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Hannibal
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I think u need to open that can of worms. . . . Bloody Ilesha wench.  |
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Chat2MeBac (f)
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LOL, How about $5?, and I am willing to go much lower too,  |
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Akpo Jude (m)
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LOL, How anout $5?, and I am willing to go much lower too, u don`t mean what u r sayin, right? |
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Chat2MeBac (f)
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u don`t mean what you're sayin,
right?
I swear on my father's grave,  |
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Akpo Jude (m)
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Chat2MeBac
then whats the need for getting married at the first instance?
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Chat2MeBac (f)
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Chat2MeBac
then whats the need for getting married at the first instance?
How are you to know your spouse would turn out to be goat? So would you rather stay in an unhappy marriage for the sake of a title, or "what people might and/or think", go leave with your sanity?? Life is too short dread, If the marriage isnt going anywhere, jump ship, |
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Akpo Jude (m)
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How are you to know your spouse would turn out to be goat? So would you rather stay in an unhappy marriage for the sake of a title, or "what people might and/or think", go leave with your sanity??
Life is too short dread, If the marriage isnt going anywhere, jump ship,
you don't have to sound pessimistic , or are y speaking from experience ? |
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Chat2MeBac (f)
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you don't have to sound pessimistic ,
orare y speaking from experience ?
That's the problem with the world today, Everyone is so damn naive, Pessimistic ma foot, It's called REALITY, As per the latter part of your question, You meet one, you've met them all. They only differ in sizes( height, weight, .privates, money, ).geddit? |
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Akpo Jude (m)
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LOL
Reality care?
ah
but
you know times change in the direction u want them?
like u said u meet one u`ve met all
I know what I`m sayin,ve experience something like it in some way
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Chat2MeBac (f)
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LOL
Reality care?
ah
but
you know times change in the direction u want them?
like u said u meet one u`ve met all
I know what I`m sayin,ve experience something like it in some way
LOL, Now we are talking But if offer money to take-out a bad spouse, I would turn assasin ASAP, |
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Akpo Jude (m)
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whats ASAP,
how will u turn asassin?
but money for a bad spouse that you know is bad
its almost impossible to that person
thats telling me u want to go and covert the Devil himself.
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Chat2MeBac (f)
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ASAP, As soon as possible,
And let me covet, if that's your definition for collecting, or as I see it, getting rewarded for suffering years with a bad spouse, Then so be it, To each its own, Didn't your Bible tell you NOT to judge, or yours is missing that scripture? As I said, no one is forcing anyone to do anything against their will. The topic asked for your individual response, and I am doing just that, Too bad we cannot all agree with each other, or what a monotonous world this would have been,
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Akpo Jude (m)
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so u will marry and kill him for the money?  |
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Chat2MeBac (f)
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Hell yes, He did what was required of him, what he swore before God and man, then I won't have to collect any bounty, But if not, then Hell freakum yea, And wipe your tears Papi, It's not his funeral yet |
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Akpo Jude (m)
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u r serious?
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Akpo Jude (m)
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wait ! Tell me Do u see all guys as cheat ?  |
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Chat2MeBac (f)
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wait ! Tell me Do u see all guys as cheat ? ohhhhhhhhhhhh, Didn't you read what I earlier posted? THEY ARE ALL THE SAME, .Do I need to expanciate? |
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Akpo Jude (m)
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ohhhhhhhhhhhh, Didn't you read what I earlier posted? THEY ARE ALL THE SAME, .Do I need to expanciate?
lol lol lol lol lol lol, ah u don`t have to sound like that please was ur dad when he was alife a cheat? may his soul rest in peace! Amen! |
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Chat2MeBac (f)
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lol lol lol lol lol lol,
ah u don`t have to sound like that
please
was your dad when he was alife a cheat?
may his soul rest in peace!
Amen!
Ok seem like you are getting a bit too personal here, but it's ok. My Mama says to always speak the truth, and it shall set you free. Yes he was a big time cheat. I love him to death. His cheating ways didn't anyway hampered his providing for his family. He took excellent care of us, even those that weren't his. However, it still doesnt change anything. All men are cheats, They just do it on different scales, |
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Akpo Jude (m)
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u see all men are not the same
its just normal that in life journey,its not all glossy
you know
there are ups and downs
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Chat2MeBac (f)
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u see all men are not the same
its just normal that in life journey,its not all glossy
you know
there are ups and downs
Ok. I have heard you, however, until proven otherwise I an I verdict stands. Once bitten, twice shy |
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Akpo Jude (m)
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I can see
You are bent on buttressing ur point
but u see
u still can get thing going the right way when its going the wrong way
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Chat2MeBac (f)
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I can see
You are bent on buttressing your point
but u see
u still can get thing going the right way when its going the wrong way
You don't give up, right?  , Ok, Let God send me a revelation, then I would endeavour to change my point( as you so eloquently put it ), Until such time, hope I don't turn 50 by then, , |
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Akpo Jude (m)
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Like my dad told me about two years ago
that he wasn`t the perfect husband in the early days of his marriage
But for now that the woman that stood by him in those time is nomore
he will look after and provide for her children
of which I`m one
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Akpo Jude (m)
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sorry
hv u being married once or something?
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Chat2MeBac (f)
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sorry
hv u being married once or something?
No I havent. Marriage has NEVER really on "MY LIST of things to do before I Die" LIST, I would be called RICH and influencial than MRS. somebody's other half Like my dad told me about two years ago
that he wasn`t the perfect husband in the early days of his marriage
But for now that the woman that stood by him in those time is nomore
he will look after and provide for her children
of which I`m one
Kudos to your dad, atleast he was man enough to come to terms with his wrong doings and make up for them. Sadly, dear, they don't make them like that anymore , I have seen enough to know what I am talking about, A dear friend of mine used to steal from her parents to help out her so-called boyfriend. As soon as he landed a job he cheated with one of his co-workers. Life is what you make it. As long as one can take care of themselves, why bother with the stress? Young people are dying of HBP these days, I want to live to see my cats have grand and great grands oo, |
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Akpo Jude (m)
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I particularly like ur list
but please put Mrs before Death
you know cheating is from both sides
form but males/females
You see if u are a lady that keeps ur head High but nottoo high for men to run away
I assure u that u will earn respect from am man that will lay his life for u.
But when u tend to put ur all and all on somebody (am not sayin u shuld keep more than one Male Friend oh)
but he a working class lady,not soely hoping to be dependent
then you won`t go to extreem to keep a guy
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Chat2MeBac (f)
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I particularly like your list
but please put Mrs before Death
you know cheating is from both sides
form but males/females
You see if u are a lady that keeps your head High but nottoo high for men to run away
I assure u that u will earn respect from am man that will lay his life for u.
But when u tend to put your all and all on somebody (am not sayin u shuld keep more than one Male Friend oh)
but he a working class lady,not soely hoping to be dependent
then you won`t go to extreem to keep a guy
I am fully aware that both men and women cheat.However, it is a know fact that men do it more. With regards to not keeping/holding ones head to high, I personally thing that is nonsense. I had guys tell me they are intimidated by me. NOw those that rubbish. If you are a man in the true sense of the word, then a woman's position or lack of it for that matter, shouldn't in anyway deter you from pursuing that woman. My motto in life is to treat people the way you would want to be treated. Has this always been in my favour? Hell NO, HAs it changed who I am? HEll NO, Do I believe that there are some genuinely great guys out there(even though they cheat ) HELL YEA, My point is, in life, especially when you are dealing with the fleash, You just have to keep your guards on. The Bible did warn us about how deceptive this fleash can be, right?? |
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Akpo Jude (m)
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"Life is what you make it" why do make your own almost a perfect one if not a perfect one Or don`t you believe that God can provide u with what you need/want?  |
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Chat2MeBac (f)
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"Life is what you make it" why do make your own almost a perfect one if not a perfect one Or don`t you believe that God can provide u with what you need/want? No No NO, You have clearly misunderstood me dear. I can in NO way possible make my life perfect, That's blasphemy ooo. I would,however, endeavour to protect my borders as best as I possibly can , And OH! I do believe that God can and will provide all my needs, And i also believe that God helps those who help themselves,  |
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Akpo Jude (m)
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My motto in life is to treat people the way you would want to be treated. Has this always been in my favour? Hell NO, HAs it changed who I am? HEll NO, Do I believe that there are some genuinely great guys out there(even though they cheat ) HELL YEA, My point is, in life, especially when you are dealing with the fleash, You just have to keep your guards on. The Bible did warn us about how deceptive this fleash can be, right??
u see
u sounded wonderful well
but u have to take a few second and i promise u,u will see how favoured u?
1,2,,
u see eeeeeeeee
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Akpo Jude (m)
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U see u don't have to worry about the unsee battles that God fight for u all thats He wants of me and u is to praise his Holy Name and believe in His Son Jesus Christ. am not a pastor oh! |
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