She Encourages Me With Sms But Discourages Me In Person About A Relationship

I Love her, she says am the first person she'll ever spend soo much time with and she sends me sweet SMS signing it LOL (Lots of Love). But each time i make moves on her, she tells me the last thing she wants to talk about is a relationship and she doesnt want me to say the word love, she doesnt either but likes writting it in sms. I feel as a man i should make my moves, but each time i do she discourages me with words in person and encourages me with SMSs, what do i do, should i back off or keep trying. Viper Ace

I'D say you just let her be, don't back off neither shld you keep forcing her. She's more of an introvert I'D say, so let her just keep expressing herself through whatever means she knows , let her keep doing that and you don't relent in your effort in making her feel good about that as well. don't push too hard because that might turn her off. Watch her well and make sure you get her weakness and u keep acting on that, she will come up and say the words someday, when it gets so overwhelming for her.

Good thing she tells you such words, just keep being yourself. She might not be affectionate as well, so you wouldnt really expect her to say I love you, in person, but u get it via other means. Just try and act like you are content with that, give it time and u see there will be change!

Like you see Hotstepper now, she likes me in person and she tells me on yahoo I'm too, She even comes to my church, I even had to join her sister in the choir because of her;D,

She's ma real main person, no one can mess around with her o!!!

yeah, till she told u that you're the guy she want to spend time with?
it even shows she loves u because she contacts you alot, i mean she keeps intouch.
U would know if a gurl wants to avoid her guy, she would try to avoid calls, sms'z and all that, but atleast she cares you know?? she's just shy, maybe she ain't used to u that much that's why she needs to spend more time witchu.
things'll be okey, great?? cul then, good luck!!

I think u are getting it wrong. She prolly meant LOL,  Laughing out Loud. U are just taking it to mean lots of love. Eyah,  sorry.

maybe when she say, "u r the sugar in my tea, and i want to be with you forver", she adds LOL so u will know that she's joking.

WHy can't guys read signs well!! 

i thinks she doesnt loves u, u should just goes for anothers persons, if a person are saying lovely things via sms, it is no means she loved u

wow! i just love this girl
she's got game
she know how to play and tease!

it two ways either she really likes you and is playing so u don't take her for granted
or she is not into you at all!

u just have to find out which is which

last one! just tell the girl someone is feeling her game , lol,

You are very correct. Just try to avoid her a little. if she loves you, she will try to win back ur affection and then, you are the man of the game. But if otherwise, maybe she doesnt love you then.