Sex Practicals

Hi Landers,

Is it good to have sex practical(s) with your fiance/fiancee before marriage? So as to know the potency and body responses or wait till the wedding day?

For instance a true life story that happened in one of the big church in Nigeria, that normally sees the will of God for marriage. A brother sees the will of God for a sister and didnt touch each other during their courtship. After some months they were joined 2gether.

They both have to do their sex practicals on their wedding night, which they did.  But the brother was worried the sister didnt remove her scarf for 6days after their wedding. She covered her head when she is bathing, cooking, sleeping, having sex, going out etc.  The bros has never seen her head nor hair.  On the 7th day the bros begged her to remove her scarf she refused, then he forcefully removed the scarf and behold the sister had two HORNS on her head.

The bros was shocked and ran to his pastor to narrate the story and seek for separation. But his pastor replied, "you said she is the will of God for u, that there's nothing he can do about it".  That is how a week old marriage suffers, because the man couldnt cope living with a human beast.

SO WOULD U PREFER TO DO SEX PRACTICALS OR HOLD ON TILL THE WEDDING DAY? Please mature responses will be appreciated.

Thank you.

This tittle is OP which means off point

Off point or no off point. You can give it any topic you like.

When you practice something is it not called practical. Practice makes perfection.
The story is just an example of many examples.

That is a personal decision that needs to be based on your morals and beliefs. No one on Nairaland  can absolve you of any sins if it is against your religious beliefs. Personally I believe there are far worse things you can do than have sex before marriage.

In a relationship aspect it is a good idea. As a religious aspect is not seen very well.

But ultimately is your decision, if you feel you should then go for it. But if it is going to  be a really big conflict with your beliefs and values then wait.

Honestly sex is great, the first times not so, but it gets really good.

This topic confuses me what's her having horns on her head got to do with sex? 

One can make many academic arguments in support of sex before marriage, however when faith is thrown into the mix,well that's something else,  I have'nt been able to figure it out myself