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~Cutest~ (m)
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Nairalanders, Please Picture this scenario. A guy is a broke dude and all he has is the vision of where he wants to go and he has been chyking this babe since forever. He has used every skill in the book to make this babe fall for him and she tells him she does not have feelings for him. Wounded, the guy picks up himself and continues on his journey. After school he lands a job that gives him a take home of roughly 150k monthly minus benefits and suddenly out of the blues the babe shows up saying that she had always tripped for him but just felt it wasn't rite at the time blah blah blah.
Now on my life and honor as a gentleman this actually happened to me and infact until it did i thot it was a something that only happened in Nollywood movies. Is she for Real?
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tope2000 (f)
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I aint saying is a gold digger
but she def don't mess with broke niggas
so BEWARE!!!
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tboy1 (m)
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most women want good things or at least they want to be comfortable so i do not blame her. . . but personally i won't let her into my life  |
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syren
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Aaaaahhhh  Women are disgracing us here o  Don't trust her! Tell her your money don finish and you lost your job then see what she does. That's why it's good to find someone while you're just starting in life then atleast you know she wants you for who you are not what you have. Then when the money is now rolling in don't forget to treat her like a queen because she desrves it |
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tope2000 (f)
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Aaaaahhhh Women are disgracing us here o Don't trust her! Tell her your money don finish and you lost your job then see what she does. That's why it's good to find someone while you're just starting in life then atleast you know she wants you for who you are not what you have. Then when the money is now rolling in don't forget to treat her like a queen because she desrves it CO-SIGNED |
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francessby (f)
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You did not tell us if the babe gives you this excuse before now, anyway if are dying for her you can still give her chance but be strict in terms of releasing money to know which one she wants whether is love or money  |
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tboy1 (m)
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@ tope2000 CO-SIGNED ehnnnn? |
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beauteous (f)
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She's only back cuzz she thinks yhu re finacially okay now. its up to yhu if yhu want her/not. d babe nor sabi lie sef
if na me,i for say i like yhu den
bhut i get boyfriend so i didn't want to mess tyns up
synz i dnt double date  |
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~Cutest~ (m)
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You did not tell us if the babe gives you this excuse before now, anyway if are dying for her you can still give her chance but be strict in terms of releasing money to know which one she wants whether is love or money Frankly speaking all she said was she was not feeling anything! |
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tope2000 (f)
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but now that there is money n job, there are feelings???
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4gotnheros (m)
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Bang her! never give in to Dulling!
Girls like that are useless and Gold Diggers, Only after your cash!!!
I suggest you play along bro!
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Ibime (m)
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In this case, it is time for the man to play his own game and run triz on this chicka. Hit that then split that.
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~Cutest~ (m)
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Bang her! never give in to Dulling!
Girls like that are useless and Gold Diggers, Only after your cash!!!
Me thinks that will only put me in the same position as the girl. How will a man ever find a wife with such a mindset but now that there is money n job, there are feelings???
that is where i am lost |
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tope2000 (f)
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She be thief, ole. just beware
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4gotnheros (m)
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Well you know this is certainly not your ordained wife!
So, kini BIG DEAL?
Phoch her! play along!
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syren
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but now that there is money n job, there are feelings???
my guess is she now has "feelings" for your money and not you, who knows sha  I couldn't trust someone like that at all. Do you still have feelings for her? |
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~Cutest~ (m)
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my guess is she now has "feelings" for your money and not you, who knows sha I couldn't trust someone like that at all. Do you still have feelings for her?Even if i did, don't think so now because the burner in my mind is "who is she fooling?" what is wrong in building a future with a guy? |
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syren
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Well, based on what you've said if you don't believe she is genuine about her feelings then don't risk it. A relationship without trust is a big No No. I agree with you if she had always "tripped 4 you"  before, as she later on started to claim, she should have been ready to build a life with you.  |
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sleeping with her, ain't going to solve anything. because that would be descending so low to her level. so i simply say you ignore her and move on with your life. I believe you deserve a better girl.
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