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gr8t (m)
Newlywed Husband Living In Wife's Parents' House
« on: June 08, 2006, 03:38 PM »

Can A Man Live In His Wife Parent House After Marriege! In One Of Their Flats?

A young man is having problem with his parent over the issue of him moving into his wife's parent house. They had live in his own parent house for a while before renting their own apartment but now the seems to be having problems financially and my kinded advice is that they move into the flat offered by the wife's parent till they are able to sort themselves out!

Guys what do you think.
twinstaiye (m)
Re: Newlywed Husband Living In Wife's Parents' House
« #1 on: June 08, 2006, 04:23 PM »

Why not, let him move into the house, as long the parents are not living with them. Besides, let him move in while at the same time trying frantically to get an alternative accommodation because anything can happen at any time.
hot-angel (f)
Re: Newlywed Husband Living In Wife's Parents' House
« #2 on: June 08, 2006, 07:26 PM »

Of course he can move in. As long as it's not a room in the flat of his wife's parent. if it's a whole flat, sure!!

Afterall, they are his inlaws and they are helping him
rikkyjen (m)
Re: Newlywed Husband Living In Wife's Parents' House
« #3 on: June 08, 2006, 08:47 PM »

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Of course he can move in. As long as it's not a room in the flat of his wife's parent. if it's a whole flat, sure!!

Afterall, they are his inlaws and they are helping him


What a pity!!! Thoughts of an Infantile girl!! Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided
Busta (f)
Re: Newlywed Husband Living In Wife's Parents' House
« #4 on: June 08, 2006, 08:53 PM »

he is a "MAN"

thats a tough and risky thing to do!!
chy (f)
Re: Newlywed Husband Living In Wife's Parents' House
« #5 on: June 09, 2006, 12:45 PM »

i don't advice that it may bring up problems no matter what
the man should try and rent a house of his own because definitely
he will not feel comfortable in that houz no matter what
that my own advice for a Nigerian man no try am oooo
Seun (m)
Re: Newlywed Husband Living In Wife's Parents' House
« #6 on: June 11, 2006, 06:28 PM »

He can go ahead and live with his in-laws if they are:
1) White
2) Educated abroad
3) Phd Holders
4) Liberals

If not, then there will definitely be problems. You cannot have two arrogant African gorrillas in the same territory!
IAH (f)
Re: Newlywed Husband Living In Wife's Parents' House
« #7 on: June 11, 2006, 08:17 PM »

Quote from: Seun on June 11, 2006, 06:28 PM
He can go ahead and live with his in-laws if they are:
1) White
2) Educated abroad
3) Phd Holders
4) Liberals

If not, then there will definitely be problems. You cannot have two arrogant African gorrillas in the same territory!

Lol, you'll be surprised that whites (and people educated abroad) are even the most intolerant about living with extended family members.
gr8t (m)
Re: Newlywed Husband Living In Wife's Parents' House
« #8 on: June 12, 2006, 11:42 AM »

To be realistic the issue is getting more confusing! The lady in question is my sister. They live at the moment in her parents in-law house in the same flat and there has being one problems or the other. To the point that the husband's mum seized the marriage certificate and and the children's birth certificates, saying in case the lady wants to divorce her son. But, the  couple are doing well together not even thinking about seperation.
The were living fine on their own before he had a problem that drove them to that house.
My suggestion is! There is an open flat in our own house. My dad is late, and I live abroad though my mum and my brother her in another flat in the same compund, but, I don't think there is a problem becuase my brother is most time in school (Uni) outside LAgos and my mum is sometimes outside the countries to take care of her grand children too.
I told them to move in and use the money we all can raise for them to start something of their own on their own aquired land.
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