Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?

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ddizzle (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #96 on: July 12, 2006, 06:32 PM »

thats what sex is supposed to be, sacred rite then wht is the honey moon for i was built on principles and dats hw i stand
Coco29 (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #97 on: July 12, 2006, 07:14 PM »

what else would you be in a relationship for companionship  Huh  Huh i have ma girl friends fa that.
haywhy (m)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #98 on: July 12, 2006, 11:41 PM »

                  Ladies! ladies!! ladies!!! only God can save you. Huh
First i have some questions for ladies saying there should be no sex b4 marriage
1. How many of you do not feel horny at all. If u dont u r not normal, its as simple as that Shocked.
2. How many of you do not have premarital sex, so why saying its bad, well most olodos do tell their chilren that during their time they were the most brilliant in class Huh
  Scientifically, sex is a physiological need (yo medicos, hope u understand) just like food, air, shelter e.t.c so you need it and your body will ask for it. As for guys, i'm sorry for them 'cos dem go take kini collect dem wife.
   The only set of ladies that may have REDUCED sexual urges are the virgins but for the tasters, laye laye they will search 4 it always. Guys, havent you noticed that some hot ladies come your way soo cheap & u begin to wonder, they are those trying to maintain but eventually couldn't just like most ladies got disvirgined by bad boys who never married them. Abi na lie. u ladies talk now, i say make una talki talki talki uh uh de lie your self
diddy4 (m)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #99 on: July 12, 2006, 11:46 PM »

@hayway
let me tell u something man, something you dont know, wont kill you. if u dont know what horny is, u havent felt it b4, how the hell will you get horny? Huh Huh Huh

haywhy (m)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #100 on: July 12, 2006, 11:54 PM »

  One more thing, Our God is never selfish & why should u be selfish. Grin
He gave you this thing for free, so why should you be selfish with it. Grin
Just for someone to bake his cake in your oven, how many minutes will it take? Grin
And even if u see a generous guy, u go shout. Why?
 Anyway, you guys should just wise up because behind MOST ladies there is a guy who looks at her as a sex object & the lady might not even be aware  (usually nonentities or just a simple playa) and there might be a nice guy reserving or with which the lady makes to beg for her (usually cool headed guys who are in love "husband").
Never blame her if she's caught cheating if you dont give her  Grin . It is necessary but, DO IT WITH RESPECT & ladies even if u want it still try & pretend a little.
  MAY THEY NOT COLLECT MY WIFE WITH TIBI OR KINI    AMIOOOO JESU
haywhy (m)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #101 on: July 13, 2006, 12:00 AM »

@DIDDY
1. U will get horny as a result of physical changes in your body starting from puberty.
2. U will get horny from the media.
3. U will get horny from your environment.
4. U will get horny from friends & family even in school.
ddizzle (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #102 on: July 13, 2006, 12:19 AM »

i dint tell you i was a nun bt i jst dnt think that its right to leave as main thing in your relationship,
Raymand (m)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #103 on: July 13, 2006, 09:00 AM »

My girlfriend lets me sex her all the time, it keeps us close
Coco29 (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #104 on: July 13, 2006, 09:46 AM »

Quote from: Raymand on July 13, 2006, 09:00 AM
My girlfriend lets me sex her all the time, it keeps us close


sweetie don't ever use the word sex in that manner it is so not sexy- sex her- or sexing o god no  Grin
Coco29 (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #105 on: July 13, 2006, 09:48 AM »

another thing ladies how r u going to know if your husband can f*ck or his d*ck has no use, the same way you buy fruits i say you get ya man try or feel it before u take it home  Grin
haywhy (m)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #106 on: July 13, 2006, 10:05 AM »

  @coco uh i trust una barbados in LON.  It must truly be tested because after marriage ladies know that goods bought are not returnable although most guys knows that the seal are already broken Shocked And no right thinking person will ever pray for divorce.
   Anyway i smell you ooo. Keep representing  Kiss Kiss Kiss
babymine (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #107 on: July 13, 2006, 10:18 AM »

@ the Q

Naah, it's not if you guys aint married yet. But if you're married then it is.
Coco29 (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #108 on: July 13, 2006, 10:23 AM »

Quote from: haywhy on July 13, 2006, 10:05 AM
  @coco uh i trust una 9jas in LON.  It must truly be tested because after marriage ladies know that goods bought are not returnable although most guys knows that the seal are already broken Shocked And no right thinking person will ever pray for divorce.
   Anyway i smell you ooo. Keep representing Kiss Kiss Kiss


I AM FROM BARBADOS not nigeria, that is why i do not understand the importance you guys put on marriage, sex and life in general, why can't nigerians just relax and enjoy life, as for divorce it happens no big deal, i was very happy when i left my husband.  Grin
vokal_guy (m)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #109 on: July 14, 2006, 02:31 AM »

sex is good,  i guess d biatch noticed nigga ain't making a move and well she got it from an igbo guy,  nna men after a hard days work, man must to relax( wit another guys girl Smiley
olutomiwa (m)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #110 on: October 27, 2006, 05:36 PM »

NO,but its NECESSARY for you to KNOW the kind of ENGINE YOU ARE BUYING,so that you don,t  end up saying HAD I KNOWN.
markawoku (m)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #111 on: June 27, 2007, 11:34 AM »

what about na situation whereby you discovered aftered marriage that she's frigid? will you now have sex for the sake of making children only?

Da Mayor
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #112 on: June 27, 2007, 11:42 AM »

Hmm,  why dnt we ask ourselves "is money important in a relationship"? if it is(on the chicks part), then sex is (on the guys part).
joyraph (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #113 on: September 24, 2007, 10:18 AM »

 Shooooooo, Sex is not compulsory in relationship when u r not married, even d holy bible condems sex b/4 marriage
lamidebaby (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #114 on: September 24, 2007, 10:42 AM »

Answer is no.
Bblak (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #115 on: September 24, 2007, 11:14 AM »

Absolutely not!
Ma`bullet
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #116 on: September 25, 2007, 08:49 AM »

Sex is not necessary in a relationship but necessary in marriage,it all depends on what you want out in the relationship.l ve been in a relationship for 8yrs now,and till this moment we have not made love, even though most times l feel the urges and he too does, but he always says its not the best time.Each new day,God shows us ways we could show each other love than just having sex.we started out as friends,then started dating and we will be getting married next year, in jesus name, Amen.

Wink Wink Wink Kiss
bouboubee (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #117 on: September 25, 2007, 12:13 PM »

sex brings an abrupt end to the product called  LOVE
Adebam (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #118 on: September 25, 2007, 01:38 PM »

Sex is not the bedrock for any  r/ship.Sex during relationship period is nothing but a sin- fornication.
.many guys take it that if they dont sex their babe how will she knows that they love her. it is not true they only want to eat the forbidden fruit (forbidden bcoz it is done before marriage)

Ladies wise up
Sobola75 (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #119 on: September 25, 2007, 01:49 PM »

Very very very important. But it must not be one sided. Both party must be enjoying it. I and my babe do enjoy our sex life, we derive a lot of pleasure from it. Infact, it makes us understand ourself bether. 
lancaster (m)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #120 on: September 25, 2007, 03:12 PM »

sex may not b compulsary but it is neccessary,it brings about closeness,intimacy but without sex it is not an intimate relationship.although i would rather call it making love and not sex.
dheerajdj
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #121 on: May 03, 2008, 04:10 PM »

ya sex is compulsory but only to some extent but not after that, its a physical feel which is required to build a strong relationship,
tRoOE (f)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #122 on: May 04, 2008, 11:37 PM »

What kind of sex are you people talking about Grin Grin

@topic
No it isn't Wink, since love concur it all Kiss Kiss Kiss

But to some, sex is compulsory since their relationship is based on sex
kpolli (m)
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #123 on: November 02, 2009, 03:17 PM »

obviously yes cos if u had sex wit her, she for carry belle for another man?
bonax
Re: Is Sex Compulsory In Relationship?
« #124 on: November 02, 2009, 04:01 PM »

is very compulsory if you are ready to marry her
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