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thegame (m)
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I am an undergraduate and There is this girl i am so much interested in. i asked her out and she told me she had a boyfriend in a school in another state. i kind of really like her but the issue of her havin a boyfriend makes me sick. what do i do to just convince her.
By the way, we are both in our first year
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ibkaye (f)
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hehehe, don't worry yourself now, the girl has her own boyfriend go and find your own girlfriend  |
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cescky (m)
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@ibk u harsh oo  @poster if she cld be clear enough to come out with the truth,u might still have a chance  , what were u xpecting her to say  yes on the spot? when u grow up ull find out girls front a lot  ,and that boyfriend may just be a front,ya never know. n.b NEVER make that girl a priority over your books or else u get burnt |
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ibkaye (f)
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am not harsh o  he said the girl has her own boyfriend in another school, or does he want to share her? let him and go and find another girl who will be dedicated only to him in order to escape misunderstandings ati heartbreaks |
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cescky (m)
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@ib if u were that girl am sure u wont just say yes like that,u go find one thing use dey front for am maybe that girl wants to test his resolve, besides girls are easily deceived if he persists he definitl get her  @ postre if u can build castles in the air, u can acheive too  |
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ibkaye (f)
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@ib if u were that girl am sure u wont just say yes like that,u go find one thing use dey front for am maybe that girl wants to test his resolve, besides girls are easily deceived if he persists he definitl get her hehehe fronting ke, maybe she is being sincere about having the boyfriend in the other state, doesn't mean she is fronting, just being honest |
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cescky (m)
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hehehe fronting ke, maybe she is being sincere about having the boyfriend in the other state, doesn't mean she is fronting, just being honest hehehehehehehe show me a woman thats honest about her feelings and ill show u bin osama whereabout |
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ibkaye (f)
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hehehehehehehe show me a woman thats honest about her feelings and ill show u bin osama whereabout see your mouth, why you doubting women, we are not all the same plus i already know where osama is |
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ibkaye (f)
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hehehe funny i feel you about what you say about some women, good that you now know not everyone is like that |
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Templa (m)
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@poster you're in yr one! u still have a long way to go with your books and gals. have u heard of CARRY OVER? |
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lady bam (f)
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@ poster
so you wan make she break her own boyfriends heart to be with you ehhhh
ok. but if she does agree, nothing dey sha. but in the nearest future, if she leaves you for another man, no complain ooooo, because na wetin you teach am,
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j-girl (f)
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@ poster, leave her alone - do not cause a girl to cheat on her love abeg.
Just close your eyes and move on.
It's much better.
Very soon - the other guy might come on Nairaland shouting that his girl is cheating on him
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stillwater (f)
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@ poster, leave her alone - do not cause a girl to cheat on her love abeg.
Just close your eyes and move on.
It's much better.
Very soon - the other guy might come on Nairaland shouting that his girl is cheating on him Very very true!!! |
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Hannibal
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@ poster, leave her alone - do not cause a girl to cheat on her love abeg.
Just close your eyes and move on.
It's much better.
Very soon - the other guy might come on Nairaland shouting that his girl is cheating on him
He should close his eyes and move on?? If the girl was serious about her boy/f. . . . She shouldn't have given this guy the awkward eye!!! How are we even sure she genuinely has a boy/f. Poster should forge ahead and get this babe by hook/crook. |
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j-girl (f)
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He should close his eyes and move on??
If the girl was serious about her boy/f. . . . She shouldn't have given this guy the awkward eye!!!
How are we even sure she genuinely has a boy/f.
Poster should forge ahead and get this babe by hook/crook.
How are you sure she gave him the awkward eye? What if the guy is just blindly chasing and cannot see the signals, huh? He should not guilt the girl into dating him - that's wrong on so many levels. |
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Hannibal
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How are you sure she gave him the awkward eye?
What if the guy is just blindly chasing and cannot see the signals, huh?
He should not guilt the girl into dating him - that's wrong on so many levels.
This babe is not 12/13 . . . She is an adult!!!! Besides, her phantom boy/f is in anutha school. . . . .The poster n the babe are in the same school. If the poster does not make a move now, somebody else would. . . .This happens in schoolz from time to time. How can a guy blindly chase a babe?? Is he a BAT?? Trust me, this babe needs a companion in school(She's a fresher). Let her FLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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stillwater (f)
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He should close his eyes and move on??
If the girl was serious about her boy/f. . . . She shouldn't have given this guy the awkward eye!!!
How are we even sure she genuinely has a boy/f.
Poster should forge ahead and get this babe by hook/crook.
As usual, blame the girl and leave the girlfriend snatcher out of it.  |
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4 Play (m)
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I am an undergraduate and There is this girl i am so much interested in. i asked her out and she told me she had a boyfriend in a school in another state. i kind of really like her but the issue of her havin a boyfriend makes me sick.
I know the feeling. You are scheming how to introduce your abunna to a girl and she is telling you about her boyfriend. . . . makes me sick to my stomach! |
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Hannibal
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As usual, blame the girl and leave the girlfriend snatcher out of it. Thats not the point, Senora!!! This girl is just using evasive strategy to put this guy off momentarily!!! She has got no boy/f anywhere. . . . and even if she has one, it's only a matter of time before the cookie crumblez. 95% of Freshers had boy/fs but after one or 2 semesters, they dump em and sync with men they can see n monitor. Asking this man to layoff is like telling him to pave way for someone else who would walk away with the goldmine. Like NIKE: he should JUST DO IT. |
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davidylan (m)
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poster no wahala, it boils down to two things: - you're a good boy then let her go and find your own girlfriend. - you're not really a good boy then chop and clean mouth. You're both young, most likely the "boyfriend" is busy chopping secretly. no tell them say na me advise you sha. |
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j-girl (f)
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This babe is not 12/13 . . . She is an adult!!!!
Besides, her phantom boy/f is in anutha school. . . . .The poster n the babe are in the same school.
If the poster does not make a move now, somebody else would. . . .This happens in schoolz from time to time.
How can a guy blindly chase a babe?? Is he a BAT??
Trust me, this babe needs a companion in school(She's a fresher).
Let her FLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
What if she has an actual boyfriend who she loves with all her heart? She doesn't need a companion in school, she needs a friend because her companion is in another school In this case, the poster refuses to see that this girl is taken. Let her fly with her man. Stop encouraging the girl to cheat - it's just not right. How would you like it if your girl was constantly being hassled by another dude even though she's told him that she wants only you? |
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davidylan (m)
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What if she has an actual boyfriend who she loves with all her heart?
all that one na story. We're talking about "chopping and cleaning mouth" and u're talking about love? In this case, the poster refuses to see that this girl is taken.
Let her fly with her man.
Stop encouraging the girl to cheat - it's just not right.
How would you like it if your girl was constantly being hassled by another dude even though she's told him that she wants only you?
The girl isnt really taken, most of such "relationships" never last . . . best to take your opportunity now because u wont ever get it back. |
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Hannibal
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What if she has an actual boyfriend who she loves with all her heart?
She doesn't need a companion in school, she needs a friend because her companion is in another school
In this case, the poster refuses to see that this girl is taken.
Let her fly with her man.
Stop encouraging the girl to cheat - it's just not right.
How would you like it if your girl was constantly being hassled by another dude even though she's told him that she wants only you?
If she's got an actual boyfriend who she loves with all her heart?? It rarely happens with FRESHERS. For a female fresher, new school is new environment and maybe new boy/friend. Swear here u didn't celebrate your admission with a hunk in his sophomore year!!! I am not encouraging a girl to cheat. . . . I am encouraging the geezer to press ahead and take whatz his!!!! How do i know ma babe is not constantly hassled by anutha dude? Do i even care?? What i don't know won't kill me? The decision lies with the mamachula NOT me!!! |
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4 Play (m)
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@J-Girl
You sound like a quintessential cockblocker.
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stillwater (f)
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Thats not the point, Senora!!! This girl is just using evasive strategy to put this guy off momentarily!!! She has got no boy/f anywhere. . . . and even if she has one, it's only a matter of time before the cookie crumblez. 95% of Freshers had boy/fs but after one or 2 semesters, they dump em and sync with men they can see n monitor.Asking this man to layoff is like telling him to pave way for someone else who would walk away with the goldmine. Like NIKE: he should JUST DO IT. There's no rule that a relationship between the poster and the girl in the same school would last either. |
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j-girl (f)
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If she's got an actual boyfriend who she loves with all her heart?? It rarely happens with FRESHERS. For a female fresher, new school is new environment and maybe new boy/friend. Swear here u didn't celebrate your admission with a hunk in his sophomore year!!! I am not encouraging a girl to cheat. . . . I am encouraging the geezer to press ahead and take whatz his!!!! How do i know ma babe is not constantly hassled by anutha dude? Do i even care?? What i don't know won't kill me? The decision lies with the mamachula NOT me!!! Well she might be one of the rare ones. I did NOT date any dude in my first year of uni. I can swear here - I'm a good girl oooo You are encouraging the guy to help the girl cheat and it's wrong. Let him leave her alone. What you don't know will kill you slower than you think because nothing is hidden under the sun not even the guys hassling your girl. You better care now if not, you'll just see your girl dumping you like hot potato for the new guy. 4play, if that's what i sound like to you - you need a miracle for those ears of yours. |
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TOH (f)
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@J-Girl
You sound like a quintessential cockblocker.
Rofl. Get Help. |
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Hannibal
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There's no rule that a relationship between the poster and the girl in the same school would last either.
Of course, nuthing is guaranteed but any smart chic would still take this option than someone u don't see everytime. Well she might be one of the rare ones. I did NOT date any dude in my first year of uni. I can swear here - I'm a good girl oooo You couldn't have been a good girl in your 1st year!!!! J-girl def'ly had some tumbles in the hay. Lets leave that for anutha day!!! You are encouraging the guy to help the girl cheat and it's wrong.
Let him leave her alone.
What you don't know will kill you slower than you think because nothing is hidden under the sun not even the guys hassling your girl. You better care now if not, you'll just see your girl dumping you like hot potato for the new guy.
I am not encouraging the dude to help a girl cheat. . . . . How did u reach that conclusion?? Why should i care about what i know nuthing about? I can't be bovvered . . . . until i catch her at it!!! |
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j-girl (f)
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You couldn't have been a good girl in your 1st year!!!! J-girl def'ly had some tumbles in the hay. Lets leave that for anutha day!!! I am not encouraging the dude to help a girl cheat. . . . . How did u reach that conclusion?? Why should i care about what i know nuthing about? I can't be bovvered . . . . until i catch her at it!!! What does "tumbles in the hay" mean? I have never ever done anything like that o! You are doing that because the guy needs encouragement to go after the girl. Once he gets it, he might be able to get the girl's weaknesses and use them against her. That is why I hate it when guys hassle because they hassle like there is no tomorrow till they get you. If you truly like your girl enough, you would be concerned about other buyers surveying her especially when you have no legal hold on her. |
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stillwater (f)
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Of course, nuthing is guaranteed but any smart chic would still take this option than someone u don't see everytime.
For all we know, the poster might not even meet up to the girl's standard. |
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Hannibal
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Don't lie to me. . . . . .Ya brother gave me your diary. Tumble in the hay means. . . . .ferocious shagging. You are doing that because the guy needs encouragement to go after the girl. Once he gets it, he might be able to get the girl's weaknesses and use them against her. That is why I hate it when guys hassle because they hassle like there is no tomorrow till they get you.
If you truly like your girl enough, you would be concerned about other buyers surveying her especially when you have no legal hold on her.
Guys hassle because women are so deceptive u never can tell their GAME from the TRUTH. If ma girl loves me enough, she would surround herself with a protective shield and swat geezers off like FLIES. If she's gullible enough to allow men to survey her knickers then she should bear the brunt. Like i have said, i just can't be bovvered. Possessive. . . . Nah, never have, never will. For all we know, the poster might not even meet up to the girl's standard.
What standard?? The girl told this dude about her personal relationship. . . . . .She musta given the guy an audience so thats one foot IN. Who says the guy can't upgrade his standards to meet the girl's requirements. |
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