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tope2000 (f)
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Probably matured minds n experienced ones n nt those that come to kill and destoy
true sha |
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Uby40 (m)
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@ poster
there are only few of us left on the planet.
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tope2000 (f)
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who told u are old romantic  |
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sistawoman (f)
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Congrats!! I envy u sha. Bt u can't compare your husband with oda indisciplined n unprincipled ones. Men difffer u knw.
That is why i tell my husband all the time how lucky i am to have a man like him in my life. I bless the day that i met him andknow that this here is forever. |
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topup
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To the OP I've read before and the funniest thing is my Ex boyfriend used to watch me sleep though he said sometimes I snored hehe. I used to wake up with him staring into my eyes and then he'D quickly pretend to be asleep. He used to cook me meals, he used to always make more room for me in his bed, he used to hold me tight, he used to call me to check up on me, point is he did all of those things. AND HE STILL DUMPED ME!! HA!
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chika98
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topup, Why did he dump you na? Wetin you do?  |
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topup
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I think it was two things:
-he is moving away, graduating from univerisity, so the long distance relationship would have had a toll on our relationship, I think he tried reversing us to being friends, but he did it by becoming completely unaffectionate, between these are just my speculations he never told me the full honest truth, he just left me with the words 'I don't think I can commit to you.'
-maybe he also felt if he was to be with me, he'D have to get married to me before he got any action, but I discussed this with him and he said he was ok with it. The problem was that he was into casual sex before me, though when he met me he told me he wanted to be serious for once and try something that wasn't merely physical. I think it was too hard for him to 'convert' hmm? Ya know?
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chika98
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I hear you! Men sabi fear commitment.
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topup
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You can say that again o! But they look for different things in girlfriends than they do in wives,
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chika98
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Yup! Women do the same too. I won't take some shit from a boyfriend but will tolerate with a husband.
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yemivictor (m)
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Hmmn, na wa o!
So, all the while he was watching you while you slept, making more room for you in his bed (wonder why he'D do that anyways, reverse should be the case), holding you tight, cooking you meals et al, no action!? 
LOL, e be like say you sef harsh small!! 
Cc: topup
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OKbobo
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a guy who says you re 'hot' is only thinking of you in a sexual way.
He has no thought for what you think or your values - he just wants to get you in the sack.
Hopefully, a guy who calls you beautiful has spent time observing you and has come to appreciate not only your physical beauty but your internal beauty which he has caught just a wisp of.
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iice (f)
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a guy who says you re 'hot' is only thinking of you in a sexual way.
He has no thought for what you think or your values - he just wants to get you in the sack.
Hopefully, a guy who calls you beautiful has spent time observing you and has come to appreciate not only your physical beauty but your internal beauty which he has caught just a wisp of.
Not always true. Some men throw the word beautiful around like the word hello.
They can observe you as you walk towards them and he will call you beautiful - there is not analyzation of inner beauty here.
Like i said before, i preferred him call me hot - and he'D better be hot for me
Beautiful has no effect on me, him? yes he can be beautiful but not me |
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yemivictor (m)
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Forever iice . . . . . . . . .
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yemivictor (m)
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Can only hope your looks equate your personality/reputation on nairaland, if we ever meet! 
Have this mental picture of you in my head already!!
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ibkaye (f)
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[color=#9900ff]Not always true. Some men throw the word beautiful around like the word hello.
They can observe you as you walk towards them and he will call you beautiful - there is not analyzation of inner beauty here.
Totally Agree |
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yemivictor (m)
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Far as i'm concerned, i don't (and won't) apply the term, beautiful, to every babe i meet! That word's deeper than many peeps'll ever understand! 
Pretty's what i use more freely!!
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iice (f)
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Forever iice . . . . . . . . . Should be anything other? Can only hope your looks equate your personality/reputation on nairaland, if we ever meet!
Have this mental picture of you in my head already!! Ahahahahaha i would say only one person has nailed that bit  Do i look like someone wearing black and a bird's nest on the head? - in this mental picture that is? . . .Yes i look like that! Far as i'm concerned, i don't (and won't) apply the term, beautiful, to every babe i meet! That word's deeper than many peeps'll ever understand!
Pretty's what i use more freely!! Pretty is even preferable. weird  |
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