Help! My Friend Wants To Marry A Mobile Police Woman

A childhood friend of mine recently introduced his future wife to me. The lady looks like a weight-lifter. He later told me that the lady is a mobile police woman who lost her police husband 3 years ago. She is a sergent and carrys a loaded pistol all over the place. I am not too comfortable with the impending marriage because my friend is the harmless type. Very reserved and hardly talks. He adimitted that the lady gave him 4 years but says apart from from shouting on him atimes, that she will make a good wife! I need advice on how to handle the issue without hurting him or incuring the wrath of Madam Mopol! Thanks

Isn't she human, who's going to marry them if we (men) don't, you berra face your own problem, do you know who you're gonna end up with? maybe a militant.

Easy Bros, are you advising or cursing?

I'm not cursing, just a piece of an advise. The truth is as long as you're not married, you don't know who you're going to end up with, and since he has found love in a policewoman, then let it be _{i really don't know what's wrong with marrying a policewoman}

Every woman has the right to be married.

Dont let tht woman fink u're against her marriage, think of the loaded sh1t in her hands bro, that thing pops out bullets.

what's the difference between a police woman and ordinary woman??? they have the same physique and all that, if your friend truely believes he can live with her then who are you to interfere

WITH A 9ger POLICE WOMAN, i fear them,if the guy fucks up he'll end up throwing his ass to cell for a him to sleep there for a whole nite.Just let him settle for a ordinary girl

I'd say you should mind your business but then again, what do I know??

 

na wetin dey worry u gan gan be this

na bullet dey fear u 

@ Topic, I know most times people's nature of job affect their personality in marriage and men are scared of that alot but instead of being intimidated because she is a mobile police and might be harsh at home see it as a way of celebrating her success. Not all women are like that.

I am so concerned because he is my very good friend! I am not prentending that I don't know what self choice is all about. The guy is a super introvert that cannot hurt a fly! My bloody business is that he wanted my honest advice. Look,  family and friends a show a lot of concern on whom one marries! If there is trouble 2moro, it is still friends and family that will try to settle the matter first before the courts.

My mother is a retired army major and he was married to my dad for many years. Being an army Major did not stop her from personally cooking all my fathers meals inspite of housemaids & batmen available at her disposal.

She was trained in firearms but chose not to keep any in the house because of us children.

A lot of my mums friends were in the army with civilian husbands and while growing up I never heard of any of them locking their husbands up.

One thing I did notice was my mum having a totally different personality when she was at work to when she was at home and the times I went to see her at work I was quite shocked at how "hard" she could be. But at home and even up till now she is a wonderful mother & wife and both sides of the family just love & adore her so much.

A man will always be a man irrespective of how powerful a woman is (my dad certainly was) and I personally think if the love between them is pure & deep you friends should accept the situation & support the union.

True love in the real sense of it is not easy to come by.

And wat is the crime in doing so?
She no be human being, my friend, tell us that you are in love with a mopol woman and tell us you need help on how to go about it.
Every human deserves to be loved and should be given a chance to love back.

@ chair cover:

I tire for Nigerians abi na Africans oh.

with their hangups and hangdowns and whatnots.

everything na wahala.


I cannot marry this, I cant date that, just unnecessarily picky over nothing.

Thank you so much for the beautiful and real life comment.
One of my greatest confusion has been cleared. I will suggest to him to ask the Police woman if the gun will be kept outside their home! Tempers can flay up and bullets can also hit the target!

Not many men like their friends to tell them how to handle their marital affairs.
That's between man and wife.
If he needs advice, then he'll ask.