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spikedcylinder (f)
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eeya oh well i guess the waiting game continues  where u get this your username from? na coil cylinder wey me i sabi, which one be spiked one again?!haha una no go kill person for this Nairaland!!! Yea. . . you wait, I wait, god no go vex. As per my username, leave story for cinema. |
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Rotex baba
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@ smooooooth
yh everyone is human and gets tempted but it is up to us to not fall for it. thinkin of sexing someone is temptation then it is a sin if u actually hav sex wit the person. there are even thoughts that are not really u and d devil temption u, lol. serious.
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Hazel-eyed (f)
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love has nothing to do with lust.u can definitely love someone and cheat on them.
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Rotex baba
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maybe people should just have self control!
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jaymee (f)
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onyinye2 says hmmm, now that i think about it . . . NO. you didnt love that girl. cause if you did, you wouldnt betray her trust in you and go and start messing with another woman. and mind you said it "shows i liker her" you didnt say love. let's not assume and say that ONLY men cheat, plenty of women cheat, in fact that girl that the man cheated with is ALSO enabling him to cheat, so to me she is as much of a cheat as he is, even if the skank is single, she is a homebreaka, AND a cheat! |
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Gold*Finch (m)
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NL threads get stupider stupider.
How can you loff someone then go out of your ways just to hurt that person? That is what I call being unfaithful!
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zeal500 (m)
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in love there is rules which include thou shall not cheat no matter the excuse.
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topup
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I do believe you can like someone a lot and cheat, but call me a typical female if you wish but I don't believe that you can love someone and cheat on them. With this I will also say a lot of people don't know true love when it's right infront of them, and after making 'the mistake' they often feel a wave of guilt and disgust (the non-players that is). Now, here is my question, imagine, now really try to imagine , if every two people in a relationship had a passport type of document for their relationship, and everytime someone cheated a stamp was placed automatically under no. of times cheated on partner, Automatically, magically, mystically whatever, this is only an analogy after all  , But if you knew that once you'D cheated it would be stamped forever on your card, your partner could see it, it'D be with you everywhere you go, throughout the whole of the relationship, after marriage, after kids, after everything! Would as many people cheat? The basic question is ' Would people cheat as much if they knew they would ALWAYS, 100% get caught" I don't think so. This relates to my idea that people cheat because they think they can get away with it, that there is a chance their partner will forgive them. The people who cheat often exploit the imbalance of love in the relationship, they know their partner loves them more than they love their partner so worst comes to worst, they know that there is still a chance that the partner cannot bare to lose them and so forgives them. |
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TOYOSI20 (f)
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For me I don't think it has any thing to do with the other party,
It definitely has to do with taking care of Ur own personal issues than any thing else. . . . .
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