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ann marien (f)
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just wanted to ask a couple of things, Is it possible that at the age of 19,you still havn't met anyone u can say you see in a romantic light, as in you want to have a relationship with? not that i havnt met some very good guys, am i just deceiving myself?, just never seen them in that light.plus if they're in my class and my age, the whole thing just seems weird, i'm just very good friends with them, how can u know u really genuinely like/love someone?(please no butterflies in my belly descriptions, i don't get that), generally when my good male friends start wanting more, they start to irritate me and then i give them space? is that normal?, and how do u turn someone down nicely? someone very good? i hate being the heartbreaker, its not fun at all and i don't lead people on, i need answers to all these and related things.please no harsh words or criticisms, i get enough of that, any contributions would greatly help, thanks in advance
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ibkaye
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it is most certainly possible, don't worry yourself dear 
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jek_kad
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its true because its obvious u havent fallen in love yet
but as for your friends,if u aint interested in them tell them politely that u guys can be just friends and nothing more,don't be rude
But if they decide to back out of the friendship then u let them be,.because d last thing any body will do is date out of pity . sympathy,or date because u don't want to loose whoever it is
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ibkaye
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its true because its obvious u havent fallen in love yet
but as for your friends,if u aint interested in them tell them politely that u guys can be just friends and nothing more,don't be rude
But if they decide to back out of the friendship then u let them be,.because d last thing any body will do is date out of pity . sympathy,or dating because u don't want to loose whoever it is
spoken like a pro  kedu aunty 
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jek_kad
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spoken like a pro  kedu aunty  odinma  how'dy sweetie?
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Mesmerize (f)
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lawwd! Some people have met someone, some others have not. . while some just dnt care. We're all not the same, we may not have same feelings and emotional response at same stage.
So dnt worry
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ibkaye
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am fine o, seun don ban u again? chineke  @toyin ba wo ni oremii 
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Mesmerize (f)
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am fyn sweetie. . u?
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HR.hotness (f)
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just wanted to ask a couple of things, Is it possible that at the age of 19,you still havn't met anyone u can say you see in a romantic light, as in you want to have a relationship with? not that i havnt met some very good guys, am i just deceiving myself?, just never seen them in that light.plus if they're in my class and my age, the whole thing just seems weird, i'm just very good friends with them, how can u know u really genuinely like/love someone?(please no butterflies in my belly descriptions, i don't get that), generally when my good male friends start wanting more, they start to irritate me and then i give them space? is that normal?, and how do u turn someone down nicely? someone very good? i hate being the heartbreaker, its not fun at all and i don't lead people on, i need answers to all these and related things.please no harsh words or criticisms, i get enough of that, any contributions would greatly help, thanks in advance
Perfectly normal  just don't rush things, concentrate on having a good time and getting to know yourself, in due time it will all come
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Gamine (f)
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It is So Normal!!!
Abeg don't lose sleep on this issue
Live your Life girlfriend!!!
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nana (f)
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U're very normal dear. U aint got no problem.
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Sagamite (m)
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its true because its obvious u havent fallen in love yet
but as for your friends,if u aint interested in them tell them politely that u guys can be just friends and nothing more, don't be rude
But if they decide to back out of the friendship then u let them be,.because d last thing any body will do is date out of pity . sympathy,or date because u don't want to loose whoever it is
Abeg write book so that all those silly young girls can read, learn and avoid people breaking their heart. Thank God for mature women.
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ann marien (f)
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thanks so much u guys, ibkaye, jek_kad, mesmerize, HR.hotness, gamine, nana, guess i'm not so weird afterall,
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jek_kad
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thanks so much u guys, ibkaye, jek_kad, mesmerize, HR.hotness, gamine, nana, guess i'm not so weird afterall,
u r welcome sweetie 
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