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bluemoon (f)
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Is He Singly Married?
Should you continue to date a guy who's committed to marry someone else even though you're obviously both in love with eachother?
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vinnyoku (f)
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yes y not?  |
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Oyin100 (f)
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You know he's committed to someone else. Won't that be a waste of time, headed for a heart-break?
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Badman888 (m)
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how is he in love with you when he wants to marry someone else. how if they re arrainging the marriage for him ok it makes more sense then
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tishbite (m)
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how is he in love with you when he wants to marry someone else. how if they re arrainging the marriage for him ok it makes more sense then
Badman, i thought u culd have been more wiser than this. advice this brat to make good use of the marital column, it will work more wonders for her. Let talk things that affect members in this column. i wonder why people cannot have respect for the affairs of others rather they come into an Annual General Meeting of Chairmen and MD's to talk about marriage and love. What intrusive nonsense !!!! |
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davidylan (m)
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Yes it's very ok as long as it's also ok for another woman to date your own fiancee too!
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DAMMYGLOW (f)
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y would he be marrrying someone else when we are in love
i can't and i don't advise anybody to
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j-girl (f)
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It is very wrong. Dating an engaged man is wrong
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Ashiwaju (m)
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Well, he can't be in love with you and be angaged abeg, just consider yah self as an husband or wife snatcher unless and only if the engagemeant or union is dissolved then i believe u guys could have somethings together and @ thsoe looking for Job, u don't have to reply to the post u know? abi must u reply to every thread u see?
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dominobaby (f)
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*repeat davidlyan's post*
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Big Shishi (m)
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it's okay when you want nothing but sorrow and sadness!!
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Rottweiler (m)
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The whole thing sounds stupid to me. He's engaged to be married to someone else and you two are in love. I can only guess that since the two of you are in love, YOU MUST BE IN LOVE WITH ONE COMMON PERSON. AND THAT SHOULD BE THE GIRL THAT HE'S ENGAGED TO  I hope I ain't confusing you The word LOVE has really suffered. I urge the owners of English to look for another word to replace it. |
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Busta (f)
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is this a rhetorical question because i believe u already know the answer. What is wrong is wrong!! 
why do people keeps asking questions like:
-is it ok to date a married/engaged man?
-can a man be in love with 2 sistas?
-I am dating a married man and i know his wife
the answer is "NO" and y'all should remember that "WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND" and stop inviting curses over your heads.
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Hotstepper (f)
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is he da only man at ur location? u shouldn't even ask diz question here, abeg, put yourself in da gurl's position, stay away or ur life is in danger
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chinani (f)
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LOL Hotstepper! You'D think God only made 1 or 2 men for millions of women.  If y'all love each other then why isn't he engaged to you???  My thought on one's love life is if you have to ask "is it ok?" then the answer must be " NO". If it was yes, you wouldn't need to ask. |
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shockreaction (m)
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No, it's not okay.
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baby4u2 (f)
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Yes it's very ok as long as it's also ok for another woman to date your own fiancee too!
Was about to say that. Thank God i read through and found out that we were on the same page. |
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curiousNja (f)
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I'm with ya Chinani!
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Rhea (m)
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Bluemoon,
If this guy is already committed to marrying someone else, then it's about time you let him go. Persistence usually doesn't work at this stage. But do not severe the relationship in malice. He may be committed but may end up not marrying her. If that happens (not that you should pray for that), you could have another go at him.
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Rhodalyn (f)
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nope!! it aint ok but i wouldnt mind doing it esp. when the other woman is a bitch!!
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ThoniaSlim (f)
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no its not okay. |
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mamaput (f)
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Its sad because only one person is in love the othse is lieing , wants to have his cake and eat it. If the love was strong enough he will marry you.
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ToyM28 (f)
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Its not. what goes around, comes around. If u do, someone might sleep with ur fiancee when u guys are engaged. that aint a nice feeling.
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zarah (f)
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There is nothing wrong with it jare.
Nobody has even bothered to ask for the circumstances surrounding the issue.
what if you guys are in love and have been, but can't get married for one reoson or the other, and he has to marry for a reoson too, does that mean you must break up just because he is getting married?
even dating a married man is not wrong talkless of engaged man.
abi una never see where groom no show up for church?
he isn't married untill he is married. so my dear enjoy yourself and if he does go ahead and get married nothing dey happen just keep loving till u too marry.
the only wrong r/ship is the one between a man married to another woman with a woman married to another man.
and for those who say what goes around comes around. i say haha.
someone will always sleep with ur husband anyway. if u like let him be the only Manchester United v eva dated.
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ToyM28 (f)
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If they claim 2 be in love nd the man is engaged, then obviously the man doesnt love u enof 2 cut of the engagement (no matter d reason). It just proves he might like u, but his fiancee has greater prority (because of watever reason). Nd in that case, one shld feel really bad. Nd no matter d reason its still wrong
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chinani (f)
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@ ZarahSo the only taboo relationship is one where the woman is married?? Dating a married man (or engaged one) isn't wrong but a married woman is??? And to think, some people say woman are not also fools. |
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Big Shishi (m)
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zarah, i'm feelin ur flow baby!!
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chinani (f)
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zarah, i'm feelin your flow baby!!
Is this the same ShiShi who cries "Woe is me, Women are shaddymy poor heart"?  But maybe that other man stole your identity. |
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baby4u2 (f)
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@ Zarah you are completely wrong, and ur analysis wrong too. Someone would not always sleep with ur husband, maybe thats ur mindset because of the guys u come across but i don't believe that for myself or even hope for it so do most girls. Then again did u even think of the girl getting a man for herself and not another persons man? Anyway u're a good adviser to must girls that are heading for heartbreaks. Remember Nigeria is not like America or other parts of the world. Most people want to save face/image/name. That guy is not going to leave his wife to be with her, she's just a side dish for now.
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