Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?

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achinu (m)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #32 on: June 11, 2006, 08:44 PM »

I hear ya. I dey somewhere for ATL, gEORGIA
Hotstepper (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #33 on: June 11, 2006, 08:45 PM »

good for you, so u will go 4 da REUNION, LOL,
achinu (m)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #34 on: June 11, 2006, 08:48 PM »

what reunion & where? I'm clueless.
Hotstepper (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #35 on: June 11, 2006, 08:53 PM »

hahhaa, Nigeria REUNION IN ATL 4ROM I GUESS JUNE 30-JULY 5TH,
Ndi (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #36 on: June 12, 2006, 12:03 PM »

@ Bankort!

You really sounded naive in your response, if you go into a relationship basically for sex that means what your girl is to u is a Whore! You give her the cash & she opens up for you.

Relationship is meant to be closer to a loved one, having sex in a relationship is a natural thing, it is not something you predict before going into a relationship. Giving your girl cash shows a sign of u being responsible for her, u don't have to sex her before u give her the cash and neither does she have to ask for the money before you give it to her at the same time u don't just give her the cash because u feel responsible for her, let there be a need for it unless the cash would not be appreciated/valued.

If u re used to giving your girl money after sexing her, u would only reduce her to a status of a whore!

joyraph (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #37 on: June 12, 2006, 01:02 PM »

i don't believe sex makes a good relationship or what do u think
blissfull (m)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #38 on: June 12, 2006, 01:07 PM »

Anyway, Sex is one of the ingrident that makes Love come to stand.
what do you think?
woleprof (m)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #39 on: June 12, 2006, 01:56 PM »

Ladies SAY NO TO SEX!!!
2cantango (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #40 on: June 12, 2006, 01:59 PM »



@woleprof:

What should men say?
woleprof (m)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #41 on: June 12, 2006, 02:13 PM »

@2cantango

 Huh Huh Huh Huh

A MAN GOT TO SAY WAT A MAN GOT TO SAY  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
2cantango (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #42 on: June 12, 2006, 02:20 PM »



@woleprof:

Why am I not surprised? Undecided

I guess it doesn't matter what a man says, because she's gonn@ say no if she follows your advice Tongue Cheesy Cheesy
woleprof (m)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #43 on: June 12, 2006, 02:24 PM »

@2cantango

Baby you're one of the most intelligent "babe" in here Wink Wink Wink

thats exactly what should happened Cheesy
bluenubian (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #44 on: June 12, 2006, 04:43 PM »

sex is not compulsory because no one is forcing you, but its very important, unless it a mutual decision, a sexless relationship where the other party want sex is definitely a relationship destined for dabaru i went brainless at the last word
oluwizard (m)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #45 on: June 12, 2006, 05:44 PM »

What is all this ? going out with a lady and forget about sex ?  When other hackers out there are enjoying her. Please proved me wrong  80% of nowadays  babe  are not worthy waiting for [sex]  see most of them will never tell u the truth  they will be doing like holy girl in front of the person they want to marry but another person outside will turn them to sex manchine

I can trust them and i don't think about them. If i have time i will post my  own experience here on my good 9yrs relationship and  what i get there is heartbreak
Abeg if u have girlfriend f**k her well so that when she go u will not be the BEST losser [of your time and money]
babadee (m)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #46 on: June 12, 2006, 07:09 PM »

Sex? Hmmmmnnn
i thinks its one of the pillars of a great relationship , abi when you are not a priest why should you not strafe? and besides, its a wonderful thing, sooooooooooo sweet!
so to all you ladies, keep strafing but one at a time is decent, two is a bitchy and three is a most def whore
LiquidMind (m)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #47 on: June 12, 2006, 09:43 PM »

 Shocked       Shocked     Shocked    Shocked   sex    Shocked   Shocked          Shocked            Shocked
Linda M. (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #48 on: June 13, 2006, 02:48 AM »

Give me a break!  Women want sex in a relationship as much (or even more) than a man does.  Does a good relationship require sex?  You bet it does!  Women who say otherwise are either faking, or frigid, or afraid.  All human beings desire physical contact and physical pleasure from another human being.  In a healthy relationship, sex is absolutely compulsory.  Key word here is "healthy". If you love your mate and he/she loves you back, you probably can't stay away from each other!
dokey2g (m)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #49 on: June 13, 2006, 08:56 AM »

Hey Linda M  l feel u !!!!!!!

Healthy sex is the key and u all out there knows that Sex is inevitable in a Healthy relationship.
beyunce (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #50 on: June 13, 2006, 10:42 AM »

Nop nt compulsory
woleprof (m)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #51 on: June 13, 2006, 01:48 PM »

hmmmm, we speak as if its only the guys enjoys sex.

well, sex is not love in all ramifications, so i suggest it should be scrapped Lips sealed
thelma2 (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #52 on: June 13, 2006, 03:03 PM »

ZIP UP! Y'all  Cool
zarah (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #53 on: June 13, 2006, 03:06 PM »

This is why sex is neccessary in a relationship.
need i say more?HuhHuh?? Grin Grin
bluenubian (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #54 on: June 13, 2006, 03:11 PM »

u right linda m, women like sex just as much as me, women jus know how to keep it down, while men rather have their thing think for them
zarah (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #55 on: June 13, 2006, 03:16 PM »

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habibat (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #56 on: June 13, 2006, 03:22 PM »

 Huh Huh Huh Huh Huh Huh Huh Huh Huh Huh Huh Huh Huh
             it depends on d companions opinion,if dey want 2 do it dey should but if either d girl or d boy isnt in d mood 2 do it Undecided Undecided they shouldnt force each other.
          hmmmmmmmmm but i think its compulsory Wink Wink Wink Wink
zebudaya (m)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #57 on: June 13, 2006, 05:23 PM »

It depends on what kind of relationship it is , if its going to lead to marriage then no, i can wait. But if its like regular relationships  and I'm buying the chick flowers, choclates, driving her around like I'm a taxi driver, spending money i don't have on expensive dinners. Hell yea it is compulsory like banktort said "she took my money". I got to beat it up like an a$$ whupping. What do I look like Santa Claus?

for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction!
chinani (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #58 on: June 13, 2006, 07:34 PM »

Yeeparipa, don't die. Maybe you should go ahead and visit Nigeria. That way you can know how you feel about her when you see her. (You can also see your relatives too.) Now, I understand that you feel/think she lied to you. Can you forgive her for that? Ask yourself that. Maybe you can swallow some pride and forgivenot telling you to, but ask yourself.
eslynera (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #59 on: June 13, 2006, 09:55 PM »

Don't confuse yoself sooooo much Undecided
Jus follow God's commandments, not earth problemz! Undecided
"DON'T HAVE SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
simple n clear!!! Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue
Edeh.Onos (m)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #60 on: June 13, 2006, 11:41 PM »

this is a complex topic and as such requires adequacy.
what kind of relationship?if it is premarital, then offcourse sex is out of it.
on the other hand if it is during a marital relationship,then the brief answer is Yes.God designed it not just for pleasure sake,but to also sustain a marital relationship.
Edeh.Onos (m)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #61 on: June 13, 2006, 11:56 PM »

stop
thelma2 (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #62 on: June 14, 2006, 09:29 AM »

Quote from: Edeh.Onos on June 13, 2006, 11:56 PM
stop

stop what? marital or premarital sex?

@yeeparipa
what goes around comes around. Huh
woleprof (m)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #63 on: June 14, 2006, 02:26 PM »

@Yeeparipa

i so much feel for you. Cry Cry Cry Cry

but i think you should get your own post so we don't change the topic here.

please, i mean no hurt
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