it is


spoken like a pro  Cool

kedu aunty Grin
jek_kad
Re: Is It Possible
« #4 on: June 30, 2008, 10:22 PM »

Quote from: ibkaye on June 30, 2008, 10:21 PM
spoken like a pro  Cool

kedu aunty Grin

odinma  Grin Grin Grin how'dy sweetie?
Mesmerize (f)
Re: Is It Possible
« #5 on: June 30, 2008, 10:22 PM »

lawwd!
Some people have met someone, some others have not. . while some just dnt care.
We're all not the same, we may not have same feelings and emotional response at same stage.

So dnt worry
ibkaye
Re: Is It Possible
« #6 on: June 30, 2008, 10:26 PM »

Quote from: jek_kad on June 30, 2008, 10:22 PM
odinma Grin Grin Grin how'dy sweetie?
am fine o, seun don ban u again? chineke  Cry

@toyin
ba wo ni oremii Smiley
Mesmerize (f)
Re: Is It Possible
« #7 on: June 30, 2008, 10:39 PM »

am fyn sweetie. . u?
HR.hotness (f)
Re: Is It Possible
« #8 on: June 30, 2008, 10:53 PM »

Quote from: ann marien on June 30, 2008, 10:16 PM
just wanted to ask a couple of things, Is it possible that at the age of 19,you still havn't met anyone u can say you see in a romantic light, as in you want to have a relationship with? not that i havnt met some very good guys, am i just deceiving myself?, just never seen them in that light.plus if they're in my class and my age, the whole thing just seems weird, i'm just very good friends with them, how can u know u really genuinely like/love someone?(please no butterflies in my belly descriptions, i don't get that), generally when my good male friends start wanting more, they start to irritate me and then i give them space? is that normal?, and how do u turn someone down nicely? someone very good? i hate being the heartbreaker, its not fun at all and i don't lead people on, i need answers to all these and related things.please no harsh words or criticisms, i get enough of that, any contributions would greatly help, thanks in advance

Perfectly normal  Grin

just don't rush things, concentrate on having a good time and getting to know yourself,  in due time it will all come
Gamine (f)
Re: No Interest In Boyfriend At 19: Is It Possible?
« #9 on: July 01, 2008, 10:05 AM »

It is So Normal!!!

Abeg don't lose sleep on this issue

Live your Life girlfriend!!!
nana (f)
Re: No Interest In Boyfriend At 19: Is It Possible?
« #10 on: July 01, 2008, 10:34 AM »

U're very normal dear. U aint got no problem.
Sagamite (m)
Re: No Interest In Boyfriend At 19: Is It Possible?
« #11 on: July 01, 2008, 12:31 PM »

Quote from: jek_kad on June 30, 2008, 10:20 PM
its true because its obvious u havent fallen in love yet


but as for your friends,if u aint interested in them tell them politely that u guys can be just friends and nothing more, don't be rude

But if they decide to back out of the friendship then u let them be,.because d last thing any body will do is date out of pity . sympathy,or date because u don't want to loose whoever it is

Abeg write book so that all those silly young girls can read, learn and avoid people breaking their heart. Thank God for mature women.
jek_kad
Re: No Interest In Boyfriend At 19: Is It Possible?
« #12 on: July 01, 2008, 12:33 PM »

Quote from: Sagamite on July 01, 2008, 12:31 PM
Abeg write book so that all those silly young girls can read, learn and avoid people breaking their heart. Thank God for mature women.

lmao  Grin Grin Grin Grin na u need to write book because u sabi them well well Grin
ann marien (f)
Re: No Interest In Boyfriend At 19: Is It Possible?
« #13 on: July 01, 2008, 08:48 PM »

thanks so much u guys, ibkaye, jek_kad, mesmerize, HR.hotness, gamine, nana,  guess i'm not so weird afterall,
jek_kad
Re: No Interest In Boyfriend At 19: Is It Possible?
« #14 on: July 01, 2008, 08:50 PM »

Quote from: ann marien on July 01, 2008, 08:48 PM
thanks so much u guys, ibkaye, jek_kad, mesmerize, HR.hotness, gamine, nana,  guess i'm not so weird afterall,

u r welcome sweetie Kiss Smiley
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