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spikedcylinder (f)
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@ CARUSO, I feel you too murrrsh!  |
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smooooooth
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lol that is my boyfriend he just doesnt know it yetyour boyfreins ko boyfriend ni, na him u dey nairaland, i swear if he's ur boyfriend u wont bother getting out of bed for eva,infact u for don carry belle by now. |
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onyinye2 (f)
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i have been in love and cheated before, so it doesnt follow that you don't love the person.there was a time my ex- was out of town and i hit it with a girl uptown, but when she come back i confessed and apologised , that shows i liked her, but fell for the temptation, which makes me human. so i don't agree wth una.
do u know that lusting in your heart self is cheating, so are u all going to tell me u have not fantasized about shagging someone else before, the fact that some of us(especially the ladies) can control our lust( which is an indirect way to cheat) shouldnt make us judge others
hmmm, now that i think about it . . . NO. you didnt love that girl. cause if you did, you wouldnt betray her trust in you and go and start messing with another woman. and mind you said it " shows i liker her" you didnt say love. |
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tope2000 (f)
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your boyfreins ko boyfriend ni, na him u dey nairaland, i swear if he's your boyfriend u wont bother getting out of bed for eva,infact u for don carry belle by now.
lol oh ye of little faith, he has to work na to provide for my needs because i am pregnant na |
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smooooooth
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hmmm, now that i think about it . . . NO. you didnt love that girl. cause if you did, you wouldnt betray her trust in you and go and start messing with another woman. and mind you said it "shows i liker her" you didnt say love.
haba onyinye, na me feel the feeling o, and i know what it was love or like (whatever, it was the main thing sha), i was madly, crazily and stupidly in love then, anyway because your boyfriend have not loved you enough like i did mine, to confess, shouldnt make you judge ma abeg. one day u go catch am and u go cryyyyyyyyyyyyyy  tire. |
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sistawoman (f)
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i have been in love and cheated before, so it doesnt follow that you don't love the person.there was a time my ex- was out of town and i hit it with a girl uptown, but when she come back i confessed and apologised , that shows i liked her, but fell for the temptation, which makes me human. so i don't agree wth una.
do u know that lusting in your heart self is cheating, so are u all going to tell me u have not fantasized about shagging someone else before, the fact that some of us(especially the ladies) can control our lust( which is an indirect way to cheat) shouldnt make us judge others
Yes lusting after someone else is cheating and in other relationships I have done that but since i met my husband no other man turns my head for one second. to me there are no other men on the face of this earth other than him. I could never imagine braking his heart by cheating on him. I could never imagine another man putting his hands on me. There is no one else for me but him and when you feel like that about a person cheating is not something you do. If you love them you can't cheat on them, true love will not allow you to do it. |
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onyinye2 (f)
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haba onyinye, na me feel the feeling o, and i know what it was love or like (whatever, it was the main thing sha), i was madly, crazily and stupidly in love then, anyway because your boyfriend have not loved you enough like i did mine, to confess, shouldnt make you judge ma abeg. one day u go catch am and u go cryyyyyyyyyyyyyy tire. Nwoke, who are to say that my boyfriend does not love me?? cause he does, because you don't see him parading around the neighbor like you did the first chance you got. you didnt love that women, you had strong emotional ties to her but love is an under statement here. |
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smooooooth
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well women and men don't see cheating from the same angle, so i don't think i can ever win this one, expecially when most of the commentators are women. women, when in love can't touch another man with a 10ft pole, but men can be in love and cheat, doesnt mean they don't love you.
thats just the way nature has made it,anyway lets just appreciate when we are love and learn to forgive when one goes astray due to temptation, because by not forgiving, women sometimes throw away something really special. thats my point sha.
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onyinye2 (f)
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well women and men don't see cheating from the same angle, so i don't think i can ever win this one, expecially when most of the commentators are women. women, when in love can't touch another man with a 10ft pole, but men can be in love and cheat, doesnt mean they don't love you.
thats just the way nature has made it,anyway lets just appreciate when we are love and learn to forgive when one goes astray due to temptation, because by not forgiving, women sometimes throw away something really special. thats my point sha.
oka my last point, you threw something "away" really special the second you went astray with another women. so don't just put women in to this because you too did the same thing. you are lucky that your girlfriend forgave you because with me you would have been a thing in the past. |
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rubi (f)
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well women and men don't see cheating from the same angle, so i don't think i can ever win this one, expecially when most of the commentators are women. women, when in love can't touch another man with a 10ft pole, but men can be in love and cheat, doesnt mean they don't love you.
thats just the way nature has made it,anyway lets just appreciate when we are love and learn to forgive when one goes astray due to temptation, because by not forgiving, women sometimes throw away something really special. thats my point sha.
Nice word |
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smooooooth
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Nwoke, who are to say that my boyfriend does not love me?? cause he does, because you don't see him parading around the neighbor like you did the first chance you got. you didnt love that women, you had strong emotional ties to her but love is an under statement here.
are u with him at every moment, or do u have a meter connected to his dang, so whenever you seee him u get to read and compare with your last result. abeg, i don't parade the street, i can boldly say that i am one of the shyest and still decent guys you can think of, but there are so many pretty women ready to lay free this days, they even come on you, even rigth to your door step, so u dnt need to be parading the street anyway i just gave that example to buttress my argument, and that was back in the days u=in sch, but truely i was in love with that girl when i did it, i have never felt that way bout anyone till now. maybe now i am more matured i can do without cheating, because i don't really get freaky or carried away like i used to, now i dey find true love, and i have been single for awhile and even casuals iritate me, you know how many i don turn down this year alone. |
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spikedcylinder (f)
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well women and men don't see cheating from the same angle, so i don't think i can ever win this one, expecially when most of the commentators are women. women, when in love can't touch another man with a 10ft pole, but men can be in love and cheat, doesnt mean they don't love you.
thats just the way nature has made it,anyway lets just appreciate when we are love and learn to forgive when one goes astray due to temptation, because by not forgiving, women sometimes throw away something really special. thats my point sha.
Who told you that? A woman can love you desperately and still cheat on you. Reasons vary. |
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smooooooth
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Who told you that? A woman can love you desperately and still cheat on you. Reasons vary.
the saints wont agree with you,on that one, so u either join them or they beat u down , |
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mellow (m)
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There is a great difference between love and sex. You can comfortably love one
and have sex with the other. Love is caring and sharing and sex is giving and
taking. They are two different processes. One involves the heart while the other
involves the the tools. They can either work together, separately and or concurrently.
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onyinye2 (f)
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There is a great difference between love and sex. You can comfortably love one
and have sex with the other. Love is caring and sharing and sex is giving and
taking. They are two different processes. One involves the heart while the other
involves the the tools. They can either work together, separately and or concurrently.
they call it Platonic love. are u with him at every moment, or do u have a meter connected to his dang, so whenever you seee him u get to read and compare with your last result. abeg, i don't parade the street, i can boldly say that i am one of the shyest and still decent guys you can think of, but there are so many pretty women ready to lay free this days, they even come on you, even rigth to your door step, so u dnt need to be parading the street anyway i just gave that example to buttress my argument, and that was back in the days u=in sch, but truely i was in love with that girl when i did it, i have never felt that way bout anyone till now. maybe now i am more matured i can do without cheating, because i don't really get freaky or carried away like i used to, now i dey find true love, and i have been single for awhile and even casuals iritate me, you know how many i don turn down this year alone.
You might as well change your name to Cassanova.
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mellow (m)
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Offcourse. Platonic, casual and or Agape, doesn't matter. Atleast
there is still love at the end.
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Aratunde (m)
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@ There is a great difference between love and sex. You can comfortably love one
and have sex with the other. Love is caring and sharing and sex is giving and
taking. They are two different processes. One involves the heart while the other
involves the the tools. They can either work together, separately and or concurrently.
This sumarises everything, society and nature has condition women over time to be chaste and proper that why they feel repulse whe a guy say he's in love and still cheats. But can any Lady boastfully says she has not really fantasize how it willfeel to be with another person. "forget religion"
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mellow (m)
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No lady can say that. it is next to impossiblity.
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onyinye2 (f)
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This sumarises everything, society and nature has condition women over time to be chaste and proper that why they feel repulse whe a guy say he's in love and still cheats. But can any Lady boastfully says she has not really fantasize how it willfeel to be with another person. "forget religion"
yeah when i was single. but when i was in a comitted relationship, i was committed. i didn't see the need to fanasize about any other guy when my prince charming was right there next to me in my harms. |
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TOH (f)
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No. You don't try to hurt the one you claim to "love"
If you need to "cheat", first break off the current relationship, Simple
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spikedcylinder (f)
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the saints wont agree with you,on that one, so u either join them or they beat u down , Then the saints would be deceiving themselves. |
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mellow (m)
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yeah when i was single. but when i was in a comitted relationship, i was committed. i didn't see the need to fanasize about any other guy when my prince charming was right there next to me in my harms.
I do sincerely hope you are right. |
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CARUSO (m)
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@ CARUSO, I feel you too murrrsh!
u know what it is gurl! haha how u dey anyway?everything ok? raining like shit arnd here and i aint loving it!!  |
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spikedcylinder (f)
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u know what it is girl! haha how u dey anyway?everything ok? raining like shit arnd here and i aint loving it!! Awww. . . the weather can be bitchy eh?? Why not climb into bed and do sturffs. . .  |
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mohawkchic (f)
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@ mohawkchic r u saying its ok to cheat in some cases? Hell No!! ~Could you quote where in my post it would suggest am saying its ok to cheat in some cases? |
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CARUSO (m)
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Awww. . . the weather can be bitchy eh?? Why not climb into bed and do sturffs. . .
haha i wish i had a bed to climb into! d options i have right now are just engineering designs, survey maps and all sorts of reports! i sure say u don climb into bed comot already and maybe u just dey head bck for another climbing session! |
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spikedcylinder (f)
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haha i wish i had a bed to climb into! d options i have right now are just engineering designs, survey maps and all sorts of reports! i sure say u don climb into bed comot already and maybe u just dey head bck for another climbing session! eh eh eh! I wish, i really wish! |
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sistawoman (f)
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yeah when i was single. but when i was in a comitted relationship, i was committed. i didn't see the need to fanasize about any other guy when my prince charming was right there next to me in my harms.
I agree |
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CARUSO (m)
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eh eh eh! I wish, i really wish! u sef wish?kai u don spoil oo! contact oga naw |
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spikedcylinder (f)
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u sef wish?kai u don spoil oo! contact oga naw Oga ke? Nothing for me o!  |
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Bblak (f)
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@Topic The answer is capital NO. Love and Cheating has absolutely nothing in common  |
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CARUSO (m)
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Oga ke? Nothing for me o! eeya oh well i guess the waiting game continues where u get this ur username from? na coil cylinder wey me i sabi, which one be spiked one again?!haha una no go kill person for this NL!!! |
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