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desiree (f)
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Okay, here goes---you have been dating this guy/girl for one year plus, you have talked about marriage and he/she has met your parent, he/she even slightly suggested that you moved in together but you refused the offer due to personal reasons, everything seem to be going well with the relationship. He/she suddenly asks for an open relationship.  What does this imply?? Is he/she seeing somebody else?? |
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pascal (m)
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This issue of two dimensions to be honest, I am quick to say he /she is seeing another person and it look as this other person is treating he / she very well. But again I think he/she is working on your emotion and endurance so you have to be careful in handling is case. You may be in another relationship order than this but watch your back when you move. Guys and Ladies will surely react differently in this particular situation so the ball is your court  |
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eveseh (f)
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that's not bad
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uche1 (m)
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depends on you, as for me is not bad as a guy
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Big Shishi (m)
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only playaz want to do that, any girl tell me that, i'll nnuck her teeth out!
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Big Shishi (m)
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only playaz want to do that, any girl tell me that, i'll nnuck her teeth out!
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2cantango (f)
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If my man told me he wanted an open relationship - I'd kick his a$$ outt@ my life  |
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Big Shishi (m)
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2can, our responses are very similar  |
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2cantango (f)
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Shishikins - that's because we are mature peeps who know what is right and wrong in the game of lurve   |
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Hotstepper (f)
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that means shez not interested in the relaionship and might be seeing someone else
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Big Shishi (m)
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true that 2can
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funkilicious (f)
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Oh my days. Open relationship is when u can be datin n u are lalowed to date sumone else while your dating your girl/guy. However, d other person will not be your boo, d person will just b for fun.
Hope u didnt say yes. because that is wrong. A guy asked me that as well. n when i told my friends; they explained it to me. So do not take that at all.
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desiree (f)
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Oh my days. Open relationship is when u can be datin n u are lalowed to date sumone else while your dating your girl/guy. However, d other person will not be your boo, d person will just b for fun.
Hope u didnt say yes. because that is wrong. A guy asked me that as well. n when i told my friends; they explained it to me. So do not take that at all.
Why did you assume it was me in this situation?? Okay, I was just wondering what would make a guy ask for an open relationship and why a girl would agree to be in this type of scenario? |
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funkilicious (f)
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Sorry, my bad. ok?, i think if d person ask for an open relationship. he/she still want to fool around. that's my opinion.
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Shagari2 (m)
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'close' the relationship
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Coco29 (f)
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i would welcome it with open arms |
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desiree (f)
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i would welcome it with open arms Seriously, would you really accept it bearing in mind that he might be sleeping with other girls and there is the risk of passing on something dodgy to you? I would like to hear your point of view, if you don't mind  |
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Coco29 (f)
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Seriously, would you really accept it bearing in mind that he might be sleeping with other girls and there is the risk of passing on something dodgy to you? I would like to hear your point of view, if you don't mind sweetie , condoms and i am a bit of a wild child so i see nothing wrong with as long as we use protection and i am serious |
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desiree (f)
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Okay, i get you girl i thought you wouldn't be going out to play and only the guy can be open. Okay thats cool, a very different opinion there. |
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Coco29 (f)
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although 4play has calm me down a bit, well hell a lot
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desiree (f)
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hahhahhhhhah Good on ya!!! |
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zarah (f)
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In my opinion , an open r/ship does not necessarily mean he/she will be sleeping around, it just could mean lets leave our options open till we figure out what we really want.
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Rhodalyn (f)
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Just Quit the relationship!! no One should tell You this!
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desiree (f)
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@zarah
Nope, An open relationship means no comittment and freedom to date/engage in sexual activities with another person.
Polyamory is the practice of having more than one loving relationship at the same time, with the full knowledge and consent of all partners involved. The relationships are long-term, intimate, and usually (but not necessarily) sexual. Persons who consider themselves emotionally suited to such relationships may define themselves as polyamorous, often abbreviated to poly.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Open_relationship
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kisha
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@zarah
Nope, An open relationship means no comittment and freedom to date/engage in sexual activities with another person.
Polyamory is the practice of having more than one loving relationship at the same time, with the full knowledge and consent of all partners involved. The relationships are long-term, intimate, and usually (but not necessarily) sexual. Persons who consider themselves emotionally suited to such relationships may define themselves as polyamorous, often abbreviated to poly.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Open_relationship
lol, it all DEPENDS on a lot of factors, I can tell you it has its benefits too trust me, because ive experienced it, though its HELLA HARD, wow talk about emotions being turned off and on, its not easy but the good thing about this is, you to are going to be TOTALLY HONEST with each other and in some cases this usually is a good thing because then u relate as good true friends, because even at the end of the long run, if btoh of you end up together, you will both appreciate each other for your honesty, and well if u don't end up together at the long run, you would still make the best of friends because there would have been an understanding as to why the other party is going his/her way, well thats the good side to open relationships, the bad side? heheheh , you gon have to be strong to deal with a LOT of things, but take it, what don't break you will make you stronger, so its all up to you, |
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JoyceAgim (f)
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nah,no open rltnship.bt close one.infact no hole sef to peep,where the main thing can happen if u kw what i mean |
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arianne (f)
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its like having havin your cake and eatin it,on one hand, u have the love of someone and on the other, the liberty to screw someone else! its a bad game because one party always gets hurt. hell no!
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chika98
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He just wants to introduce the side chic to you. That's all
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arianne (f)
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He just wants to introduce the side chic to you. That's all
u go girl, exactly my point. |
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Trendiest (f)
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huh, i like this topic because my BF was talkin marriage before bt since we had this big fight n made up again,its bein diff, even tho he was d one that came back, he dosent talk about marriage anymore and says he's still trying to figure out wt he wants from d relationship, ASSWIPE technically,readin between d lines, he's prolly indirectly askin 4 a open relationship, maybe?  ?? |
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