Will You Trust Her Enough?

Hell to the no no no no no.   You only tell her stuff you want to get back to your husband.  You have to play that card very fucking close.   Remember blood is thicker than water, she is going to run and tell it no matter what she says.

How are you sure she's telling you everything? She may also cease to tell the day your brother will say I do.

I think its relative. . . .Under the right conditions sha . . .

The relationship is always one sided anyway. She'll have a lot to lose if you decide to  flip the coin on her one day.

not if you want to dig your grave and jump into it. i don't even trust myself not to talk of trusting someone else, i only trust God. i trust my hubby to a certain level. i try to get along with my sister in laws, got 4 of them but i try to keep them at arms length.

Roflmao

Am not saying that but what about you? will you extend that kind of trust on your own sister in law?

My sisters-in-law are very close to my sisters and I. I tell you, If we (my siblings and I) didn’t all look alike…I mean seriously, eerily alike, people would think my parents had all girls and the guys are the in laws. IMO if everybody knows and understands there are boundaries that shouldn’t be crossed; I see no reason why there should be a problem.

That aside, I don’t understand why some sisters feel the need to compete with their brothers’ wives. Jeebus! They are too busy minding how the wife served them water in a slightly dirty cup on a silver tray even though she knows they like the gold tray, they don’t realize their husband is sleeping with the young nubile thang down the street until he after he’s run off with her. Then they turn around and blame the wife…Oh she brought her ogun idi le to their family, before she came divorce was not even in their dictionary, her family on the other hand, had divorce 10 generations ago and then they. . .

Wait…what was the question again? Oh right my answer is. . . Yes absolutely.

No.

people are bound to protect their own too. I won't be sitting quiet if my brother is dating a snake that masked herself as a lady. Men do not have that sixth sense to discover a trap but we women do as long as the jealousy factor is taken out.

No, can't trust her, she will blab to her brother.

What does it matter if she isn't telling me everything? It's not like we are doing trade by batter with the information. I don't need to sit down to count the words to know I've told my sisters in law more than they have me. . . why? I am a talker.

My 3rd oldest brother's wife hardly talks but she listener, does it mean she's delibaretely hiding something from me or she is mentally taping everything I say, to be filed and used later as a weapon? No. She's is not a talker,  besides, what are am I hiding? I mean if I have a secret that could potentially  harm me if it gets out,  then I deserve everything I get for telling someone else.


I think the whole "oh don't trust your sister in law" is a product of the US vs. THEM mentality but the thing is. . . there is no THEM, she is married to your brother, that makes her US.

LMAO! A woman of few words. Just NO and that's that.



Okay, this a different issue,  of course no sister should sit back and watch their brother fall into the hands of Jezebel. However, we are talking about the first surge of jealousy^{(Still don't understand why)} and pissing contests some women get into the moment their brother brings a girl home. They don't have any reason not to trust her but they've already started building walls. How do you think she'll react? Build her own walls of course and soon you have bricks colliding with bricks. I say let her give you a reason before you go Kung Fu Panda on her behind.