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steve49ja (m)
Possibility Of Falling In Love With Someone Overseas
« on: July 08, 2008, 01:10 PM »

is it possible to fall in love with some you met online (never met in person) and who is overseas?
what are the possiblities of it working out

if happened to you, how did u go about it?
or do you just turn it down and it doesnt go any further
Sagamite (m)
Re: Possibility Of Falling In Love With Someone Overseas
« #1 on: July 08, 2008, 01:19 PM »

You can be very interested but I doubt you can be in love.
rokiatu (f)
Re: Possibility Of Falling In Love With Someone Overseas
« #2 on: July 08, 2008, 01:21 PM »

Quote from: steve49ja on July 08, 2008, 01:10 PM
is it possible to fall in love with some you met online (never met in person) and who is overseas?
I do not believe in online dating. it does work for some people though. my friend met someone online the person is base in london and she is here in Australia and there relationship is working perfectly
steve49ja (m)
Re: Possibility Of Falling In Love With Someone Overseas
« #3 on: July 08, 2008, 01:34 PM »

i do hear about people who there's work out
just curious

@ rokiatu
have your friend ever met with the other person??

@topic
will faithfullness be found in their dictionary?

i met this  girl online
of recent she call about an hr 45mins
i call in the morning and before bed time
she says she'll be coming over exactly a year from now
i do like this girl so much she is the wallpaper on my phone and laptop
is it mere obsession and i need to work on myself or is love at first sight real?
am so jealous when she sends posts and don't mail me immediately i mail her
steve49ja (m)
Re: Possibility Of Falling In Love With Someone Overseas
« #4 on: July 08, 2008, 01:39 PM »

i liked her right from when i saw her pic andthats what i meant by love at first sight here
rokiatu (f)
Re: Possibility Of Falling In Love With Someone Overseas
« #5 on: July 08, 2008, 01:42 PM »

Quote from: steve49ja on July 08, 2008, 01:34 PM
@ rokiatu
have your friend ever met with the other person??
They have not meet yet but she say he plan to come here soon
Moyola (f)
Re: Possibility Of Falling In Love With Someone Overseas
« #6 on: July 08, 2008, 01:44 PM »

Yer,,,,,,,,,,,,,it happenz,
buh i doubt if such lasts long, some do tho,,,,,
knw of sum peepz, n the relationship is kind of working out,,,,,,

Quote from: steve49ja on July 08, 2008, 01:39 PM
i liked her right from when i saw her pic andthats what i meant by love at first sight here
what if u meet her in person n u end up not liking her as much?,,,,,,,,,,,,,it happenz u knw
steve49ja (m)
Re: Possibility Of Falling In Love With Someone Overseas
« #7 on: July 08, 2008, 01:49 PM »

@ rokiatu

how long have they been together?
just wondering, whats the possiblity of such when you live in different countries???

or its just not a good idea??


@moyola
thanks for checking this out and talking on it


yes i know it does happen, even vice versa
she does send me photos each day
though i havent received any today


don't know what to think


no one is talking about fidelity/faithfulness Undecided
iice (f)
Re: Possibility Of Falling In Love With Someone Overseas
« #8 on: July 08, 2008, 01:54 PM »

Goodluck! Hah i don't think so sha.

Busta where you dey oooo Grin Grin
ibkaye (f)
Re: Possibility Of Falling In Love With Someone Overseas
« #9 on: July 08, 2008, 01:59 PM »

Hmm, oga, there is no such thing as 'love at first sight' trust me, relationships like this rarely work, basic friendship is better, don't put your heart into this too much, so gbo? Smiley
rokiatu (f)
Re: Possibility Of Falling In Love With Someone Overseas
« #10 on: July 08, 2008, 02:02 PM »

Quote from: steve49ja on July 08, 2008, 01:49 PM
@ rokiatu

how long have they been together?
just wondering, whats the possiblity of such when you live in different countries???
or its just not a good idea??

they have been together for two years now yes two years and my friend does not have any boyfriend here, as for he I do not know if he have any but my friend trust he very much. long distant relationship need to be base on true love, because Long distance relationships are hard and require trust and honesty as for you and your lady love, I will say give the relationship a try and see if she really is the one. because if u really love some one then you will wait for them.the relationship can definitely work as long as both you are determined to make it work. I can unserstand what going through ur head, but it better to give it a try and see for yourself.
CARUSO (m)
Re: Possibility Of Falling In Love With Someone Overseas
« #11 on: July 08, 2008, 02:24 PM »

@Poster

Longtin!!

Leave it!!! Wink

steve49ja (m)
Re: Possibility Of Falling In Love With Someone Overseas
« #12 on: July 08, 2008, 02:29 PM »

@caruso
you sabi jare

@ibk
wetin u find reach here?
lonelypal (m)
Re: Possibility Of Falling In Love With Someone Overseas
« #13 on: July 08, 2008, 02:52 PM »

@ poster

Well its has happened to me too,  as a matter of fact still happening though,but i had to back out because i dnt beleive its ever going to work out, i mean someone outthere allthe way in Germany, can only do it if i be WIZARD Grin
steve49ja (m)
Re: Possibility Of Falling In Love With Someone Overseas
« #14 on: July 08, 2008, 03:05 PM »

my guy thats the fact ohh
but really its a reality youll find hard to accept

hope thats not why you are named lonelypal
if na I'm i can give you my grand ma
she de naija ohh
if you go shag am too much you go pay medical bills oh
steve49ja (m)
Re: Possibility Of Falling In Love With Someone Overseas
« #15 on: July 08, 2008, 03:08 PM »

 ;d
spikedcylinder (f)
Re: Possibility Of Falling In Love With Someone Overseas
« #16 on: July 08, 2008, 03:17 PM »

The topic says can you FALL IN LOVE WITH someone you met online. Of course!!! It doesnt neccessarily have to lead to marraige or the whole "till death do us part" thing but you can definately build a beautiful relationship from that.
Caruso, oya na! Cheesy Cheesy
steve49ja (m)
Re: Possibility Of Falling In Love With Someone Overseas
« #17 on: July 08, 2008, 03:27 PM »

mmmm
a beautiful relationship?HuhHuhHuh?
without seeing each other???
how possible is that??
are you cool with mere calls and mails?
demo47
Re: Possibility Of Falling In Love With Someone Overseas
« #18 on: July 08, 2008, 03:30 PM »

personally, i only date locally,  if a female is out of town i am not getting involved talk less of over-seas,  but it can work, I have seen it work a few times,
rokiatu (f)
Re: Possibility Of Falling In Love With Someone Overseas
« #19 on: July 08, 2008, 03:31 PM »

Quote from: steve49ja on July 08, 2008, 03:27 PM
mmmm
a beautiful relationship?HuhHuhHuh?
without seeing each other???
how possible is that??
are you cool with mere calls and mails?
it seems like u doubt it, my dear do what u think is better cause long distant relationship is not easy
lucabrasi (m)
Re: Possibility Of Falling In Love With Someone Overseas
« #20 on: July 08, 2008, 03:35 PM »

its a global world and the world has moved on from just meeting men/women in bars,parties or through friends, it works and its got more advantage because you r both going into it with specifics on what each person wants out of the wholething and the kind of people without the awkward dates/questions e.t.c

i know a guy that it worked out for,he s my elder brother's friend and he met a nigerian girl online living in the united states while he was living in london,they met up in nigeria after a couple of months and hit it off,they continued over the phone untill the guy got a visa to the states and  stayed with her while there,apart from a few arguments which they sorted out according to him they went back to nigeria together and got married and the girl returned to the states briefly to sort out her final move to nigeria while the guy searched for a job,he has a good job now and the girl is living with him in nigeria now,last i heard they don't have kids yet
spikedcylinder (f)
Re: Possibility Of Falling In Love With Someone Overseas
« #21 on: July 08, 2008, 03:38 PM »

Quote from: steve49ja on July 08, 2008, 03:27 PM
mmmm
a beautiful relationship?HuhHuhHuh?
without seeing each other???
how possible is that??
are you cool with mere calls and mails?

Yea, a beautiful relationship. I say this assuming that you and your internet friend would subsequently meet and become friends and see how it goes from there.
Or, wait a minute,  were u asking for the whole love thing to develop without EVER meeting? you go old o!
Gamine (f)
Re: Possibility Of Falling In Love With Someone Overseas
« #22 on: July 08, 2008, 04:03 PM »

I'm overseas, come and fall in love ooh!
spikedcylinder (f)
Re: Possibility Of Falling In Love With Someone Overseas
« #23 on: July 08, 2008, 04:07 PM »

Where is overseas sef? Kazach? Wink Grin
manchibabe
Re: Possibility Of Falling In Love With Someone Overseas
« #24 on: July 08, 2008, 04:08 PM »

there is a possiblity of falling in love with someone,,,but there is no guarantee that the love will last forever to lead to something tangible, 50/50 chance
manchibabe
Re: Possibility Of Falling In Love With Someone Overseas
« #25 on: July 08, 2008, 04:08 PM »

@ spykecylinder
maybe cotonou or seme Grin
CARUSO (m)
Re: Possibility Of Falling In Love With Someone Overseas
« #26 on: July 08, 2008, 04:10 PM »

Quote from: spikedcylinder on July 08, 2008, 03:17 PM
The topic says can you FALL IN LOVE WITH someone you met online. Of course!!! It doesnt neccessarily have to lead to marraige or the whole "till death do us part" thing but you can definately build a beautiful relationship from that.
Caruso, oya na! Cheesy Cheesy

kai aunty una don dey love up already?

Ok, where make we start?!

should i sing u a love song?! Grin
steve49ja (m)
Re: Possibility Of Falling In Love With Someone Overseas
« #27 on: July 08, 2008, 04:19 PM »

ofcourse she says she gon come this time next year
e far ja re
so much investment(calls,text and mails) go on this men
good thing is e say e go keep intouch till e reach here next year

what if she finds love where she is, she decide to stay away?



@gamine


hahahahahaha
hope youre not 70 and above
and hope youre not a feminine obasanjo
and hope its not ghana,iraq,ceme or cotonou
 Grin

rubi (f)
Re: Possibility Of Falling In Love With Someone Overseas
« #28 on: July 08, 2008, 04:26 PM »

@ Topic I personally will not encourage you to develop too much interest in someone who you found on line because excitement on line is different from when you meet the person if you want you can just relate with the person as normal Gods creature, until you meet the person face to face because eye contact never lie
spikedcylinder (f)
Re: Possibility Of Falling In Love With Someone Overseas
« #29 on: July 08, 2008, 04:28 PM »

Quote from: CARUSO on July 08, 2008, 04:10 PM
kai aunty una don dey love up already?

Ok, where make we start?!

should i sing u a love song?! Grin

Ehen nasee my love face >> Grin.
But seeing as you have no pic in your profile. . . I no do again! Angry
CARUSO (m)
Re: Possibility Of Falling In Love With Someone Overseas
« #30 on: July 08, 2008, 04:29 PM »

Quote from: spikedcylinder on July 08, 2008, 04:28 PM
Ehen nasee my love face >> Grin.
But seeing as you have no pic in your profile. . . I no do again! Angry

 Grin
u go do by force u never halla!
u wan make i put my picture for NL?
pictures are delivered privately, too fly for the public! Grin
u know what it is!!!! Wink
whitelexi (m)
Re: Possibility Of Falling In Love With Someone Overseas
« #31 on: July 08, 2008, 04:31 PM »

Quote from: spikedcylinder on July 08, 2008, 04:28 PM
Ehen nasee my love face >> Grin.
But seeing as you have no pic in your profile. . . I no do again! Angry

Just thought u should know, I've been following your posts. I'll add u to my yahoo messenger when i get home from work today and if you're online - i will chat with u. Then i will ask for your number and call u, there are a few things i need to tell u.
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