What Is the Meaning of Love?

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I don't know much about love but I think it's more complex than just a physical attraction. I really have a question of my own and since I can't figure out how to post my own subject I will just ask people who hit tis topic.THis is serious people so take it as if I was your little sister. I am going to an african church in dallas tx and I loe it.I am a 23 year old black american.Anyway,there is a lady at my church who is very respected throughout the african community.Her husband is a pharmisist and she is a really good business women. I like her alot.Anyway,in october of last year she mentioned to me that she had a brother in the u.k and that he has a girlfriend,but the girl is an unbeliever and he wants her to leave the girl alone.I totally ignore the statement she had mad.Anyway,a few months later I had given her my phone number and she said that she was going to give it to her brother and that he and the girl can't possible be married. I didn't want her to give him my number but since she had it already as because she is so respected in the church I just said o.k.So her brother called me,we didn't have much to talk about really so we just talked about God.After a couple of weeks he started saying that he can tell that I am a very gentle person and that I couldn't have a bed mind for anyone.which is true. The funny thing about this story is a few weeks before we had started talking I went into a fast and I prayed for a husband from anywhere in the world.I fasted for three weeks. I just wanted to put that in there so that you will keep it in mind.So back to the story. I was thinking  is this the man that God has chosen for me.So as the weeks turned into a month he began to say that he believes that I am the one for him,and that he trust his sisters opinion very much because their mother had died and she has become the mother of the family.He said that the reason he is moving so fast is because of his age(he is 33) and because he really wants to marry a christian. He started talking about getting married alot.While in the meantime his sister and I continued to get closer. She is very respected in the church and it's not just because she has money,but she always speaks wit wisdom and no one has come out to say she is not what she appears to be.People always say she is in love with the Lord.Anyway,she told me that it would be good if I married her brother and that she has been watching me for some time and she thinks that I would be good for him,and that her family is a very good family to marry into.She and I began to pray together on a day to day bases.I mean prayer warrior praying,not that "i'm too cute to cry otu to God praying".Her brother and I kept advancing.Within three months married seemed like it was right around the corner for us.This thing started in febuary of this year.As the months went on a began to seek advice,and I was told that I should be careful because more than likly he just wants papers and his sister is trying to help him. I began to feel worried. At first I thought that this thing was the will of God,because I had prayed for my husband to be released from where ever he was in the world,I told God that I didn't want to limit it to the U.S.This women is so respected and she seems to be genuine so I would hate to believe she is full of lies.The bible say s you know them by their fruits right?Her fruits seem all good to me.I have found no reson to say she is anything other than a women of God.This past summer I began to avoid her brothers calls because I didn't know what was real or fake.He  got very upset with me and sad that the reason he feel in love with me was because of my faith and know he isn't sure anymore. He said if he wanted to get married for papers that he wouldn't marry a believer and if he wanted to he could marry a brittish and still be able to come to the states. He seemed so shocked when I told him of my concerns of him just wanting papers. How do I know if this is real or not?He even said that when I come to visit him(which is on septemper 8 this year) he wants me to get pregnant so that he knows I'm coming back to the U.S as his wife. I don;t know what to think.He lives in Manchester and he is out of status.His sister asked me at church one day about what is going on and I told her my concerns,It was as if I insulted her and her family or something.She said if he wanted papers then she would have filed for him herself, she said her and her husband can file for anyone in their family and that he doesn't need me for that.  What do you think?He talks about God all of the time,but he knows that I love that kind of thing.I can't dicern if he is truly sent to me by God or not. He even said that I could come to London and live.Why would I do that?I'M IN THE UNITED STATES!I'm like DUH!!!!!!!!! I need advice!!!!!You can also e-mail me at vitacarr@yahoo.com.Please for the sake of God if you have advice please help me.I'm running out of time.         

please can anybody tell me the meaning of love.

Love is when you get someone to whack your willy

Love
is
chocolate

  Love is CONDITIONAL

Hi diddy4,
Dont like talking about this but i think i kinda understand your pains. There have been so many times when i wonder why there is something called love.
There've been so many times when i wish i've got no emotions. so i know how you feel.
Wish you the best.

Verses 4 to 8 of Corinthians I chapter 13

Love is patient, love is kind, 
Love is patient, and love is kind,
it is not jealous or prideful
love is not rude,
it is not selfish,
it is never angry, it is not happy with evil,
love is not happy with lies, but rejoices in the truth.

Love never gives up,
love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things,
endures all things.

Love never fails.

 
 Love is patient, love is kind.
It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.

It is not rude,
it is not self-seeking,

it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.

Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.

It always protects,
always trusts, always hopes,
always perseveres.

Love never fails,