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ladebs
Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« on: June 10, 2006, 01:07 PM »

Is sex compulsory in relationship?  I don't think so because I believe that if you make sex in relationship all the love you have for the person is no more.  You just feel like making sex with her.
dominobaby (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #1 on: June 10, 2006, 01:13 PM »

Ladebs, welcome to nairaland!!!
*But please, there are already threads like this in this same section*
ladebs
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #2 on: June 10, 2006, 01:20 PM »

okay, have you heard what happen to me if you have not heard reply me
dominobaby (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #3 on: June 10, 2006, 01:24 PM »

Happened 2 u? You jokin or sumfn?
I heard nofn, so tell me.
habibat (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #4 on: June 10, 2006, 01:36 PM »

u don't know,his g/f got pregnant n d funiest part is that he never made love 2 her
                                              he needs your help,
                       kindly help him ok
ladebs
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #5 on: June 10, 2006, 01:46 PM »

this is what happen to me ok
how will u feel when your girl friend gets pregnant without you sleeping with her and since you started your realationship you never slept with her.
   This  is how we start the relationship, i saw the girl one day passing and i call her and she answer me and i told her that i love her but she tell me that did I know that she is a xtain and I is a muslim we stop that day.
the second day she agreeed, u know now  normal runs.
               she do come to my place and i neverknew what was inside of her.can u imagine she called d realationship quits n later came 2 apologise which i had no choice but 2 ascept her bak because i believe she was still her self(VIRGIN).
           unfotunately,i got d news that she was pregnant 4 an Igbo guy.i was heartbroken n was higly disappointed in her
    i need your opion guys what should i do.i'm very depressed now n i havnt seen her since then.please help me out.
woleprof (m)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #6 on: June 10, 2006, 01:56 PM »

thanks dominobaby,

i think he should go through the thread for details.

we hv alreay discussed it!! Grin Grin Grin
eveseh (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #7 on: June 10, 2006, 02:10 PM »

 :-x :-x :-x
bankort
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #8 on: June 10, 2006, 05:03 PM »

Sex is compulsory because if u are ready to marry the peson you must have sex with her neither beautiful or not is a must because she collect your money.
2cantango (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #9 on: June 10, 2006, 05:10 PM »



Quote from: bankort on June 10, 2006, 05:03 PM
Sex is compulsory because if u are ready to marry the peson you must have sex with her neither beautiful or not is a must because she collect your money.

 Huh      Undecided
Big Shishi (m)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #10 on: June 10, 2006, 05:11 PM »

bascically, Grin YES!!
Hotstepper (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #11 on: June 10, 2006, 05:16 PM »

No
Rhodalyn (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #12 on: June 11, 2006, 12:06 AM »

Quote
Sex is compulsory because if u are ready to marry the peson you must have sex with her neither beautiful or not is a must because she collect your money.

Indeed!!!
Rhodalyn (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #13 on: June 11, 2006, 12:07 AM »

Under what fxxking circumstances is sex necessary in a relationship??? Angry
2fine4u (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #14 on: June 11, 2006, 07:04 AM »

Quote from: ladebs on June 10, 2006, 01:46 PM
this is what happen to me ok
how will u feel when your girl friend gets pregnant without you sleeping with her and since you started your realationship you never slept with her.
   This  is how we start the relationship, i saw the girl one day passing and i call her and she answer me and i told her that i love her but she tell me that did I know that she is a xtain and I is a muslim we stop that day.
the second day she agreeed, u know now  normal runs.
               she do come to my place and i neverknew what was inside of her.can u imagine she called d realationship quits n later came 2 apologise which i had no choice but 2 ascept her bak because i believe she was still her self(VIRGIN).
           unfotunately,i got d news that she was pregnant 4 an Igbo guy.i was heartbroken n was higly disappointed in her
    i need your opion guys what should i do.i'm very depressed now n i havnt seen her since then.please help me out.


u don't hav no reason to be depressed, it's obvious she don't want to sleep wit u and prefers sleepin wit the Igbo guy which is why she pregnant for him. so get over it, she and the Igbo guy fit eachother. u will find another girl that will want to sleep wit u and won't lie about it.
naijacutee (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #15 on: June 11, 2006, 12:27 PM »

In a way, you asked for it,  How could you meet someone in the street one day, and the next day you're going  out with her, and before you know it, you already know whether or not she' a virgin, What has that got to do with anything? I don't know where some nigerian guys learn this from but it's very annoying,

What was relationship based on, tell me,  Looks? Did you get to know each other? If you really did, then I don't think she would have had some 'igbo guy' on the side and you wouldn't notice.
desiree (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #16 on: June 11, 2006, 02:22 PM »


Nonsense  Cool Angry
Shagari2 (m)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #17 on: June 11, 2006, 03:13 PM »

No
woleprof (m)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #18 on: June 11, 2006, 04:41 PM »

na wa oo?Huh?

u guys seems to be enjoying the XXX of a thing Grin Grin Grin
beelyjay45 (m)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #19 on: June 11, 2006, 05:40 PM »

men if we eliminate sex from relationship den dere will be no relationship if u truly love someone den u keep fxxxing d person till u u gys get married n den u still carry go abi imagine courting a lady without sex men na serious conjititis be that o!!!!!!!!!!!
Sir Kay (m)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #20 on: June 11, 2006, 06:56 PM »

Capital NO.

Must you taste the girl's honey pot before you profess your love for her? If you truly love someone and you know you really want the person in your life, please let true love play itself out, instead of thinking of having sex with her. True love entails sacrificing for each other.

@ ladebs,

I don't think the lady is yours, so forget about her and face your future straightly
achinu (m)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #21 on: June 11, 2006, 07:01 PM »

All I can say is what tha! I feel bad for the brotha, but damn that must have stung! All I can say is we live & learn. But you better believe that any chic that i am in a relationship with will be sexed!
Hotstepper (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #22 on: June 11, 2006, 07:03 PM »

they will be sexed only if they allow u
achinu (m)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #23 on: June 11, 2006, 07:18 PM »

Hotstepper, I've been lucky thus far sista.
Hotstepper (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #24 on: June 11, 2006, 07:28 PM »

den good for you and lucky enough u haven't met ma kind yet Tongue
ddizzle (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #25 on: June 11, 2006, 07:29 PM »

whoever started this topic ESHE!! I don't think it is sha!
teddycool (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #26 on: June 11, 2006, 08:16 PM »

hey guys,
i don't think sex is compulsory in a relationship, because sex is not relationship, but if the two lovers plan to marry there self in the future, they can go ahead, but i don't think it is important.
chinani (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #27 on: June 11, 2006, 08:29 PM »

Sex isn't compulsory in the relationship. It's a personal decision. Sex can confuse both parties in the relationship.

Ladebs, so sorry about this girl. Let your feelings play out. You'll forget her & find someone else.
achinu (m)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #28 on: June 11, 2006, 08:34 PM »

Nne na wa o! Hotstepper saw your pic on your profile. You're a pretty hot looking sista with a nice smile!  Cool Cool
Hotstepper (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #29 on: June 11, 2006, 08:37 PM »

achinu, 10x a lot 4 da compliment, both NNE AND HOTSTEPPER r both ma name, good way 2 start, lol, IGBO KWENUUUU!!!
achinu (m)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #30 on: June 11, 2006, 08:41 PM »

What part of the continent are u in? I c Nwenni.  Huh
Hotstepper (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #31 on: June 11, 2006, 08:42 PM »

NNewi u meean and i know u want to diss ma town by calling it datl, lol, am in Canada but ma mind is alwayz at Nnewi
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