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oneluuv
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I know in the nigerian culture it is the norm for the guy to foot the bill when couples go out and do stuff together but hey, we are in the 21th century, I have no objections if a guy decides to take of his girlfriends every need but on a personal note to be honest I like a girl who is strong and independent,and has her own thing going on for her and yeah sure I would gladly pay for stuff but nothing would impress me more than my girlfriend out of the blue insisting to pay for something when we go out, it might not be the most expensive thing ever but really its the thought that counts
what do you my fellow nairalanders think, am I way off or what to think this way?
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ashe2 (f)
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see wetin gender equality de cause, as for me ba komai i don't mind doing so i think that is the true definition of love, its not just receivin but also givin its its no longa a relationship when its not mutual that one na "parasitionship" coined from the word parasite
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mellow (m)
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If it is a mistake, I sinceely doubt our girls will ever make that mistake.
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jay bee (m)
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i'm kind of familiar with the "hun i just need to go to the ladies" before the monster bill gets paid
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HR.hotness (f)
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nuthin wrong with it.
I'm used to paying my way anyways, so I wldnt expect a guy to pay when we go do stuff together
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Sisikill
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Actually, I prefer to pay my in the early stages. I don't want the guy thinking I owe him something because he bought me buns & Coke. No way, Jose.
Now if we've been dating for awhile, it's not an issue. Whoever brings the money out first, no wahala.
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onyinye2 (f)
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at times you know i take up the bill, but that is just once in a while. I'm a lady that believes in independence but i was raised on the type of guys who were "southern gentlemen". and a southern gentlemen usually pays for everything. so sometimes when i try and pay, the guy refuses and says he can take care of it. who am i to refuse??
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tboy1 (m)
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i'm kind of familiar with the "hun i just need to go to the ladies" before the monster bill gets paid

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TOH (f)
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Actually, I prefer to pay my in the early stages. I don't want the guy thinking I owe him something because he bought me buns & Coke. No way, Jose.
Exactly.
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iice (f)
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Actually, I prefer to pay my in the early stages. I don't want the guy thinking I owe him something because he bought me buns & Coke. No way, Jose.
Now if we've been dating for awhile, it's not an issue. Whoever brings the money out first, no wahala.
Ditto!
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jaquan (m)
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i think the OP is ennyluv 
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micklplus (m)
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This made me laugh o. Good point. These girls should cool down o Cheers
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mellow (m)
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He who pays the piper dictates the tune and he who calls the
waiter in a club pays the bill.
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ibkaye
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nothing wrong with it
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