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IAH (f)
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We've had so many threads on "Your spouse or your parents?", "Your mother or your wife", etc. Now let's see with kids. If the need arises, who would you give preference to? Who would you favour over the other? Your husband/wife or your kid(s)? For me, it'D be difficult to choose but in the end, maybe I would choose my husband o.  Note: You can't choose both. |
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Ndipe (m)
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Tough question!!!
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DaHitler (m)
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I will choose the family dog. At least that one is loyal.  |
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mamaput (f)
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My kids anyday any time they are my blood.
As long as they are young and dependent.
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mamaput (f)
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I will choose the family dog. At least that one is loyal. Till the dog bits your new shoes and wees on your car |
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LiquidMind (m)
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I got married so i can be with my spouse forever & ever.
I didn't got married because of children but because of who my spouse is,
MY SPOUSE FIRST ANY DAY BEFORE MY CHILDREN
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j-girl (f)
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I think it is my children because they are a symbol of the union between my spouse and i. I will want my children to live a good life and since they are younger, they are more dependent on me
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ToyM28 (f)
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My kids. I'll die for them. But it would be a tough decision if kept in a compromising position. But a mothers love for her kids is the greatest
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Nosu (m)
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My spouse before my kids. the day will married we would became one flesh, so we are one.leaving her is just like throwing a part of me away. the kids came along the line and when they are old enough to be independent they will find their level. so my sweet spouse come first.
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LiquidMind (m)
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Thats a word Nosu
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chi_kings
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I choose my Kids, they are the reason while i marry my spouse, So they live while i die, and that's my words
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Skidoc (m)
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My kids. The bond between me and my kids is stronger because I can divorce my wife but I can't divorce/disown my kids. They are mine forever. Even if I disown my child, he is still my child biologically.
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lunafish (f)
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My child every time. They need me more than my spouse ever could.
I would love my child inconditionally and I couldn't love my spouse that much.
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*Shentz* (f)
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The child because your child is stil your child
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Mer-C (f)
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Spouse first!We can always have other kids later. . . lol 
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Thinker! (m)
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On this topic there seems to be a lot of childish responses, perhaps because most of them are very young and inexperience. Whatever happen you have to try & love them equally, because they have come to be your life wire. The only condition where you can make a choice is when the birth of your new baby threatens the life of your wife, then the child can go and leave your wife for you. Another one will always come but you will never find another deary wife like the one you are about to loose.
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kellorah (f)
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your child is more of your blood.i don't know how to explain it.
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nilla (f)
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Tough question
But i will choose my spouse first (before there is any kid).
My kids first (when they are still young)
My spouse again (when the kids are out of the house)
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kellorah (f)
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Tough question
But i will choose my spouse first (before there is any kid).
My kids first (when they are still young)
My spouse again (when the kids are out of the house)
this is just the best answer! weldone girl! |
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Akinagirl (f)
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Perfect answer Nilla |
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Ronke 2811 (f)
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my husband whether the kids are young or married
i did not marry to raise kids, i marry to share bliss with my husband because when the kids leave to form their own family , i will be left alone with my husband
shekinah
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nezerst (f)
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I will choose my husband anytime anyday. Children are not the main reason why i'm getting married neither is it the fear of divorce. How do I choose children that will eventually leave 2 have a life of their own over a man that i'm likely to grow old with(God willing).
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Free (f)
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tough choice  |
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